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writes: I am friendly with an editor at work....and there is an attraction , even though we are both in relationships. I am writing a book , and asked him to read it in a professional capacity. However when I got his notes and comments about the book he had written " I guarantee I'll buy you your book , and look forward to seeing your photo on the back cover . Then he stated that " he wanted a happy ending ......" his closing comment was " remember the happy ending ". I am confused.......is he just flirting or really interested in developing a relationship ?
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
Why do you think the Editor is interested in a happy ending with you?
He isn't flirting nor is he interested in a relationship with you. If he was, he'd ask you outright. Find someone who deserves you.
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reader, cridagus +, writes (21 December 2005):
I am too in a relationship. In fact I am married with kids. About 9 months a go I met a man who is also married. We spend atleast 5 days together because of our kids and sports practice. There is a huge attraction between us and a hole buch of sexual induendo.I think it is normal to be attracted to other people. You and this man spend a lot of time together, right? Every one I feel always wonders what it would be like "if".Every one gets bored. After so many years your partner stops doing what they did when it was a new relationship. you know complimenting, being overly sweet, stuff like that. That is what these men do for us. It is nice to feel flattered and he probably is interested in you in a fantasy way.
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