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30 July 2008: Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
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I'm so disappointed by my guy's x-mas present!
Q. This Christmas I am so upset. I know it sound shallow but I got my boyfriend of 3 years a really nice skateboard (which was a very thoughtful and expensive gift) because he uses his really old beat up one everyday. The board I got him is amazing and ...
A. 26 December 2008: Consider yourself lucky, my boyfriend hadn't got me anything :s yet my ex did, how messed up is that? Lol..... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?
Q. What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...
A. 24 December 2008: Also, maybe try some online dating? Not necessarily a dating site, try this place moko.mobi its just a chat site, nothing more, nothing less, send a picture in and see who compliments you and wants a chat :) ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?
Q. What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...
A. 24 December 2008: Right, dont be calling yourself fat and ugly, everyone is beautiful in their own way. Think sexy, think confident, and you will become it. Believe me, confidence is the key thing here, it will get you noticed:) ok try this, do a bit of research on ... (read in full...)
Thought of her cheating crop up in her mind. How do I get over this paranoia?
Q. Hi guys looking for some advice. I am 25 and have been in a relationship for 8 years with my girlfriend, we have a son and Everything has been great in our relationship but for a few years now I have suffered with really intense thoughts that she ...
A. 24 December 2008: This must be really hard for you :( has any thing ever aroused suspicion that she may be cheating for real? Well if not, then personally i'd say you just gotta keep reassuring yourself, that you're just being daft, i've been through this situation ... (read in full...)
Should I be getting married if I have thoughts like this about another person?
Q. hi i'm really confussed and don't know what to do, i'm 27 and have been with my partner now for 10 years and have 2 lovely girls and we are getting married next year. everything between us is perfect i love him and our life together is good, but ...
A. 24 December 2008: It doesn't make you a bad person. I guess its just human nature to get those feelings toward someone, even if you are involved with someone. Lifes a meanie sometimes and likes to throw obsticals at you when you really don't want them. If you know ... (read in full...)
How can we fix his problem with condoms?
Q. Maybe someone can give me some good advice. I'm not on the pill and use condoms for b/c. The problem is my new bf can't seem to cum with one on. After a while I get dry and have to finish him off with my mouth. It's very frustrating for him and me. ...
A. 24 December 2008: Pick up some of those textured condoms, they may well help :) x... (read in full...)
I really love gothic, black metal music. Does everyone go through this phase?
Q. i am a gothik girl but don't wear a lot of black.. but love the music.. black metal .. death metal..because of the state of war i lived in... anyways,i just wanted to ask if this a normal phase?i mean does everyone get threw with it?because it is ...
A. 24 December 2008: Screw what other people think. For me, the 'goth stage' kicked in when I was just 13, ever since, it's been a way of life :) ... (read in full...)
Goths, Emo's, Chavs, what's the point of all this labeling?
Q. Hey, Okay, basically, people like to label people, but why do they take it so far? Goths: They are supposed to be depressed, they wear black, and people don't like them because they are either different or they think that because they wear bla...
A. 24 December 2008: It is completely stupid how people get labeled and put into groups, but I guess its just all conformity to the social norm of groups of people. It just goes to show how everyone (nearly) has practically become a sheep, following their herd. I dont ... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...
Q. Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...
A. 24 December 2008: Ok i've got a little update which changes things slightly, well, apparently, for now at least, the guy who I really have a thing for and his gf have gone their seperate ways, and we're going out again on saturday, to me this all looks very ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to try weed?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...
A. 24 December 2008: I'll also add, as a warnin, but not in a smartarse way, gettin stoned aint always that great, if you over do it in the slightest it could make you extremely sick, it literally made me turn green before and I was puking for hours, then eventually ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to try weed?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...
A. 24 December 2008: I aint been a smartarse by the way lol. Ok so yea, no ones gonna stop you from tryin it obviously, if you're that determined to do so. If you're allergic to cigs then just dont smoke it with tobacco. And a word to all the other aunts who may look ... (read in full...)
Ladies please answer: He's 19 years younger is it ok to bring sex into the relationship?
Q. I have a good relationship with a younger man who is 19 years younger than I am. It is ok to consider sex in our relationship? The age thing won’t get in the way? Ladies please respond. Should an older woman have sex with a younger man? Any...
