What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
What signs are there in that you can spot to see if a person fancies you or not?
Q. Hi I am wondering if someone could help me here, and if they can i'd be very thankful. There's this girl i know, i like her alot, she knows how i feel for her through a friend, we've never talked about it and i'm not really comfortable with...
A. 24 December 2005: Faint heart never won fair lady and all that. Get a grip man! Ask her out!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant with his child. He left me for his ex..how do I win him back?
Q. im 32 was dating a 44 year old man. i became pregnant with his baby. it caused a fight. destructively i got drunk and arrested.65 days in jail, he breaks down starts drinking again then goes back to his ex. now im back and seeing him. he says he ...
A. 24 December 2005: Make sure he takes responsibility for the child and pays his way. Then get hold of yourself and start being a Mum.... (read in full...)
He dumped me-I'm nor sure why and neither is he? I still like him-what should I do?
Q. Well my boyfriend broke up with me about two weeks ago, and I'm not sure why. When people ask him why he did it, he always has a different answer. He told me he didn't want a girlfriend right now, and something about getting in trouble with his ...
A. 24 December 2005: Get out before liking becomes love. It is a one way relationship. Let him cuddle up to Mummy and you go and find yourself someone else.... (read in full...)
He promised to get rid of the other gf...but now he acts like he doesn't care! What can I do?
Q. hi! i just wrote a few days ago. I just want to tell the whole story. My ex-bf and i, we've been together for almost 5 years. just a few mos ago we broke up. he cheated on me and he says that the reason why he did that is my attitude, im a nagger, ...
A. 24 December 2005: Yes, you can afford to lose him. Ditch him quickly.... (read in full...)
There are too many people in my love relationship!
Q. I am having some relationship trouble. A couple of months ago I broke up with my girlfriend of nine months, as she cheated on me twice. What she doesn't know is that a couple of days before I broke up with her I cheated on her with someone else. ...
A. 24 December 2005: All's fair in love and war. Got for it.... (read in full...)
She has a new bf-but how do I win her back and prove my love for her?
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 24yr/m that is having girlfriend trouble we have been together for 2yrs 7 mo. She recently left me because she got tired of me not showing her how much i care about her or what she really means to me. Now that she is gone i do ...
A. 24 December 2005: Not setting a date for marriage should not break anyone's heart. I would guess she just bored with you and has found someone else.
Move on and find yourself a girl who appreciates depth rather than glib lines.... (read in full...)
My ex husband married his gf. How do I find the strength to move on from this hurt?
Q. My ex-husband got re-married a couple days ago. That hit me like a ton of bricks. We haven't been together for 2 and a half years and he has been with her since we seperated. I don't want to be with him, I want to be able to move on from him. I've ...
A. 24 December 2005: Time is how you move on. Give yourself some time to get over this guy. He has moved on and now you have to do the same.... (read in full...)
Can there be love for me after he spread nasty rumors about me?
Q. can there be love for me after he spread nasty lieful rumors about me? ...
A. 24 December 2005: Why shouldn't there be? Just tell people he's a paranoid schizophrenic and that is why you dumped him.... (read in full...)
My fiancee broke up with me and she's acting totally wrong!
Q. OK, here is my problem: I am 23 and my ex-fiancee is 21. We had been together for 5 and a half years when we had decided to take some time apart to spark things up a bit. We never agreed to break-up; in fact, I told her that it felt like she was ...
A. 24 December 2005: Why do you think she is still interested in you? She sounds as though she is making up for some boring times and is now enjoying herself without you. Surely she has a right to go to places without you thinking she is chasing you. It sounds to me ... (read in full...)
My fiancee broke up with me and she's acting totally wrong!
Q. OK, here is my problem: I am 23 and my ex-fiancee is 21. We had been together for 5 and a half years when we had decided to take some time apart to spark things up a bit. We never agreed to break-up; in fact, I told her that it felt like she was ...
A. 24 December 2005: Why do you think she is still interested in you? She sounds as though she is making up for some boring times and is now enjoying herself without you. Surely she has a right to go to places without you thinking she is chasing you. It sounds to me ... (read in full...)
I said horrible things and pushed him away. Now I realise I was wrong and want him back!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had broken up because I went off on him. I was going through a lot and he didn't call me and let me know he was OK, and he angered me. We have had this argument at least once a month. This time I needed him. I was confront...
