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What kind of woman/girl would you go for?

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Question - (19 March 2009) 13 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

For a while now, every guy that I have seemed to like is interested in that stick thin, big boobed, blonde haired type, and seeing as I am a size 10/12 [in UK sizes] brunette, I just wondered.... this is one for the guys, but women feel free to leave comments =]

1] What colour hair would your perfect woman have?

2] Would she be stick thin, curvy, or maybe even bigger?

3] What size boobs would she have? Big, small etc?

4] What else would you look for in a girl?

This may seem a bit silly, but I really want to know if all guys are like the ones I seem to be like!

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A male reader, Aeku United States +, writes (10 August 2010):

First off,

I truly dont care about the breast size or hair color of a woman. Its the personality that counts.

But if looks truly count;

Hair color;

Blonde/ brunette

Breasts;

small-lower medium

body composition;

skinny, but not anorexic or bolemic

other qualities;

1. laid back

2. dresses appropriately for activities (i.e. dresses for resturaunts)

3. Is loyal

4.long hair (past shoulders)

5. elegant ( does not trashy,or like a harlot)

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A female reader, LaydeeOfSorrows Australia +, writes (22 March 2009):

LaydeeOfSorrows agony auntWhy would you use the term "Stick thin"? which is quite insulting, yet you use "Maybe bigger" for the term fat?

And the comment from otherstarfish is very rude too!

When did it become okay to insult people who are thin, yet its considered mean to say anything about a bigger person!

Drives me mad!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Thanks for the morning (big)laugh from Teamfresh, paragraph 2.!!! Just Love it when that happens:)

Don't worry, I have blonde hair, and my experience is guys don't really get to 'know' me for me, so it takes Longer to start a relationship. There are down sides to being blonde. BYW dark hair is 'in'.

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A male reader, harmony09 United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2009):

hey there how are you ?.

Males always appear to be visual when it comes to what attracts them

Then what there seen to be walking beside .

To me it's an ego thing yes it's nice to have a slender or curvy girl

Which stands next to you although I'm going to have to come out here and say that even what attracts it's not enough he's too young or not in understanding yet if what urs about

For me I mmmm really don't mind I'd rather meet s1 genuine trusting loving

Caring big hearted full of love other than a model type any day

Or meet s1 in another way as to where you hear the voice n get to know them first who they are inside as looks don't last do they

LOL

You or s1 could look gr8 one day then well I won't go i2 that LOL

You find something inside s1 that's what really counts not all the appearance

It's mearly a bonus if good looking however can't beat what us revieved from s1 from the inside

Your going out with jerks hehehe :x have to say it sowi

Find s1 that's will except you for what you are and who you are if not it's no good won't last

Wish you all the best as we grow we learn

Take good care x

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009):

Size 10/12, brunette sounds just right to me!

It all depends whats going on upstairs though, so to speak (and no, I don't mean the bedroom!)

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A male reader, The Gentle Man United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2009):

The Gentle Man agony auntWell heres a rough guide I suppose, but you need to remember that there is no set standard. Different men like different types of women and vice versa.

1] What colour hair would your perfect woman have?

Red/Brunette

2] Would she be stick thin, curvy, or maybe even bigger?

Curvy

3] What size boobs would she have? Big, small etc?

Small - Medium (Maybe a C being around right)

4] What else would you look for in a girl?

Sense of Humor

Happy

Assertive

Kind

Similar Interests would be desirable but I woudlnt hold my breath on that one.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (20 March 2009):

Danielepew agony auntYou will get many different answers to your questions, but that wouldn't answer the real question behind this, namely "Will I ever find a guy who will like me as I am?". The answer is yes.

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A male reader, Griffo Australia +, writes (19 March 2009):

Griffo agony auntThis is my scoop on things:

Person

Someone down to earth, must be in it for the love, and not the toys, (us guys can see fake women from a mile, but honestly, do sometimes play dumb when a hot beauty comes along, only to enjoy the sex. But that does not mean we won’t fall in love later – you’ve got to have more than just looks too have that.)

She should be funny but not too goofy, does not care about being rich and is not a gold digger. She’s the girl next door type. She’s laid back, easy going and caring. But also strong able to be smart enough to pick out a wankface guy (I’ve seen far to many girls fall into the traps of a wankface because there star eyed about his cash or looks, then left only to find she was used for the sex. These women become often damaged goods! Gold diggers often do too).

