Female professor in love with me?
Q. I have a big problem. It's been two years know since I've been seeing my professor. In the beginning I felt extremely strange being that I never had inclinations towards the same sex. She started by asking me to stay after class to help. I found it ...
A. 25 May 2009: This sounds like you might just be curious. Just do what feels natural and comfortable, nothing else matters.... (read in full...)
How do I snog with tongues?
Q. My boyfriend wants to snog me at my birthday disco with tounges (tonight) and i don't have a clue how!!!...
A. 15 May 2009: Take it slowly and relax. You will soon get the right idea :)... (read in full...)
Should I let her give me a bj? Or just say no?
Q. I have a bad situation, my date which i was taking to prom just as friends really likes me now when i still feel the same about her. We hung out yesterday and she was hitting on me really hard. She just does a lot of things i don't approve of and im ...
A. 11 May 2009: Glad to see things are going well. Best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty about losing my virginity?
Q. Hello. I turned 16 in April. i lost my virginity summer of '08. i was 15. i am so confused on whether or not to feel guilty or pleased or secrative or URGH i just don't know. i told my mother today that i've had sex. the thing is- when it happ...
A. 10 May 2009: You already answered your own question. You said you were ready "emotionally, physically, mentally. everything. i didn't feel bad or guilty afterwards, it didn't hurt, everything was jsut wonderful. he was a virgin too. so it wasn't like he was sure ... (read in full...)
I'm considering becoming sterile just soI don't screw up here life
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating just short of a year now. We're both 16 and just starting having sex about a month ago. We've only done it a few times. Both with and without condoms. For some reason she hates condoms and doesn't want to take ...
A. 9 May 2009: Tell her its either a condom or the pill, end of story. She is not the only one at risk here and if shes mature enough, she will see the point. You need to be firm about this, do not get caught up in the moment and stand your ground. She is be... (read in full...)
What to do to tighten up?
Q. Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he ...
A. 9 May 2009: Have you tried different positions ?
If not, i'd look up different sexual positions which might help.... (read in full...)
I saw her with a guy uglier than me and I don't feel bad
Q. OK I'll make it quick. I dated this girl for about 5 months, very pretty and cute. About three months into our relationship, things went a little sour when she told me she was missing her ex boyfrienda lot so we took a 2 week break from each other. ...
A. 9 May 2009: It seems like you feel insecure to be completely honest. To me this reads like "What does he have that I don't". People are attracted different people, not everyone wants a gym freak or a scruffy guy. You have put alot of work into your physical ... (read in full...)
Should I let her give me a bj? Or just say no?
Q. I have a bad situation, my date which i was taking to prom just as friends really likes me now when i still feel the same about her. We hung out yesterday and she was hitting on me really hard. She just does a lot of things i don't approve of and im ...
A. 8 May 2009: She might feel that if she does this for you it will bring the two of you closer. I'd go to the prom and if things stray let her know you like her as a really cool friend and dont want to risk your friendship. Also whatever you do, do not get caught ... (read in full...)
We passed 100,000 questions published on DearCupid
Q. Today is another milestone in DearCupid history: Over 100,000 questions (100,020 as I write this) have been published! Wow. Thanks to the aunts, the moderators and everyone who shares their problem. As always any ideas on how to improve the s...
A. 7 May 2009: Great to see things going so well !
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Getting back deleted history on the computer?
Q. Dont know if any of you out there can help but i have been wondering how can you get back things that have been deleted on the history on my computer?...
A. 6 May 2009: Im not 100% if you can get them back or not. As Love4Life said the information is pushed aside until written over, which may have happened more than once.
If its in regards as to what someone has been looking at, try sifting through the cookies.... (read in full...)
Trouble in the bedroom with my new partner
Q. hi i've recently started to see this guy who i adore he is 33 and i'm 25 we slept together for the first time a few weeks ago and he was a little nervous.. so one minute he had an erection then it would go this would happen through out the ...
A. 29 April 2009: I agree with previous posters, performance anxiety seems to be the problem. He is now most likely worried that it will happen again. I would advise foreplay to not only get him aroused but taking it slow will help ease tension.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend her boyfriend tried it on with me?
