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writes: Ok, this may sound funny, but I really worry about it: I cannot stop having these fantasies about a celebrity! He's at least 19 years older than me and I just can't control myself when I think about him! it's crazy and I worry about it! (I wont say who he is, he's a singer though) and I think is this normal? He doesn't even know me but I love him! plus I feel it's perverted of me to think of someone who is 19 years my senior in an extremely sexual way, I know there is no chance of me being with him so I don't want these feelings of him. Reply to this Question
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (10 April 2011):
He's a celebrity simply BECAUSE you and millions of other girls just like you are fantasising wildly about him. And he got that way because the people who gave him his original chance and are promoting him took a gamble on his becoming popular so they could make money backing him- that's the way the entertainment industry works.Yes, it's perfectly normal- your great-grandmother probably sighed nightly into her pillow smitten with hopeless love for the silent-screen heartthrob Rudolph Valentino in the early 1920s. (Look him up on wiki and have yourself a giggle.) The best thing about having a crush on a famous person is that since they're YOUR dream lover and no-one elses, every single thing they do is exactly as you want it, and they're physically and emotionally perfect for you. And why not; after all, you're the one who invented the whole thing. Enjoy the naughty daydreams but remember IRL your dream lover sometimes forgets birthdays, burps and leaves the toilet seat up like every normal man on earth. Someone real will come along soon enough- when he does, just be mature enough to realise that he's a flesh and blood man, not someone you made up, and cut him some slack.
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