I am very attracted to a sweet, nerdy guy, thing is, I want to date him, he likes me according to friends, my problem is, if I date him, I don't want him to tell a lot of people, is this mean?
Q. I really fancy a guy, I haven't seen him in a few weeks so i texted him. He hasn't replied and I think he may be on holiday. But his friends tol me he liked me. The thing is he is a bit of a nerd... and it would destroy my reputation a bit to go ou...
A. 18 July 2008: No is the simple answer. If you have a chance to be happy with this boy then dont cover it up.
At school I understand that reputation is a big thing (wasn't too many years ago I was at school) but its only a short term thing. Once you get into sen... (read in full...)
Should I moan? Or should I try not to moan?
Q. Okay. So, I just gota ask. When my boyfriend fingers me, and I moan just a little quite moan..Does he like it? Or should I try not to? Help!! ...
A. 14 July 2008: Well i'd think he would like it. It lets him know that he's doing something right, and it will add to his excitment aswell.... (read in full...)
Why am I getting bullied because I like to perform?
Q. Well i have this weird problem in school that i cant really understand. Well when usually its talent show night i seriously want to perform. Everytime I always perform they seem to like it but then when i go offstage they bo0 me ??? It seriously ...
A. 1 July 2008: It's a simple case of jealousy. They are intimidated because you can do things they can not. You get to stand in front of crowds of people and get immediate attention, when they need to circle round people to get minimal attention. Best thing to do ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to initiate sex?
Q. been with my boyfriend 4 years, and in the last 6 months or so have discovered it is mainly me that initiates sex, as soon as i touch him sexually or kiss him passionately he gets an errection so there is no problem with attraction (i dont think), ...
A. 1 July 2008: Have you ever tried not initiating sex ?
From a guys point of view, why would I try to have sex when its handed to me on a plate and fulfils my hunger ?... (read in full...)
Do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids?
Q. do you guys think 18 is a bad age for marriage and kids? i mean like if you find the rite person to be with, have a career and ur partner has a job to fall back on.....
A. 1 July 2008: In my opinion it is way to early to be tied down completely. At 18 you have just become an adult and there are loads of things to experience. Marriage is something you wait years before commiting too. Also when having children you would need to take ... (read in full...)
Could sharp pains in my head be linked to masturbation?
Q. Hi, i am a 15yr old male incase the above says otherwise. I masturbate frequently but recently have had a problem. I occasionaly get sharp pains in my head for a short while (for about 15-30mins). Also, I don't know if this is relevant but I think I ...
A. 30 June 2008: I used to suffer from constant headaches and they did come on fiercly when I masturbated or even tapped my head. I went to the doctor and he gave me a course of tablets which got rid of the problem.
Going to the Doctor is the best thing to do.... (read in full...)
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