Q. I was staying at a friend's house after a long night of drinking, she went to bed and passed out leaving me and her boyfriend together. We were casually talking and all of a sudden he tries to kiss me. I had bruises up my arms where he was hol...
A. 22 April 2009: You must tell her everything. You seem to be in a dangerous situation and its important you feel safe.
Maybe next time he won't stop at a kiss.
This has danger written all over it.... (read in full...)
I am fearful that I will end up alone later in life. Am I the only one?
Q. I am 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I have gone on dates and kissed a couple of guys but nothing more than that. It makes me sad and depressed knowing that all of my friends have/have had boyfriends and have been in serious ...
A. 22 April 2009: I somewhat understand your situation. Im just starting down the road to relationships myself. Try asking a close friend to help you. Tell them how you feel and ask them if they can help you, if a relationship is truely what you want. A clo... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 18 April 2009: We are responsible adults, sometimes we need to divulge other information that you don't want to hear. While we try and help and be direct we have a conscience, and to ease that conscience sometimes we need to share extra wisdom.
Children do not h... (read in full...)
Is it weird to fancy someone so young?
Q. In a nut shell was with a guy for 3 years, he treated me like shit, you name it he did it!! Met a guy thats 18, I'm 22!! Fancy him like mad but he's four years younger then me, is it weird to fancy someone so young?!...
A. 13 April 2009: It comes down to maturity with a small age difference like that. The gap itself is nothing, so just be happy :).... (read in full...)
Teen mums!
Q. I'd just like to know your opinions on "teen mums". If the legal age to have sex (in the UK) is 16, why do parents age 16-20 get frowned upon? Also what age do you think is appropriate to be a grandparent? ...
A. 25 March 2009: Sex and having a baby are 2 different things.
A child cannot support a baby because they do not have the following:
Maturity
Real World Understanding
Financial support
Education
These are all very important things that any parent sho... (read in full...)
Trippin out!!!
Q. In the middle of February I had unprotected sex. I got my period at the beginning of that month, but now is March 23 and I haven't gotten my period. It's already going to be April and I am worried and stressed out. HELLPPPP:)...
A. 23 March 2009: I know, why dont you just wait until you give birth ?
on a serious note, get a pregnancy test.... (read in full...)
What kind of woman/girl would you go for?
Q. For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to ...
A. 20 March 2009: Well heres a rough guide I suppose, but you need to remember that there is no set standard. Different men like different types of women and vice versa.
1] What colour hair would your perfect woman have?
Red/Brunette
2] Would she be stick t... (read in full...)
Would you say find love first?
Q. Mums, If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love? obviously both would be ideal! but ...
A. 9 March 2009: It depends. Luring a man by showing genuine feelings is a cruel thing to do. But if both are happy then anything goes.... (read in full...)
He tricked me & now I think I'm pregnant!
Q. Hey, im in a bit of a problem. I had sex about 2 weeks ago, it happend a few times, we used protection, but he said it split. But we both thought nothing of it. Normally my periods are regular, and i havn't come on this month, ive been googling ...
A. 9 March 2009: Well when he said it split you should have been all over it. I advise you to get a pregnancy test to confirm if you are pregnant. Thats the first step.... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to get his grandma to let us sleep together?
Q. My boyfriend and I are goiing to his grandma's house this weekend and we may be taking his little brother. We lived with his grandma for a few months and always slept in separate beds... but the little brother will make it so we are 1 bed short. ...
A. 19 February 2009: Tell her you are both adults and you are more than capable of sharing a bed without jumping on eachother.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and really want a baby! I'm depressed!
Q. hiyyahh help me i realy want a baby and i'm 13 all my mates are sick of me twisting about it i feel depressed because i want one that bad i crave it ive saved money up and thought it through the only thing i dont want to tell my perants i k...
A. 19 February 2009: You are way too young to have a baby. You cannot even begin to imagine the work that is involved.
It sounds to me like puberty is the key factor here with all those hormones kicking in.
Think of all the hardship you would put your family thro... (read in full...)
They say age is just a number so why is this wrong?