A. 23 December 2008: Age is just a number, as long as its legal then do whatever comes naturally :) ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to try weed?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...
A. 23 December 2008: My advice huni, dont go anywhere near the weed. Speaking from experience, it could easily lead to harder drugs. Starting off smoking weed when I was around your age, ruined most of my teenage years, even led to me dropping out of school by the age ... (read in full...)
I've fallen hard for him but it's long distance...
Q. Ok im in a long distance relationship, but I think I want a non available, not really that long distance guy. This is all based from a chat site by the way, anyway, I met this guy for the first time the other day. I've told him before that I really ...
A. 23 December 2008: Ok just to add, my current ld-bf is round about 150 miles away, and this other guy who I spent the night with is only like, 20 miles, if that, away. Basically im at a loss, I dunno if that really meant anything to him, it must have, surely? But all ... (read in full...)
Do women like swallowing? My girl says I don't taste good!
Q. Was chatting to my fairly new partner today, and got onto the topic of oral sex. Our sex life is good, with lots of oral sex as part of it. Ive always assumed she enjoys giving almost as much as receiving, when we see each other (fri to sunday a...
A. 20 December 2008: Personally, I do swallow, and I also get jaw ache after a while, I dont mind the swallowing, I think its part and parcel of giving a blowy, the jaw ache thing does get a bit tedious after a while though, none the less, I still enjoy doing it for the ... (read in full...)
B/f never initiates sex unless he's been drinking
Q. Of course in the beginning things are always hot and heavy but lately my sex life has went to shit. I'm just looking for suggestions of how to boost back up his interest. I'm not looking for the typical "get naked and/or start rubbing up against ...
A. 20 December 2008: Ok I must say some of the answers saying that the guys cheating on her or just aint interested are actually bang out of order saying it as bluntly as that, it could be a million and one reasons other than that ranging from some sort of psychological ... (read in full...)
Anything I can do than just wait for this girl to be ready for a relationship?
Q. alright, i've been with a girl that has had quite a few ''bad'' relationships for quite a while now, and just last night she told me that she didn't think she was ready to be with anyone yet, she say's she likes me, and i can personally say i've ...
A. 2 August 2008: Glad i somewhat helped :D hope everything works out for you and good luck me dear x angel x... (read in full...)
He ended it and now we are best friends. Is there a future for us?
Q. I was with my ex for just under a year. We lived together, and every thing was hunky dory, we got on amazingly, sex was good, we were great companions etc. We had a problem sometimes with sex drives, as in his was all the time wanting it, and my ...
A. 2 August 2008: The thing iv noticed about couple's who have split up and decide to stay friends is that they either cant cope with the whole just friends thing and chuck it away all together or they stay good friends for a while, then get back together, and seeing ... (read in full...)
How do I get over him now that he's no longer my boyfriend and he's getting married?
Q. My boyfriend is getting an arranged marriage. He is in his country right now and he is having the wedding sometime this week or sometime next week. I cannot even call him my boyfriend anymore, because he is someone else's now. How do I stop thinking ...
A. 2 August 2008: God thats a terrible situation, you must be devistated! Doesn't he have any choice at all about this marriage? Im not too clued up on these things. I really wouldn't be able to advise you on how to get over this as its such a drastic thing to be ... (read in full...)
Anything I can do than just wait for this girl to be ready for a relationship?
Q. alright, i've been with a girl that has had quite a few ''bad'' relationships for quite a while now, and just last night she told me that she didn't think she was ready to be with anyone yet, she say's she likes me, and i can personally say i've ...
A. 2 August 2008: Just give her some time, but in the mean time be there for her as a friend, show her that you care and maybe she'll feel more ready to get back in a relationship (with you, of course) than even she expected x... (read in full...)
After 2 yrs of being hopelessly in love with him we are together! Why are my feelings fading?
Q. Three years ago I started dating a guy, and we lasted four or five months, but then he cheated on me with a girl who he later fell in love with and only got over about a month ago. We didn't speak for a while after our relationship ended, but he ...
A. 2 August 2008: Why do you feel stupid and worthless hun? Maybe that could have something to do with it, or it could be just knowing that he cheated on you before, or maybe its just because you've been trying to get him, or wanting him, for so long that your more ... (read in full...)
Poll: When did you have your first kiss and the first relationship?
