B/f's family hates me and is making me miserable
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. I love him very much and he makes me happy. We only have one problem his family. They are such busy bodies and have to know everything about our relationship. They treat him like a child and he is ...
A. 12 April 2011: If he's such a wimp that he lets his family walk all over him and you, you are fortunate to have escaped. Or would you prefer to marry him and have the lot of them for in-laws? Find yourself a man with the sort of glands attached to him that start ... (read in full...)
I told fiance I was going to miss being with her while away and she started to cry. What did I do wrong?
Q. I am a 28 year old guy. My fiance is 24. We are separated for a few days as I had to go on a work related trip (in my hotel room now) and she could not come with me because of her own responsibilities. When we were in bed the other night, I told ...
A. 12 April 2011: Women have odd ways of processing information, and make odd connections. For instance, if she asks if you like her blue dress better than her red dress, and you say you prefer the red, she may decide that since she knows the blue one actually ... (read in full...)
Why did my husband fondle me then go masturbate in the bathroom when we were at a friend's house?
Q. I do not have any idea how to title this question. I am 31 and my husband is 32. We were at some friends' house recently. He came to me and asked to come with him. We went into a bedroom and he closed and locked the door. He said to me to get ...
A. 12 April 2011: You know, for once in a long and happily sordid life I haven't the slightest idea. Maybe the thought of copping a feel in a strange house got him going, or maybe he briefly fiddled with a girl in a bedroom at a party when he was in high school, ... (read in full...)
Why is it that it's still a man's world, every porn mag is for men, every nude scene in a movie is of a woman? When are woman ever truly going to be treated as equals?
Q. I'm sick of the world that we live in, the expectations and pressures on women today, the young girls who suffer and have low self esteem due to the images we see everywhere, in films, magazines, billboards etc.. Why is it that it's still a mans ...
A. 12 April 2011: You're comparing apples and oranges. Shall we begin? As far as "purchasing porn mags full of naked men" goes, actually that's for gays. There are infinitely more gay mags with naked men in them then there are nude-male publications tar... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I don't know if he loves me...
Q. I love my boyfriend but I don't know that he love me... We have been together almost a year and a half. We met in Law school. He's older, is in the middle of changing his career. We we first got together it was casual. He was in a rocky relationsh...
A. 12 April 2011: Grimly amusing that for even the most intelligent of women, love can be an addictive drug. Have you ever considered that you may be hooked on the feeling rather than the person, and that emotional rollercoaster is what you're hanging onto? After ... (read in full...)
I regret telling him. How do I put things right?
Q. I've been at 6th form since last September, and a guy who went to the same school as me goes there. We never spoke at spoke, but over the past 8 months, we've bonded so well, to the point that we both trust each other so much. We have a lot in ...
A. 12 April 2011: The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it. said the Persian poet Omar Kayyam (1048-1141) and things haven't changed. ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me not to be happy that my married lover had a baby with his wife?
Q. My lover just had another baby with his wife. I am very sad and disappointed about this. Is this normal? I love the guy so much and he loves me too. We have been together for two years and has been married for three years. I have always respected ...
A. 12 April 2011: Even if he leaves his wife for you, you're still in trouble, because he's already demonstrated he's non-monogamous. And when this sort of man leaves his wife for his mistress, a position is automatically created.... (read in full...)
He says he got rid of his porn for me. Should I believe him?
Q. i have a question that is mostly for guys.. i want to start by saying that i am very aware that when a girl tells a guy she wants him to get rid of his porn, usually he just hides it.. but in my case, i never told him how i felt about it, the to...
A. 11 April 2011: Have you thrown out your romance novels in return?
How do you think men like being compared to those tall, wealthy studs who always have the right thing to say, always live in big mansions, have the most enormous....
yacht you've ever seen an... (read in full...)
My wife to be revealed her sexual past. I feel sick to my stomach
Q. I am 31, she is 29. She is drop dead gorgeous. We fell in love a year and a half ago when she was one of my day nurses when I had spent some time in the hospital recovering from a tumor in my knee (non cancerous) During our time dating, I would ...
A. 11 April 2011: A friend of my wife and mine, a very beautiful university student of 22, is putting herself through university by being an upmarket escort- legal here btw. You'd never know it to look at her. Mind you, your g/f was honest, and getting through 3 ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend had bad dream. How can I comfort her?
Q. My girlfriend had a bad dream that she saw her best friend die. She cries every time she tries to talk about it. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? ...
A. 11 April 2011: Tell her you had an incredibly vivid dream about having a threesome with her and whichever teenage movie star is particularly hot these days. When she tries to murder you, screaming it will never happen in a million years, point out her dream isn't ... (read in full...)
BF is not the same since he started hanging out with misogynistic band members. How do I handle this?
Q. Hi, I've never written for help about this kind of thing before but I really don't know who else to ask. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now and, until recently, things had been great. About six months ago, though, he start...
A. 11 April 2011: If he's actually in the band, remind him that the definition of a musician without a girlfriend is 'homeless'.... (read in full...)
I didn't feel anything while having sex, is this weird?
Q. Sex wasn't really how I thought it would be.. I've have it twice now, and no times did I actually feel anything. Well, I felt him like. Inside me, but I didn't really get a buzz, or any particularly nice feel out of it. Of course the first time h...
A. 11 April 2011: As a barely post-virgin, you have no physical idea of what you like sexually, or how it should feel, just what you have previously fantasized might be nice. At a very basic level, sex can be compared to any sport or hobby- from riding a bicycle to ... (read in full...)
