Can't understand why my willy just goes limp?
Q. I'm 19 years old and have been "fooling around" with girls for a couple years now. The thing is, recently, I was with my girlfriend, and we were really getting into it. I had a super hard erection that was ready to go. She gave me a bit of a blow ...
A. 21 December 2005: Stop relying on self pleasure and join the real world.... (read in full...)
My guy has to get permission from Mum before he can see me. Is this a deal-breaker?
Q. I am 18 and have been dating a guy of 19 for seven months. I believe he is my one true love. His mother is possessive and controlling, and he has to ask her for permission to see me. She often says no. He lives around the corner and this is killing ...
A. 21 December 2005: Let him go. Do you really want a man so weak he is letting his mother control his love life? ... (read in full...)
When my girlfriend is more horny than I am, she guilts me into sex, then says "forget it!"
Q. Hi, basically my girlfriend is horny 24/7 and always wants sex any given moment. I like sex, but I'm not as horny as her! Whenever I'm not in the mood and I'd much rather sleep, I just say "I don't feel like having sex tonight babe", or somethin...
A. 21 December 2005: Not your fault, nor your girlfriend's. What are you complaining about?... (read in full...)
How can I forget about my wife's past?
Q. My wife has had vaginal intercourse (about 48 times with three guys, 6+12+30), anal intercourse (one time each with two guys), and/or oral sex (about twenty five times from four guys) with six men other than me. She has given manual and/or oral sex ...
A. 21 December 2005: There is only one option: Divorce.... (read in full...)
How do I get the approval from my family about who I like?
Q. Fallen in love with my sisters friend, bearing in mind she's 16 and I'm 21 About five months ago i broke up with my boyfriend, we were dating for 2 years, i broke it off cuz i was afraid of commiting. So not to soon after i ended things with D...
A. 21 December 2005: You can only introduce him to your family as someone who is very important to you. What makes you think you could lose him? If you lose him because your family do not approve, then he wasn't worth it in the first place.... (read in full...)
I had sex with him the first time we dated...now, he hasn't answered my message. What's happening?
Q. Hi I met up with a guy from an online dating site on Sunday. I'm 32, and haven't been in a relationship or had sex for a year (yes - a year!!). The dating site is a good one - doesn't seem to have many of the usual players on it. Anyway - ...
A. 21 December 2005: I would say, text him, let him know you would like to see him again. If there is no reply, forget it and think to yourself you both had a good time. No-one used anyone else.... (read in full...)
How do I turn my life around when I miss him so much??
Q. Very Confused: I've written a couple of questions on here asking for help and to recap on my problems.... I got dumped a month ago by a guy who i would have done anything for. I loved him entirely although he was selfish and had little respe...
A. 21 December 2005: First off. Get away from the phone. Did you enjoy the sex with your ex? If so, great, now look ahead.
Use men for your enjoyment until you find the right one. Neither of these are and you know it. There is no time limit, shuffle them and find... (read in full...)
How do I turn my life around when I miss him so much??
Q. Very Confused: I've written a couple of questions on here asking for help and to recap on my problems.... I got dumped a month ago by a guy who i would have done anything for. I loved him entirely although he was selfish and had little respe...
A. 21 December 2005: First thing first. Get away from waiting by the phone. Did you enjoy sex with your ex? If so, great - now forget about it.
You need to get away from depending on these men to help your esteem. Use them, have a great time sex-wise, ... (read in full...)
How do I find out for certain that he likes me?
Q. Hello, its me again, thank you all for your time in answering my questions by the way, it means alot. I know that i keep on about this but its really bugging me. I love flirting with him and when he looks at me i get butterflies in my stomach an...
A. 21 December 2005: Hey, snog him to death. Enjoy it. Make the next move. If you are rebuffed, tough. Go on to the next one.... (read in full...)
Intellectually, we're a great fit together. I just don't know if I love her as much as she loves me!
Q. Hi there, I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 25. We've been together for a year and a half. We get on really well, have a lot in common and the sex is good. She gets on well with my family and me with hers. We spend pretty much all our time together ou...
