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I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?

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Question - (23 June 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2008)
A female Aruba age 30-35, *ilyflower.n writes:

Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him.

He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?

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A female reader, lilyflower.n Aruba +, writes (26 June 2008):

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I gave him my phone number but he still won't call. I do not know what his phone number is.

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2008):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntWell if he seems unapproacheable, then how about trying to speak to him via social networking site's ie myspace, facebook, bebo and so on, or whatever one's are popular from where you're from?

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A female reader, lilyflower.n Aruba +, writes (25 June 2008):

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I'm kind of shy and he is one of the most popular kids in school. His friends make it uncomfortable to approach him and he is hardly ever alone.

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntIn that case then my dear, i'd say get chatting to him a bit more, and go out somewhere with him, grab a coffee or something, and spend some time together :) then you'll know eachother alot better, thus It'd be clear whether he's into you like you are him! :) x

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A female reader, lilyflower.n Aruba +, writes (24 June 2008):

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We talked like a few minutes or he just wants to say hi or something.

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2008):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntWhen you say that You've talked a bit, how much is a bit? It may be because he doesn't really know you, or hasn't really had the chance to talk properly? Just be bold here sweetie, ask him out for a coffee or something? x

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A female reader, lilyflower.n Aruba +, writes (23 June 2008):

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I don't know he is really flirty with other girls but with me he never seems to know what to say.

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntWell is he a shy kinda guy? It could just be like, he's too shy to say anything back along those lines if you get what i mean? He may like you too in that way, sounds like he's definately interested the way he stares across the room at you or whatever it is, but he may just need bringing out his shell a bit?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2008):

The fact he stares at you gives away alot.

Usually, when a guy stares at a girl - he likes her.

It also depends on his expression. Tell him exactly how you feel, if you find this too hard to do face to face - maybe a letter would be a good idea. You have feelings for him, maybe a chrush. But do you want a relationship with him? Imagine it for a second and think how it would feel. Think about what he's like as a person and if he'd make you happy. Also, if you have anything in common. If you know you want to be with him - get to know him well, talk to him often. Trust me, if you spend time with him and telling him how you feel - it'll soon become obvious how he feels about you too, especially if you ask! :) Good luck!

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