Am I right or is he wrong?
Q. I met this man during my divorce. I am 47 and been together for 6 months. I have Christmas at work but not allowed to take partners. He said we will be over if I go because he doesnt like it. He always emphazise he is a one on one person. He ...
A. 20 November 2007: It is too much control I do accept. But i do understand that he does not like these parties. Some poeple dont. And if he is not imprsinoning you at home all the time -which of course is not the case- and going out for christmas etc is not the most ... (read in full...)
Should I embark on a sex-free marriage?
Q. I'm engaged to be married and have been with my fiancee over 5 years. The first 2 years we had lots of sex. After 2 years sex got less and less now we don't have sex at all and I havent had sex for about 2 years. Dispite this I still proposed a...
A. 20 November 2007: Are you crazy? Are you an angel? Are you also finished with sex?
Of course not. No body can ask you not even her to get into this body without flesh and blood.
say good bye and run away!... (read in full...)
Do I go for maintenance or not?
Q. Hi every1, im in a bit of a delemma. I was seeing a guy for a few months and i thought everything was fine until his friend told me had a gf in another state. I tried to end it although after a drunken night wed hooked up, it was the last time i s...
A. 20 November 2007: you are a good woman. I strongly sypmthize with you. No body can ask you to have an abortion. He sought excitement he ended up in a huge mess and responsibility. As a decent girl dont mess up with his 'real affair' and yout blackmail him to ensure ... (read in full...)
He lied to me. How do I get over it?
Q. My husband had an 18-month secret relationship with a recently bereaved woman in another country: emails, texts, calls, lunches and an expensive birthday present. I don't think it got as far as sex, but was heading that way. Whilst I was u...
A. 20 November 2007: Most men lie. I did. Many women lie also.
I cant possibly believe they did not have sex. He bought expensive birthday presents for her for God's sake.
But it happens and some women know or feel and wait or overlook. Some break up some stays i... (read in full...)
Why do I get mad at my bf's ex?
Q. i had this feeling that i want to get mad at my boyfriend's exgirlfriend though she had done nothing wrong on us... but the thoughts of maybe she still love my man keeps on hunting me.. what should I do with this?...
A. 20 November 2007: If she is around you two often you are right in getting that feeling. I am not a believer in civilized contacts between exes...
If you are letting her to be around you are inviting trouble on yourself and relationship.
Keep a good distance. ... (read in full...)
After 3 months space, that she requested I must ask.....have I given her enough time to herself?
Q. A couple of months ago, my best mate told me that his girlfriend's best mate fancied me. His girlfriend then set me up with her best friend and we started chatting and getting to know each other through MSN and Myspace, and both realised we liked ...
A. 20 November 2007: I guess she was not much impressed by you. May be she did not like much enough. I dont think you had enough space and time to get to know each other so that she might have had to chance to really like you. So simply judged you superficially on how ... (read in full...)
She is my bf's ex and used to be my friend! How can I patch things up with her?
Q. my boyfriend's ex and I were not on good terms.. lots of bad things happened after their break up and they (ex's friends)threw the faults on me.. How i wish im the one but god damn, i actually have no concern with them during dat time! She was once ...
A. 20 November 2007: Why are you trying something against our nature. Even though you might not have had eye on your friends ex at the time, dont you think it is only natural for her to see his ex and his ex girlfriend together. I mean come on it wont happen. It is hard ... (read in full...)
His ex gf is using their child to get him back! What should I do?
Q. the person i am in love has a child with his ex girlfriend. i guess that the child will always connect him with his ex girlfriend. i am not jealous, but i think that now she is using the child to get back with him, but he says that he loves me, and ...
A. 20 November 2007: Hard situation. As you have understood the child will connect them until the end of their and may be your life.
If you accept this given fact, and love him love also his child love. Be or try to be understanding towards the mother. But make sue... (read in full...)
He says I am spoiled and immature and I don't feel good enough for him! Are we on the verge of breaking up? Advice?
Q. What shall I do? My bf and I have been dating for a few months and I thought that everything's perfect until we had a fight recently. Over some stuff I say that I completely do not mean it and I really do not see a bit deal of, and he takes off...
A. 20 November 2007: My definition of love is not to do with being spoilt saying wrong words sometimes etc. Its understanding knowing and feeling the other party's soul and heart.