A. 21 December 2005: Is a great relationship the basis of living with someone for the rest of your life?
If you are asking these questions now - imagine how you might feel after the marriage certificate has been signed and you are in there, permanently. Skip out now ... (read in full...)
Can't deal with the thought that my wife cheated and had unprotected sex with someone else!
Q. My wife had an affair and I am struggling to get the graphic images out of my mind. We have worked through most of the problems in our relationship that lead to an affair and continue to communicate better than in the past. The biggest part tha...
A. 21 December 2005: Why did your wife turn to someone else? Unprotected sex is not the problem, why she did it, is. Find that out and you might find out whether you love her.... (read in full...)
People think we'd be a perfect couple. Everyone, it seems, except the guy I fancy!
Q. Im a student at the moment and living with four other people. I really like one of the guys I am living with and have done for about a year now. We all moved in together in September and I have grown to like him even more than I did last year. H...
A. 21 December 2005: Are you happy to continue being a friend or are you simply jealous that his attention is on another woman?
I would say he is happy to continue as he is: having you for sex when no-one else is around, and when there is, bye bye to you - temporar... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend avoid talking about our future?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We both say we love each other, yet he never will bring up the future. Whenever I try to, he always says he does not know if we will be dating. We are both in our twenties and I just want to ...
A. 21 December 2005: You have asked him and discussed this question with him and he has said, he is not sure. So what is the problem? He is obviously not serious about the relationship. If you are happy with that, stay with him. If you are not happy, find someone ... (read in full...)
He's a christian and I have had sexual fantasies about him! I'm embarrassed.
Q. I've told my bf (because I want to be honest with him) that sometimes I have sexual fantasies about him which was really maybe a bad thing to do on my part because he he reacted calmly and was actually a little surprised and then he told me he never ...
A. 21 December 2005: You are not a perv, but he probably is. Drop him, get a guy who would really appreciate a passionate sexy lady like you. You are wasting your time on this one and religion is no excuse.... (read in full...)
My friend copies everything I do...it's getting to me! Help
Q. I've got a big problem with one of my friends. She copies me with everything! I told her I wanted a dog, so did she. I told her a babysitted for my younger siblings, so did she, even though her younger siblings can take care of themselves. I to...
A. 21 December 2005: First off, copying you is flattering. Your friend admires you and wants to be like you. Secondly, I can understand why you are getting frustrated - you want to be your own person and not be copied all the time. Stick with her, try not to get ... (read in full...)
Just come out of a long term relationship... What are the dating rules nowadays?!
Q. I came out of a long term relationship the beginning of the year and have started to date again recently, but i am worried in case i am expecting too much too early, what is the dating rules? I have been seeing a guy for 3 weeks, once or twice a ...
A. 21 December 2005: I agree with Suzie. It is early days. give the guy some space. If he is interested he will respond.... (read in full...)
I still can't stop the internet gay porn thing...why am i so weird and what should i do?
Q. Alright I am fucked up, From what I can remember I always seemed to be attracted to girls, but I never had much luck with them growing up. I seemed to always end up in the friend zone or for being to nice in jr high and high school, i figured it ...
A. 21 December 2005: You are not weird. Continue to enjoy your gay porn, after all, it is totally harmless. Only by experimentation and experience with both sexes will you find out what it is you are seeking. Good luck... (read in full...)
We have 4 kids together and I've never been with another man... but he treats me so badly!
Q. Hello, I really need advice to my problem. Pease aunties help me. I have been with a guy for 13 yrs now. We both met at age 14 (we both the same age) and my mom heard that I was with this boy and threw me out; however being so young his mom took me ...
A. 21 December 2005: Why walk out? Kick this failure of a man out immediately. Get whatever professional help you have available to help you support the kids.
Don't be an abused woman. Take the helm, steer a better course and protect the kids.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and the father of my child won't stop his constant lies!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. We are expecting our fisrt child. My boyfriend lies about things and I guess he doesn't think I know or I won't find out. It's just gotten to the point that I don't believe anything that he ...