A. 24 December 2005: About time you got angry with this guy. You have apologised, you were under stress and now he's making you feel guilty about it all. If he can't accept an apology and try to help you through this problem, then dump him. He is wallowing in his own ... (read in full...)
What questions would you ask your date?
Q. I would like some input from men and women on this issue. When dating someone, it is customary that you ask questions to get to know the person? Some common questions might be: What drugs have you used, do you drink, do you want children, etc. Is ...
A. 24 December 2005: Whether or not any question is appropriate in the general sense of the word does not come into it. If you feel you want to ask the qestion, then ask.... (read in full...)
I felt like my boyfriend went too far. He stopped when I asked, but now what do I say about it?
Q. I'm a teen and I've been dating this great guy for a few months. We are so right for each other and I thought we were on the same page but I was at his place watching a movie like I have many times before and he caught me off guard with something. ...
A. 24 December 2005: Whatever you feel is right, is right for you. You have no need to say anything. Your boyfriend appears to have accepted your decision - just don't be too hard on him if he tries again.... (read in full...)
My mom is having an affair... Again. What do I do? Who can I tell?
Q. When i was about 8 my mum and dad split up for 3 months. At the time they said they just needed a break. They got marrage counciling and got back together. In the years following i slowly learnt by slip ups and evesdropping that the reason for the ...
A. 22 December 2005: If you talk to anyone, it must be no-one else but your Mom. Marriage is a funny old thing, and perhaps Mom is very unhappy and you may have no idea of what kind of relationship your Mom and Dad have together. Speak to Mom, tell her how you feel ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend, who prefers to masturbate rather than have sex, going to marry me or is he waiting for a "better deal"?
Q. My bf of 4 years prefers masturbation than sex and is not committing in our relationship. He tells me that masturbation is easier, and that we don't have to have sex everytime we see each other, and that he gets tired when having sex. We only have ...
A. 22 December 2005: I think this guy has found the better deal - himself! If you marry this guy you will spend a lifetime regretting it. Get out now.... (read in full...)
Am I over-reacting or does my new boyfriend just not care?
Q. Hello everyone, Well I have been on a few dates with this guy, and he recently spent the night at my house and we had sex. He then asked me to officially be his girlfriend, but now it seem like he is ignoring me. I called him to just talk, bu...
A. 22 December 2005: Oh boy! You are NOT over-reacting. Dump this creep and enjoy your holiday.... (read in full...)
Guy I want to be "more than friends" with says he is dating someone... Who is married!
Q. I am friends with a guy who wants to be more than friends. However, when I asked him when he moved from another city if he was dating someone else, he said yes. And she is married to someone else. Do you think that we can ever move from just ...
A. 22 December 2005: Two words: Drop him!... (read in full...)
She's in contact with ex-lovers-I no longer feel safe in this relationship. Any advice?
Q. i have been living with a 50 year old lady that i knew for the past 6 years. we believe we are soul mates and plan to get engaged and eventualy married. i have however over the past 6 months become aware that she is in touch with many of her ex ...
A. 22 December 2005: Put your cards on the table. Tell her to stop what she is doing or you will walk out. That is the only way you will find out how much you mean to her.... (read in full...)
After 7 years together-it struck me oddly, that she left me with no warning?
Q. I am 27. I have been with my girlfriend for seven years. We were in a long distance relationship for the last year. During our time apart I regularly hinted that we should get married once we were in the same city again. She had always wanted to ...
A. 22 December 2005: Take this like a man. Your girlfriend has moved on, so should you.... (read in full...)
How do I make my vagina tighter??
Q. i really need help on this one if any one can help, my relationship kind of depends on it. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and we have only had sex a few times but he doesnt seem pleased. i dont know if my vagina is too big for him ...
A. 22 December 2005: This is such an old chestnut that men use against so many women, please don't fall for it. Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you! You are not TOO BIG! You say you do have an orgasm and so does he. So what is the problem? Kick him out of bed, ... (read in full...)
I treated her so badly...but I desperately want her forgiveness
Q. Hi, please am so sad i need help.Try not to judge me when you read my story, my mind is already doing that.i have been under depression but i know its no excuse.here it goes. I have been dating this girl for 6years now. I did promise to marry...