Q. Okay, I'm 13, almost 14, but I am VERY mature for my age. Well, there's this guy, whos name I refuse to mention, and he's freaking amazing. We have so much in common, and he likes me, well, from his behavor I can tell. So, here's my issue, he's 18, ...
A. 16 February 2009: Age is just a number but it only becomes a number when both people are on the same page.
You are a child, even if you are more mature you are still a child.
He is a young adult and on a different level. If he was 30 and you were 21 then tha... (read in full...)
Do guys find nose piercings attractive?
Q. Hey :) Was just wondering if guys found nose piercings attractive? My friend is worrying about it at the moment as she is thinking of getting it done. Thanks x...
A. 15 February 2009: I personally dont. I have rescently found out that I think tongue piercings are attractive.
Every guy is different tho.... (read in full...)
No valentine...
Q. If a guy (who you are supposedly seeing) didn't send you a Valentine even though he got one in return - does this mean he just doesn't care??...
A. 15 February 2009: Fact: Valentines Day is a womans day. This is a holiday that just doesnt jump out of the calendar for men. If the only thing that makes u think he is not interested is no valentines day gift, then that doesnt mean anything. Hope this helps.... (read in full...)
Should I take the risk and meet him for drinks at his house?
Q. Hi there! So, since I've been doing not so well with men in person, I decided to join a free dating site. Right away, a guy messaged me and we seem to have quite a bit in common. The problem is, he wants to meet, and although I do want to ...
A. 30 January 2009: No. You seem to have doubts and as you have pointed out you are completely at a strangers mercy. Because in the end that's what he is, a stranger. Instead meet him in a public place. I don't know the legal drinking age in Canada, if you can then ... (read in full...)
Heaven for the trolls and immature people on the internet? the haters?
Q. Why are people so incredibly mean on the internet? I'm just really wondering. I know that people say that they don't have a heart and they are just starring at a pixel or username, but why do those immature brats keep forgetting about the person...
A. 27 January 2009: People are mean over the internet because it has some annonymity (sp?) to it. Its also a way for people to vent. There are different kinds of though. Targeting people on a personal level is due to insecurities. Targeting an audience is thro... (read in full...)
How do I break it to my family that my uncles b/f & I are in a relationship?
Q. hi im 18 and i like to do things that normal 18 year olds do, i love anging out with my friends, going to college, and partying, theres just one difference, recently i have started a relationship with a 36 year old man, ive grown up with him as my ...
A. 26 January 2009: Well clearly you have fallen into his trap. He has planned this for a while which in itself is really really creepy. He wants a young girl (yes 18 is young) that he has had his eye on since she was a little girl. He is a selfish old man. He was ... (read in full...)
Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating?
Q. Ok, question for ya...! Is it always left for a guy to pay while you're dating? Or even afterwards when you make it official?!? I ask this because a few of my guy friends joke around and say..."Nah, I'd rather stay single. It costs a lot to h...
A. 20 January 2009: First dates, guys pay. But it is courteous if you offer to pay half. You might end up having to pay half but generally he will insist on paying. From there on you will generally split unless its an occasion. In a commited relationship then I h... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of a way to make lips fuller without injections or implants?
Q. Hi, Does anyone know of a way to make lips fuller without injections or implants? I know, for sure, that the lip glosss stuff, I think called "Hollywood lips" or some nonsense like that, does not work, even slightly. Anyone had any luck wi...
A. 20 January 2009: There is a lip gloss or something along those lines that contains some kind of venom. Obviously you dont feel it but it causes your lips to swell a little making them look fuller. Just search about, not being a woman or wearing lip gloss I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I like to "tease" guys?
Q. I don't really like to hook up with boys any more but I like to have fun and the attention they give me. At parties, I dance and flirt with guys all the time and they think they will have sex with me but I don't even give them a kiss. Is it wrong to ...
A. 14 January 2009: Theres having a dance and a bit of a flirt. Then theres purposely leading guys on and pushing them as far as you can. If you go over the top you will just be labaled a cock tease and no guys will try it with you. You will have a sign around your ... (read in full...)
His age is messing with my head.