Q. Hey just a quick thing. Can you guys/girls tell me when you had your first kiss and when you first had a boyfriend/girlfriend? I'm 16 and never been kissed, never had a boyfriend, nothing. Just wanna know when you guys/girls had your f...
A. 2 August 2008: Hmmm... I had my first proper kiss when i was 12 i do believe, and first proper relationship (by that i mean lasted more than a couple of months) i was 14, and it lasted just over a year :D x... (read in full...)
Religion (feel free to debate and discuss!!)
Q. Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
A. 31 July 2008: Dr.pete im loving what your saying there, and i what i mean by athiest with a hint of scientologist is that the odd bit here and there makes more sense to me personally than any other religion. So what i was gonna write anyway.. Whats everyone's ... (read in full...)
UPDATE- we fight a lot, but could it still work?
Q. Hi, I just had a break up, my boyfriend and I were together for 2 years. We still have feelings for each other,but we have been fighting a lot. I have now figured out that the fighting has mostly but not always been because of me. I am insecure and ...
A. 25 July 2008: Id say, explain to him that your getting help for your own issues, there for you hopefully wont be doing the same stuff as before that caused the arguements between the two of you, tell him exactly how you feel about him and you do want to try it ... (read in full...)
His feelings can't just go away, can they?
Q. Okay, I'm dating this guy. I'm 15, hes 16. Things are not the same anymore as I haven't seen him as much. He said things have now flopped/failed between us. Before I told him I liked him he used to do all these cute ...
A. 25 July 2008: Ok im not a male, but thought id leave a short reply anyhow. Firstly, feelings gradually fade, you cant just stop liking someone over night, have you asked him about all this? And secondly, that saying, absence makes the heart grow fonder. Maybe ... (read in full...)
I hear that he likes me, and I like him, but he's asked out other girls. What do I do?
Q. I like this boy that I've known for AGES. I never used to fancy him, we didn't even talk that much, but now we're closer and we've become really good mates, and I now fancy him. I sometimes used to catch him looking at me, but thought it was beca...
A. 25 July 2008: Well personally i think... He's a young lad, all young lads just want the girls, all the horemoans and such, its just typical human nature that he's keeping his options open. Now the next thing, he may not have made a move on you or whatever because ... (read in full...)
I have strange bites all over me after having sex outside with my boyfriend. What is it?
Q. Ok this question aint really got a relevensy to this whole site, but some in a way! Lol well, tuesday night me and my boyfriend were in a field, chillin out and all that, and ended up having sex there lol but yesterday (wednesday) i seemed to have ...
A. 24 July 2008: Thanks me darlins, the bites have actually calmed down alot today, and iv been out n bought some antiseptic spray, antihistamines and some e45 itch reliefe cream along with some insect repellent so im pretty set for fixing the bites up and ... (read in full...)
How do I give my boyfriend space when he doesn't even say he needs it?
Q. i'm 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now.. i know its not that long but we're crazy in love! we see eatchother partically everyday..but my friends tell me that they think i should give him some space..cause im like always with him ...
A. 24 July 2008: Simple, if he hasn't said that he wants space, keep things exactly how they are! You cant run your relationship on what your friends are saying he's probably thinking blah blah blah, cos how are they to know? Sounds to me like, because you spend all ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my sister and want to have a sexual relationship, how do I seduce my sister?
Q. Me and my sister are really close and only a year apart. but i am atracted to her more than most girls. does anyone have any idea as to how i can seduce my sister to have a sexual relationship?...
A. 22 July 2008: Ok you cannot attempt to seduce your sister, you cannot have sex with her, you cannot do anything whatsoever like that with her, it is incest, its against the law. It's the kind of offence you could be put in prison for, and you would never ever see ... (read in full...)
Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?
Q. Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...
A. 22 July 2008: And to the anonymous person who said that this guy'll go to jail, be on the sex offenders register n whatever else, in england its legal at 16!!... (read in full...)
How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 21 July 2008: I met my current boyfriend in a field lol ... (read in full...)
When I shave down below I get a rash. How can I stop it happening?
Q. When i shave Below i get a sort of shaving rash, but their squeezy! Is this normal what can i do 2 stop it!? x...
A. 21 July 2008: Try waxing, you wont get the whole shaving rash problem, and it lasts sooo much longer! ... (read in full...)