GF doesn't have long to live. Please help me with suggestions on handling our limited time together.
Q. Me and my girlfriend which i met on internet and never meet physically so far. Still both of us are strongly connected and feel love for each other. We were thinking to get married by the next year. We had a plan to meet and spend a week tog...
A. 11 April 2011: If you haven't spoken to her via webcam or at least on the telephone, this may be a huge fiction, she may not even be female, and I hope I am wrong. But it's possible- the net is a very treacherous place.... (read in full...)
I get more pleasure out of dry humping then sex!
Q. Is this strange? I would rather keep my clothes on and dry hump, then have sex. I feel nothing with sex, but dry humping really gets me in the mood and safe to say, turns me on Is this strange?...
A. 11 April 2011: This might hearken back to your high school days when full intercourse was impossible for one reason or another. If so, it's the thrill of the forbidden and the recollection of those snatched opportunities for luuurrrrve that's turning you on. ... (read in full...)
I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man?
Q. I have never approached a woman in my life... am I a failure as a man? I have had three significant relationships in my life. One isn't a great example because it happened over the internet, but the two others happened whenever I was approached i...
A. 10 April 2011: From the way your question is written you are well-spoken so will have no luck with the average scrubber, which is to your advantage because you don't meet girls like that in the art galleries concert halls and live theatres (NOT films- no ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said I was really tight, will this be a problem the first time we have sex?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend who is 19 have been dating for about 7 months. We have talked it over and feel that we are both ready for sex. I'm a virgin while my bf is not so we thought starting with oral sex etc would ease me into it and ...
A. 10 April 2011: The first time ANYONE has sex is a problem just because it's all so new. No-one ever had any fun learning to ride a bicycle or play tennis either. The first time it was actually available to me (1973), with a girl who was (amazingly) actually ... (read in full...)
I cannot stop having these fantasies about a celebrity!
Q. Ok, this may sound funny, but I really worry about it: I cannot stop having these fantasies about a celebrity! He's at least 19 years older than me and I just can't control myself when I think about him! it's crazy and I worry about it! (I wont say ...
A. 10 April 2011: He's a celebrity simply BECAUSE you and millions of other girls just like you are fantasising wildly about him. And he got that way because the people who gave him his original chance and are promoting him took a gamble on his becoming popular so ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I believe my married lover when he says he doesn't sleep with his wife
Q. Im too much depress now, because my boyfriend is too busy and he have wife and 4 kids.. i understand of his being busy because his a General surgeon he always have operation, he told me that if he ddn't do his job the patient get died.. he is ...
A. 9 April 2011: I was this guy myself at one point, except my wife and I had no children. But when I told my younger girlfriend that my wife and I weren't having sex I was actually telling the truth. The reason my wife and I couldn't split properly because the ... (read in full...)
I find the thought of hooking up with guys repulsive. Does this mean I am gay or bi?
Q. I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... ...
A. 9 April 2011: Most boys your own age are vomit-inducing so no wonder you're not attracted. But the fact you are interested in one indicates you do have some straight feelings. You're at a point in life where your newly-awakening hormones haven't balanced out yet, ... (read in full...)
Will my strange body movements during an orgasm turn off a guy?
Q. This is kind of an embarrassing question for me. I haven't had sex in my relationships yet, but when I'm on my own (meaning masturbating) I feel that when I orgasm I squirm too much up until when I arch my back becoming stiff, and my lower body ...
A. 9 April 2011: A woman's orgasm is the applause a guy likes to hear during sex. And a standing ovation is the best thank-you a guy can receive. If you're having one, let us know as loudly as possible!!!... (read in full...)
She's 30 years younger than me, should I not get involved?
Q. I met a woman on holiday who is 30 years younger than me. We both know this is not long term but we enjoyed ourselves. She wants to visit me in my home. My children are grown up and don't live at home. I am separated for 6 years. Is it best to ...
A. 9 April 2011: Make sure she's of the same nationality and culture as you are, to avoid being taken for a ride by someone merely after your money or a visa.... (read in full...)
His parents walked in on us having sex and his mother looks at me like I'm not good enough for him now
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 and a half years and we have been having sex for about 4 months. So one day I was round his house and as his parents were out and we thought we would have sex. But in the middle of it his ...
A. 9 April 2011: It's the Mother-in-Law syndrome. This is going to sound odd, but is true. Mothers have a curious attachment to their sons, and feel that any woman sexually involved with him is a harlot stealing the little innocent whose widdle bumbum mummy used to ... (read in full...)
My fiancé found out he has cancer and left me. How can I go on?
Q. My fiancé found out last winter as part of a physical exam for work that he has aggressive stage 3 cancer. His parents moved him into an apartment near the university hospital for treatment and he has been in chemo and radiation and there is some ...
A. 9 April 2011: Deathbeds are not as they are portrayed in movies, and the poor fellow is drifting away from you and, I assure you, everyone else, preparing himself to do alone what must be done alone. I am sorry, but ultimately the condemned man must be allowed ... (read in full...)
Is my fetish a way of coping with my troubled childhood?
Q. In my early teens I always thought submissive women were weak, forced into their situations and probably beaten by their boyfriends/husbands. I did extensive research on the subject; it truly interested me. I could not understand "these people" for ...
A. 7 April 2011: My wife (together 6 years, married for 4) was brought up as an only child in a loving, upper-middle class home, parents still together after 45 devoted years (she was born at the midpoint of their marriage.) Yet she likes to be spanked, and told ... (read in full...)
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