A. 22 December 2005: Hi, let her go and learn from your mistakes. She deserves someone better, you deserve a good kicking.... (read in full...)
A guy who texts me has a girlfriend...what do I do?
Q. theres this guy who is a friend of a friend and he asked for my number from our mutual friend who gave it to him without my consent,however he started texting and calling me we got to know eachother and hes an okay guy...after about a few weeks i ...
A. 22 December 2005: Diamond, ask the guy about his girlfriend. If he treats her with such little respect then he won't care about you in the future. A good way to judge anyone is to see how they treat others.... (read in full...)
My online bf asked me for advice if he should go back to his ex gf. I was shocked and hurt!
Q. Hi Everyone, bear with me on the length of this one but i need some serious advice. I've been having an online long distance relationship with a guy i went out with last december. For the entire year we spoke everyday on the phone, IM etc, after 2 ...
A. 21 December 2005: how you getting on... (read in full...)
I love him but he treats me badly..then always apologizes. I am so tired of his temper!
Q. Here goes,I can't tolerate it anymore.I wrote about my 5 months relationship with my bf earlier on. It's gone over the limit now. I seriously am in love with him, but I feel it isn't really the same for him. I have given my best in this relationship ...
A. 21 December 2005: DUMP HIM. What is taking you so long. He is violent and abusive. You don't love him but you are dependant on him. What are you getting out of this? Look at him as an ear-wig. He uses you as a bolt hole, he is just an irritation. Dust him with ... (read in full...)
He claims he was setting his friend up on a date...but was the girl on the phone really HIS date?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 months and I think he may be cheating on me. He's been text messaging a lot (with his friends, he claims) and the other night when his phone rang, he checked to see who it was before taking the call in ...
A. 21 December 2005: Yes. Be VERY concerned.... (read in full...)
She's so insecure and paranoid...it drives me crazy! Any advice?
Q. Hiya i have been going out with my girlfriend now for nearly 5 months. I really do love her but her insecurity and paranoia drives me crazy and it has triggered arguments between us. It is frustrating to go out with someone like this as i feel that ...
A. 21 December 2005: I wonder what it is about you that makes her feel like this? Do you have wandering eyes? Do you comment on other women? What is your love life like? There is something not right about your relationship with her that is making her feel insecure. ... (read in full...)
He's shy-I'm shy...how do we get together? Help
Q. I am a quiet and shy person around men. I have met a guy who I get on well with and he has been hinting he likes me too. He seems a little shy himself at times. Flirting feels awkward to me. I am eager to go out on a date with him, but given ...
A. 21 December 2005: Hold a party and invite him along. Or, say, I am so fed up - come for a drive with me? Keep it light and bright.... (read in full...)
He's so childish! Do I just accept it or can I do something to make him stop!
Q. My boyfriend is sooo annoying.... My boyfriend has a bad temper and when we get into arguments he wants to talk right away and i need my space. When i don't talk to him he will say things like, "Great, my own girlfriend doesn't even want to talk to ...
A. 21 December 2005: I cannot imagine anything more annoying than someone who clams up after an argument. I don't blame the chap for wanting to talk. The immature one is the one who stops talking! Start talking or keep walking. ... (read in full...)
Caught him kissing another girl and I sent him packing...but I miss him!
Q. a couple of days ago i found out my boyfriend was all over and kissing a girl in a night club.ive sent him packing but the thing is this is massively life changing for me.we have been together for 3 years and have a daughter together and i do love ...
A. 21 December 2005: Take care not to ditch this guy. He wants a family but is obviously immature. Fly into a rage when he steps out of line and let him know it and ensure he knows you will not stand for another silly action on his part.
Keep him out of mischief... (read in full...)
He wants me just for sex but I love him. How do I get him to love and respect me?
Q. Dear cupid.. I have been in love with a guy for over three years now (I'm 17, he's 18), I want to be in a relationship with him. Trouble is that he is ony physically attracted to me, and will only ask for sex.It seems to me like he regards me as...
A. 21 December 2005: Are you enjoying the sex? If so, keep enjoying. It is a time which fades as you get older and you may regret the lost opportunity. Why equate having sex with respect? If you want love, keep your options open. Use this guy for sexual release but ... (read in full...)