Does an abortion hurt under local anaesthetic?
Q. i'm 16 and i've just found out that i am 8 weeks pregnant. I know without a doubt that I am going to have an abortion, my mind is made up about that one. I just want to know what the least painful method of abortion is as i'm terrified of general ...
A. 15 July 2008: I had an abortion at the beginning of the year, and i swear anywhere in the uk you can get an abortion pill, i did! You take one, one day, and then another the next day, i cant quite remember what each one does, i have a memory like a goldfish lol ... (read in full...)
Do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok?
Q. My current bf smokes pot three times a day,but he seems like a nice guy, my ex wants me back (he does not smoke weed),do you think smokimg pot affects a future marriage or that is ok? Help...
A. 15 July 2008: Personally i dont think smokin weed affects relationships, i mean, im gonna admit that i do smoke it, my boyfriend smokes it, my friends smoke it. The only way where iv seen it affect a relationship is when it comes down to money. I dont think that ... (read in full...)
I have a problem with not buying the clothes I like! I want to be fashionable so why can't I?
Q. Hi and thanks for reading this :) The truth is,i have a problem with clothes, shoes and all that stuff.When i see something i like i tend to try it on, but then i dismiss it and then feel awkward. I feel like if i were very, very plain, but i'd...
A. 1 July 2008: Could this be a confidence issue? Personally i think that twix came up with a good response, get one of your friends to go out and buy you a new girly cute outfit, give them the money of course, then go on a girls night out, and just see how great ... (read in full...)
Are there many who are "saving themselves for marriage"?
Q. How many Christians who go to church on a regular basis do you think are saving themselves for marriage these days?...
A. 30 June 2008: I've never come across someone in Britain who believes in saving themselves for marriage. Personally I don't believe in it either, but then again i'm no christian or anything, I don't believe in religion full stop. :)... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 26 June 2008: Well if he seems unapproacheable, then how about trying to speak to him via social networking site's ie myspace, facebook, bebo and so on, or whatever one's are popular from where you're from?... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 25 June 2008: In that case then my dear, i'd say get chatting to him a bit more, and go out somewhere with him, grab a coffee or something, and spend some time together :) then you'll know eachother alot better, thus It'd be clear whether he's into you like you ... (read in full...)
How do I let her know I am still interested?
Q. Ok, sorry if this is all over the place but theres a lot of info that i want you all to know so that you can put yourself into her shoes. thanks! My first girlfriend that i had about 4 years ago and i still keep in contact via email, even thou...
A. 24 June 2008: I was just going to reply to your message, but if there is more details that you would like to give, then my myspace is on my pro, so add me, and then send me a message with these details and i'll get back to you then ok? x ... (read in full...)
Are the good times we have worth all this arguing?
Q. Hello all, thanks for reading. I've been with my boyfriend for nine months now and it has really been a roller coaster ride. For the first two months of our relationship we were both living in Arkansas, then I moved back to Montana to be with my ...
A. 24 June 2008: That sounds alot like me and my ex, we were long distance for a number of months and was exactly the same, great when we're together but he was always arguing when we were apart, he's always be calling me, asking what im up to, who im with, for a ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about what he will get up to while I'm gone?
Q. I am 16 years old (I know my display age is wrong) and I have been with my bf for almost 2 years. I have always had security issues and problems with trust. Anyway, the other day I asked him if I could look through his MySpace just to ease my ...
A. 24 June 2008: This first girl that you talk about, it was a long time ago he asked her out if it was at the beginning of your relationship, also paying a compliments 95% of the time doesn't mean anything, its just a nice thing to do i guess, don't your male ... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 24 June 2008: When you say that You've talked a bit, how much is a bit? It may be because he doesn't really know you, or hasn't really had the chance to talk properly? Just be bold here sweetie, ask him out for a coffee or something? x... (read in full...)
I need to know if he really likes me, or is he just flattered?
Q. Let's say his name is Zach and he stares at me alot. I liked him for over a year now. We have talked a bit. Finally I admit I like him. He is supposely really happy. Does he like me or is he just flattered?...
A. 23 June 2008: Well is he a shy kinda guy? It could just be like, he's too shy to say anything back along those lines if you get what i mean? He may like you too in that way, sounds like he's definately interested the way he stares across the room at you or ... (read in full...)
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