And thats going to happen whatever stupid things you or he would say to each other so... (read in full...)
Why do I yearn to be pregnant with my bloke so much?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for a little over 2 years now. I'm 19 he's 22. We're extremely happy, and often talk about the future we plan to have, except lately I've been having thoughts of getting engaged, married and pregnant quite ...
A. 20 November 2007: As mosy women naturally do you wanna have a kid whose father is the man you love.
It is alright and healthy.
Get married settle down have money and home and have your baby...... (read in full...)
My ex husband won't leave me alone even though it has been 3 years since the divorce and he is living with another woman, what can I do??
Q. My ex husband and i am divorced. We have been apart for three years now. but he won't leave me alone. I did or probably dolove him so much that i have been unable to let him go. To be blunt he is living with another woman but sometimes sees me 3 ...
A. 19 November 2007: You are wronging the other woman. Why did you get divorce in the first place then? Did you ask yourself whether you actually wont let him go and wont let the other woman have your ex.
Please it is ludicrous. Either get back to him or leave hi... (read in full...)
I don't love him but I love to feel loved by him, am I not fair on him and should let him go??
Q. I am 45 met this man when I am going through my divorce. I've been married for 20 years. I love my husband but it didnt work out so I have to let go but that really hurts. It's so nice there is someone there for you when you are in trouble. He ...
A. 19 November 2007: The thing is you just need him leaving you a bit. He lacks the sense of making himself not easily available to you all the time. He is too nice.
Once you notice he may have another woman, he does not have time for you all the time. you will go afte... (read in full...)
I have a gut feeling she tries to hide things about her past from me. Should I say something to her or just let it go?
Q. hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I...
A. 19 November 2007: I definitely think you need to know and it is your right. But if she wants she will still lie to you. Sge sgould now that if she tells you honestly chances are you will agonize over it but forget it later.
I hope that she did not do somethin... (read in full...)
We have a child together but he doesn't want to leave his wife, how do I cope with this?
Q. well this is going to be long. Nearly two years ago I started an affair with a married man ( i was married too). After 5 months or so I was pregnant. I knew it was his child and he never doubted that. He stood by me and our relationship grew. We ...
A. 18 November 2007: In the beginning you were both married. you are both equally responsible for the quagmire. But since he never promised you that he would leave his wife and additionally you were also married, you cant ask him to be yours only. His attitude is fair. ... (read in full...)
If I could change everything with magic I would be married to the sister instead of my wife. Any advice?
Q. i am stuck in a loveless marriage. my wife and i don't sleep together nor are intimate with one another. we've basically become two people living together. we definately are not in love with each other. we've been to counselling, but that does not ...
A. 18 November 2007: It would not be ethical nor would it be helpful, in current situation, for you to begin a relationship with the sister.
Your wife would go crazy once she hears about it and in the future it would always be traumatic to face your wife.
The bes... (read in full...)
Some girls have said to my face I'm ugly. Will I ever have a gf?
Q. I find it difficult to be attracted to girls my own age .because some girls have said to my face im ugly. Now i find it so difficult to love myself. At one pointnice guy, but they say nice guys are not good looking. I once wanted to take my own ...
A. 18 November 2007: I have seen tens of 'ugly' sweat stinking men sleeping with tons of girls around. Just be confident of yourself. You value yourself others start valueing you.
Dont look for the right girl be content with yourself be interested in others with... (read in full...)
Should I be patient, or walk away.
Q. I am seeing a married man, and have been for nearly a year. I also work with him. He has been married for a number of years and has two children (18 and 14). He has told me that he loves me, is not in love with his wife and he even left home ...
A. 18 November 2007: You accepted the role of mistress and mistresses are there for sex. he does not even bother to have sex with you for long. He is just trying to make sure you dont cause trouble to him. ie call his home wife etc. Or may be just trying to be nice ... (read in full...)
Should I be patient, or walk away.
Q. I am seeing a married man, and have been for nearly a year. I also work with him. He has been married for a number of years and has two children (18 and 14). He has told me that he loves me, is not in love with his wife and he even left home ...
A. 18 November 2007: It is absurd. You accepted the role of mistress and mistresses are there for sex. he does not event bother to have sex with you for long. He is just trying to make sure you dont cause trouble to him. ie call his home wife etc. Or mya just trying to ... (read in full...)
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