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writes: Im too much depress now, because my boyfriend is too busy and he have wife and 4 kids.. i understand of his being busy because his a General surgeon he always have operation, he told me that if he ddn't do his job the patient get died..he is 20 years older than me but that's not bothering to me bcoz i love him so much.. I always undertsnd all excuses about work and his family .. Im confusing he told me that the first important in his life is his kids and the 2nd is me! How about his wife?i dont know if his telleng the truth that he and his wife is not sleep together.. Reply to this Question
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (9 April 2011):
I was this guy myself at one point, except my wife and I had no children. But when I told my younger girlfriend that my wife and I weren't having sex I was actually telling the truth. The reason my wife and I couldn't split properly because the housing market was so bad, and we were sleeping in separate rooms (House has been sold and we have since split). After a year the girl left me for someone closer to her own age, and I was very unhappy but did not try to stop her because she was doing the right thing, and I sadly told her so. I haven't seen her in years but hope they are happy together.
You should do the same and find someone for yourself alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): First of all, you shouldn't be sleeping with someone who is married at all! Secondly, he is lying to everyone. I would suggest you get out of this 'relationship' and find someone of your own, who is free ...
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 He is a cheater therefore a liar and your right in not believing him. I would advise you to leave this man alone and don't ruin his marriage and his family. Do you seriously think he is not sleeping with his wife, all cheaters sleep with the wife and the lover but tell the lover they have not had sex with their wife in years! Really hard to believe him because if he is getting the sex from the lover and not the wife than he has no reason not leave the wife and go stay where the sex is at with the lover. But this is a BOLD lie all the time they always sleep with both women!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Of course you don't know if he's telling you the truth because he lies to his family every day. This is a man who's use to lying, and lying to you is no different.
Think of the family you're ruining by being the other woman in his life. He will never leave them for you, so what are you hoping to get out of this relationship? It's best if you end it and find a guy who ISN'T already taken.
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