A. 21 December 2005: Please consider seriously any action which would separate you from your baby's father. It may well be that the birth of your first child together will encourage him to get a job. You have not said whether you have worked. Have you thought about ... (read in full...)
I think he's my soulmate, but he says he doesn't have feeling for me anymore!
Q. Hi! I'm in a serious relationship for almost 5 years. Just a few months ago we broke up. He said he's fed up with my attitude, that I'm a nagger and other stuff. Later on I found out that he's involved with another girl and that girl was the pers...
A. 21 December 2005: Hi
Love doesn't come into this. Dependancy does. You meet quite a few soul-mates along life's road as Mr Ed has said. You should forget the guy and travel a lot further. Good luck.... (read in full...)
Trying to win the heart of the girl I want. Should I go all-out on New Years Eve?
Q. There's a girl I'm crazy about and was told by her friends that she likes me. We get on like a house on fire. But when I asked her out she said it was too soon, cause she had just broke up with someone. But she wishes she was ready. Then we kissed ...
A. 21 December 2005: Yes of course it is wise. This girl needs a guy to take a bit of control. If you don't she will think you are being weak. Go for it. Ask her out for NYE and enjoy yourselves and if you get into bed together, well done!... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy who is on a "break" from his girlfriend
Q. Hey, I like this guy who already has a girlfriend but the thing is he's on a break with his girlfriend. We spend a lot of time hangin out with eachother and we kissed after a long while. I don't know what to do, cuz i really like him and i know that ...
A. 21 December 2005: If he's on a break from his girlfriend, then things are not going right with her. All is fair in love and war. If you like him - get him!... (read in full...)
He doesn't reply to my texts, even though he said everything's OK. Should I just forget him?
Q. Hi I'm a very confused girl at the moment. This boy that I've been kinda seeing has just come home from America for Christmas after been gone for 2 months. He rang me from America and everything seemed fine between us, but since he has come home...
A. 21 December 2005: Hi,
It is only the 21st. Give him time. Not too much mind. Have your messages gone to his mobile? He may not be getting them. Find out where he is and nail him, you have a right to know where you stand. If you can't nail him then go out over... (read in full...)
I'm young, studying law and have my whole life ahead of me. But all I want is a baby!
Q. I need some advice - I'm going mad! I'm 18 years old and I am at university studying law. I have a great family, loads of friends and a great boyfriend. But I really want a baby!! I've wanted one on and off since I was 13 and now I really want to...
A. 21 December 2005: Put your law study on hold. Talk it over with your boyfriend and tell him what you want. Simple isn't it?... (read in full...)
I rarely see my long-distance girlfriend. Now I'm falling for a coworker...
Q. I really need help. I have not slept in 2 weeks. I am seeing my girlfriend for four years. For the last year it has been long distance. This has recently started to get to me in that we only see each other once a month. I truly thought this w...
A. 21 December 2005: You know the answer already. Go with your heart and stop long distance travelling.... (read in full...)
What could the girl have possibly done that makes her think I could never like her?
Q. I'm really confused at the moment because this girl I like won't let me know where I stand. One minute she says she wants to be with me and the next she says she can't and has 'to let me go'. She seems to have a lot of secrets, she told me that if ...
A. 21 December 2005: Would you say to someone in whom you were interested 'I have to let you go'???? This is not about trust, it is not even about having secrets. It is about her not being interested in you. Go out into life and find someone who is worthy of you. ... (read in full...)
I thought we were might have a romantic understanding... until I discovered she doesn't really read English!
Q. I am interested in a girl at work who is Hispanic and I am white. She has a live-in boyfriend, and the two of them have a little girl togather. But a few months ago she initiated contact with me and began to flirt openly with me. This tells me that ...
A. 21 December 2005: You have answered your own question. This lady, because of her lack of experience in English, has not realised the depth of emotion you have put into your written communications. Do you really want to embark on anything which could ruin a ... (read in full...)
I want to change my bad ways to keep my girl...
Q. So...me and my 'girlfriend' have been on a break for 4 weeks now and it's enabled us to do a lot of thinking and given me a chance to sort my life out a bit. BUT... We went out for the day yesterday. We'd agreed to go out and I planned the whol...