Q. I met this guy at a bar, sort of a friend of a friend, and I spent the night talking to him and having a great time. Afterwards, though, I found out ... I'm five+ years older than him. He's 23; I just turned 29. Is this sketchy? We've been email...
A. 12 January 2009: The age difference is minimal. It all comes down to if he is mature enough. You have said that he is and you seem to like him. So I dont see a problem.
P.s. you are not a cougar, you are not old enough and the age difference is not big enough.... (read in full...)
I'm having health problems and the doctors say its just stress!
Q. I am really annoyed and seriously at my wits end. I have been having some medical symptoms and have now been to THREE different doctors now who have all fobbed me off and sent me away saying my symptoms are stress related or something of this nature ...
A. 12 January 2009: Do the following seem similar to your experiences ?
The flash - You lose sight for a fraction of a second and it registers as a flash.
Reading - You look at the page and see black text on white paper but cant make sense of it even though you ... (read in full...)
Is she horny?
Q. I know this woman, she is 22 years old. She is a good friend of mine, and she constantly tells me about these guys she thinks are cute. I know for a fact she is a virgin because I'm dating her best friend. I'm wondering if she is really horny and...
A. 12 January 2009: So basically you are saying:
I have a friend that is a virgin and might be horny and I want to find out so I can cheat on my girlfriend. But I want to find out without my girlfriend feeling betrayed and dumping me.
Just seems like you are try... (read in full...)
Choked during sex...was it wrong of him??
Q. I've been with my overly passionate, subtle and lovely boyfriend for some time now. He's not very spontanous, everything seems like a walk in the park... and almost routine. Last night we had sex. And he started choking me towards the end out of the ...
A. 11 January 2009: This is a type of fetish, he should have asked you before he did it. It can be very dangerous and people have died doing it, so be careful.
You should speak to your boyfriend about it. Ask him why he did it. If it just turns out to be a fetish a... (read in full...)
1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin
Q. When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...
A. 11 January 2009: Also I meant to mention in my last post. Has he ever been with a virgin or is he basing it on hearsay and what he thinks should happen ?
Even if he has been with a virgin everyone is different.... (read in full...)
1st time sex no blood--he doesn't really believe I was a virgin
Q. When I had sex for the first time I never bled? I don't understand why. I masturbated a few times but like I just used to like rub my clit and stuff. I never put my hands inside my vagina. Before sex, my fiance used to finger me sometimes but I ...
A. 11 January 2009: Not all virgins bleed. Not all virgins have a hymen (where the blood comes from). And yes, being comfortable and aroused (wet) makes the whole thing alot easier. What concerns me is that your fiance is making a big deal out of this.
Just tell him... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???
Q. I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!...
A. 9 January 2009: You do not go as red as you think. The feeling is far worse than the physical showing of it. Just take a deep breath and think of something, anything else to take your mind off it. This will help it to pass quicker. And I agree with satindes... (read in full...)
Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!
Q. For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the ...
A. 9 January 2009: Just tell him. Just pull him over alone one day and say that you thought that the necklace was just nice and didnt know that it was actually a symbol, but you have just learned that it is and you dont want to give him the wrong idea.
Menti... (read in full...)
During intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long.
Q. Hello there I'm 22 year old male, I'm engaged to my partner of five years. My problem is that during intercourse she doesn't seem to be able to last very long, by this I mean she ejaculates long before I'm ready to and there is a lot of fluid. ...
A. 9 January 2009: Well i'd say that you are very lucky.
Heres something to try tho.
Bring her to climax first and as quickly as possible without you having sex with her (like rub her or give her oral). Then let her cool down a little over 10mins or something and... (read in full...)
Why are men so bothered about the size of their penis????
Q. I know men will never get over this, but why on earth are they so obsessed with penis size? Personally I think a large penis is not that enjoyable, as it just hurts. What is wrong with a nice 5 or 6 inch average penis? Why do they always have...
A. 8 January 2009: Its all to do with the same reasons women feel self concious. The media dictates that men must have a six pack and be hung like a horse. Look at the underwear posters for men, theres an entire french loaf packed down there.
Porn is probalbl... (read in full...)
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