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writes: I'm really confused at the moment because this girl I like won't let me know where I stand. One minute she says she wants to be with me and the next she says she can't and has 'to let me go'. She seems to have a lot of secrets, she told me that if I knew what she is really like I would never speak to her again. I can't think of anything she could say that would make me feel that way. How can I get her to trust me enough to be open and honest with me? If she says she has to let me go does that mean she's not interested anymore or that it's never gonna happen? As long as I think there is a chance I will keep trying, but I just don't know. Reply to this Question
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reader, QOTU +, writes (21 December 2005):
 I think she's roping you along. I know that sounds harsh, but it's the truth - if she can't be open and honest about her feelings, and just say either YES or NO, then you should probably find someone else who has their mind set.
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
Would you say to someone in whom you were interested 'I have to let you go'???? This is not about trust, it is not even about having secrets. It is about her not being interested in you. Go out into life and find someone who is worthy of you. This is a dead end.
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