A. 21 December 2005: Why like a princess? - treat her like a woman, be mature and appreciative. Find out what leaopard spots you have which led her to think this way. Four weeks is not long for a 'break'. You may have done something which has destroyed her trust, ... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much of my partner to give me more compliments... Is it right to ask him to change?
Q. Hi everyone, I have an otherwise good relationship with my partner. We have been together for two years and living together for 18 months of that. He says he loves me and I believe that he does, but he is not very good at articulating his...
A. 21 December 2005: Your answer to this problem has to come from yourself. You need to sort out your own lack of confidence. Your partner is loyal and loving although unable to articulate his feelings. Stick with him, any guy who does the ironing sounds great - you ... (read in full...)
A little thing like my phone being off causes an argument with my boyfriend...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for going on three years. He been accusing me of cheating and not trusting my every move. When we're together it's cool sometimes, but most of the times we argue about anything. It seems to me that he's not happy. W...
A. 21 December 2005: I agree with the previous answer. This is NOT a relationship which should be allowed to develop. Drop him like a hot brick!... (read in full...)
Will highlights damage my hair as I've been told?
Q. hELLO, this is a really stupid question, dont even know if it will be posted. Will highlights damage your hair, I've got curly light brown hair, and want to put highlights but have been told that it will damage it, and never be the same? Is it b...
A. 21 December 2005: Ask your hairdresser... (read in full...)
Can I love someone but date someone else?
Q. hi, i broke up with my boyfriend and planning to see someone else. but i can't forget my ex. our's was a mutual and a friendly break up. no hard feelings.i feel this new person is nice and don't want to hurt him. can i love some one and date som...
A. 21 December 2005: You say you are planning to date someone else. Why not date him and find out if he makes you forget the ex?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she loves me as a friend but does she really like me?
Q. i am in a very complicated relationship. i dont know where its at or where its going, my girlfriend cant seem to make her mind up about me, our relation ship has been on and off for about the last 5 months.one week were going out the next were ...
A. 21 December 2005: Sometimes, if you have to ask yourself the questions you are asking, then deep down, you know the answers.
Get someone who appreciates YOU, this woman has no respect for you, let alone love. Find someone else.... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about him being irresponsible?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He says he does love me and can be gentle and thoughtful. There is another side to him. He is in his thirties but can be 'one of the boys' when he is out, looking at other women, making comments and ...
A. 21 December 2005: You are really answering your own question - should you be concerned? You know you should be. If this guy won't grow up at his age, why should you stick with him? Dump him, get a guy who wants to be with you and not boozing with his mates.... (read in full...)
Does he want a relationship with me?
Q. I am friendly with an editor at work....and there is an attraction , even though we are both in relationships. I am writing a book , and asked him to read it in a professional capacity. However when I got his notes and comments about th...
A. 21 December 2005: Why do you think the Editor is interested in a happy ending with you?
He isn't flirting nor is he interested in a relationship with you. If he was, he'd ask you outright. Find someone who deserves you.... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out?
Q. hey i'm 14 and i fancy this guy in year 11 at my school. The problem is, I went out with his best mate last year and his other mate fancies me. I don't want to hurt their feelings by asking this guy out. I just want your advice. Do you think I ...
A. 21 December 2005: Get to sixteen and then let the men ask you out.... (read in full...)
My mum reckons I shouldn't go out with either boy!
Q. Hey well first off Merry Christmas! Well i talked to the boy in my last question but the day i did i found out some one else likes me and the one from my question boy 1 my mom says im not aloud to go out with and boy 2 my mom says it owuldn't be ...
A. 21 December 2005: All is fair in love and war. If there is no marriage, then good luck in the war.... (read in full...)
My friend let on about my secret relationship!
Q. Dear Cupid, This lad and I have kind of a secret relationship going on, we've not done anything but there have been talks that we would. So my best friend, who was telling me about her boy trouble so I told her what was going on. She said she woul...
A. 21 December 2005: By sharing your secret with your friend, it is no longer a secret. Just put this down to experience, your friends may be around a lot longer than your boyfriend. ... (read in full...)
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