Has a good head on her shoulders, recently ive learned that a simple girl is quite nicer to be with. Career girls can become too obsessive with their work, have no time for fun and when they do, get too tired. In relationships they become to repetitive and its like dating a robot. So the simple girls are usually the best. Recently, I met a very sexy girl who simply worked in a fruit shop she was full on model material but was quite happy and simple being just they way she was. She earned a simple income, was very friendly and we went for a coffee, no games just simple and fun – we will go to dinner next!

Looks

Nice hair, face and eyes. Sexy, cute and petit I like a girl around the same height if not slightly taller or shorter but not too tall like a Sasquatch or too short like a Nome. I love brunets with green or brown eyes, olive smooth skin (very sexy!) but I really like slightly darker girls too. Body does not have to be absolutely perfect but a good figure gets you going and helps in the bedroom equation of things.

Not too skinny not too fat. just a little something to hold on to I don’t like sacks of bones nor feel like hugging a tree trunk at any stage (major turn off!). I still think there are far too many skinny and over weight girls out there but only a few that are just right.

I like a nice arse one that does not look like a blokes arse from behind it should be full proportionate and round but not like a huge bumble bee.

Breasts: to be honest I like them all it doesn’t even matter one bit of the size.

Conclusion:

A Simple girl who is elegant and sexy. She’s smart and intelligent, independent. The girl next door type.

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A male reader, teamfresh United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2009):

Well I want to start off by saying that looks are not everything to me... but in answer to your questions:

1) When it comes to the colour of hair I feel I must admit that I'm a hairdresser! So I'm not sure if this changes my views from "other guys" but - I like the girls hair to be either really dark or really light or really red or really, well really just a nice bold strong colour!

2) I'm a pretty slim guy myself so I would not like to be with a girl that would crush me in bed! if you know what I mean! my waist is 32 and I weigh around 10 stone so anything from slim to curvy looks good to me. I did try with a big girl once but I just couldn't throw her around the bedroom as I would have liked!!

3) When it comes to boobs I must admit that I'm not into big ones, When I was younger I really wanted to get my hands on a big pair, and then when I finally did it just made me realize that actually, I prefer them smaller, AA'cup to C'cup looks good to me.

4) OK so now I get to tell you what REALLY attracts me to a woman, a good sense of humor is always a winner, and honesty is very attractive to me also. I like to be with a girl that I feel connected to. A deep understanding. Someone who is prepared to have that bond with me, so that even if we are far apart I can still feel her with me. Someone who loves cuddles in bed at night and in the morning. Someone who is a wicked friend as well as a lover. Someone I can share my hopes and dreams with and someone who will hold me when I'm sad.

If a girl can give me everything listed in 4) then 1) 2) and 3) mean nothing to me really. age then means little also.

All those physical things about a person, change over time due to the many different factors of life. if a guy can't see past that then he needs to grow up because hes not ready to find a girlfriend. he wants JUST sex.

I'm sure that every guy is different but I hope this helps.x

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A male reader, Mr Me United States +, writes (19 March 2009):

Mr Me agony auntFor starters, I will say there are exceptions to my likes below, but here you go:

1) Brunette (you'll find it interesting that I tend to lean away from blonds -- I just don't like the hair color, before anyone starts making assumptions)

2) Curvy please and remotely fit. My favorite curves are the thighs, hip area, and the side stomach hourglass curves :)

3) I prefer B size.

4) A couple other things I look at are her sense of humor (does it line up well with mine?), how smart she is, height (prefer shorter than me), etc...

Well, there you go :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

ps size 10\12 is great - be happy. Star

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

1)doesnt matter

2)curvy (uk size 8-12)

3)medium (c-dd)

4)-how well i get on with her(how easy it is to be around her)

-similar humor

-similar interests(but i wouldnt expext her to like everything i do cos i doubt i'd like everything she does

-she would have to make me feel:like nothing else matters in the world when i'm with her

:like the luckiest guy every just cos she wants to be with me

:when i look into her eyes all i see is the most beautiful girl ever.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009):

:) if she is female she will be fine...

hair - a sort of reddy-browny-blonde-coloured long-wavy-short thing in hair is fine.

size -not a stick. (unless i wanted to play fetch) or play the xylophone on ribs.

boobs - any size is fine - all are great.

her guide dog.

Star.x.

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