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writes:My ex husband and i am divorced. We have been apart for three years now. but he won't leave me alone. I did or probably dolove him so much that i have been unable to let him go. To be blunt he is living with another woman but sometimes sees me 3 times a week and somestimes once a month. When i am with someone else he comes round more. its like he wants me to hurt. Doesn@t wnat me but wont let me go . Does this make sence. I've got to the point where i know i deserve better. and feel stupid. It took so long to get to this point. Any one else been here.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): YES, YOUR IN A TOUGH SPOT. it's like you if you both turn loose all together then it sets inthe mind that is offically over, even when you know it already but it's the heart that has not let go. you have to ask yourself is it working for you? if you want more then just that then you have to be the bigger person and turn away and even if it hurts don't look back in the long run you will be gald you did.
Signed been there!~
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Ok i totally understand where you are coming from, i think it is pretty clear you still love him and that is why you have been seeing him like you have.
Do you want him back, do you think he will ever come back?
You need to try and talk to him and find out what he wants from you and work out what you want babe.
If he wants you back and thats what you wnat then he has to leave the other women and come back, if not then you need to tell him that he needs to leave you alone and let you get on with your life and he needs to do the same.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 You are wronging the other woman. Why did you get divorce in the first place then? Did you ask yourself whether you actually wont let him go and wont let the other woman have your ex.
Please it is ludicrous. Either get back to him or leave him. It is all up to you. It is not OK right now and you need to take full responsibility for this ridiclous situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): Lucky man!! He gets to have his woman and you on the side, so why on earth should he leave you alone?? It doesn't look like you have any respect for yourself from where I'm sitting, and quite frankly at your age you really ought to know better. So do yourself a favour, stop sleeping with him, get control back in your life, and sort yourself out.
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