'm busy with our 5 kids-and he treats me like crap. Help- I need his respect and love.
Q. I have been married for 4 years. We have 2 children and I take care of his other 3. I am 27 years old. I am a very busy person with no outlet for letting go. My stress level is to the roof. I get no help with the kids or anything for that matter. He ...
A. 21 December 2005: Oh come on, you are a mature woman. You can love more than one man in your life and a far better one than this hippo. Just let him know he adds to the bills too and you can do without his debt. Dump this rotter.... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him or should I break up with him? Help..advice needed.
Q. I need help badly. I just found out that my boyfriend is 13 and I am only 11. Today (12-19-05) he hugged me at school. I do not know what I should do because we just got back together. He really loves me and I really love him. So should I stay with ...
A. 21 December 2005: Oh my God! You are eleven years old. Get a doll, play Scrabble. Eat marshmallows and forget the boys. You are not even allowed to go there!... (read in full...)
I don't trust him but I love him and care so much. Am I a Fool?
Q. Am I A Fool? My husband lies to me and hides things from me that I find out later.I don't trust him but I love him and care about so much. What do I do?...
A. 21 December 2005: What does your husband hide from you? Why does he lie?
If you let him get away with it, then yes you are a bit of a fool.... (read in full...)
At his home-do I visit with his folks or do I stay downstairs with him?
Q. I'm not sure how to act around my bf's parents--he's 24 and he lives with his parents and I'm 20 and I still live with my parents too, and we usually end up cuddling at his house in his room while watching a movie or soemthing, but I feel weird ...
A. 21 December 2005: Take time away with your boyfriend. It isn't healthy to sit in with the parents whilst fancying being with your fellar. Don't you have somewhere else to go? Get somewhere else to go and enjoy being together... (read in full...)
How do I build a stronger relationship with my bf's parents and show them I am a quality person.
Q. How do I build a stronger relationship with my bf's parents and family? I'm shy and I get insecure around them and unsure about what to do with myself when they are around and I don't want them to think I'm off-putting or there jsut to eat their ...
A. 21 December 2005: I bet they already like you - how nice to have someone shy and insecure instead of aggressive and rude.
Have faith in yourself.... (read in full...)
My home is a battleground..my wife and my oldest son are bickering all the time!
Q. I am 35 years old and have been married for 10 years now. I have 3 kids the oldest is 11 and from a relationship the other 2 are with my wife. For the past couple years things have been pretty bad at home fighting, bickering, major tension between ...
A. 21 December 2005: Stick with the situation. Get your sex life going again and I bet eventually, the kids will get along.... (read in full...)
Dating my bf for 6 months..so do I buy gifts for his cousins and brothers, too?
Q. Should I buy my bf's cousins and brothers present for christmas? i've only been going with my bf for 6 months and i'm thinking of just getting him cologne for christmas but now I have like 5 other people I was thinking of getting stuff more--not ...
A. 21 December 2005: No no no. Cards only!... (read in full...)
This new bf is wonderful so why...do I still feel like I am not worthy?
Q. Why do you think a 24 year old would want to date a 20 year old? I mean, there's more to it than age, but I was never the type of girl that got asked out by guys because I was overweight and had low self esteem and bad skin. I grew up never thinking ...
A. 21 December 2005: Everyone has insecurities, even your new boyfriend. Enjoy yourself and think, hey bet his problem is bigger than mine.... (read in full...)
Are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy?
Q. Are there any major differences between a spanish female and a black male who date? I'm dating a black guy right now and he is very sweet, but are there any differences that come along with dating a black guy? I've only dated an egyptian guy and ...
A. 21 December 2005: If he treats you with respect, why should there be a difference?... (read in full...)
We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...
Q. I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when ...
A. 21 December 2005: Perhaps without going the full Monty, why not say to him, I am going to miss you - will you miss me? Ask to meet up for a farewell - if he declines forget it. If he accepts then he may well be interested.... (read in full...)
Can't understand why my willy just goes limp?
Q. I'm 19 years old and have been "fooling around" with girls for a couple years now. The thing is, recently, I was with my girlfriend, and we were really getting into it. I had a super hard erection that was ready to go. She gave me a bit of a blow ...
A. 21 December 2005: Stop relying on self pleasure and join the real world.... (read in full...)
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