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writes:hey people just wanted to know wot to do...ive been with my gf for about a year now we do hava good relationship..but theres a few things that bother me and im worried it may effect our relationship..we gave our vrginity to each other.. I keep getting the this gut feeling that shes tries to hide things about her past from me..for example she told me about this fling she had with someone which i didnt like to hear bt she said they didnt much more then just kiss..but for some reason ive tried to ask who it was a couple of times and she always tries to avoid answering the question its like i know the person..i understand shes doing it for my protection bt its annoying at the same time as i feel like im going to lose trust in her..I dnt think she realises that i have noticed her trying to hide it from. do i say something to her about it or just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007): My brother,i understand what your going thru...As a rule of thumb.NEVER DIGG.You dug out info,got a little.Like a drug u just want it more and more so that you resolve the tension thats inside you....(solution) get over it cuz the past gon hurt u.Concentrate on the NOW if u cant get over this you have to leave the girl..cuz where thez no trust thez no love.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (19 November 2007):
 It really depends on how much she means to you, if it was something that happened before you were together why should it matter, sometimes people have things in their past they just don't want to remember or talk about.
You should not have any reason to lose trust in her and if she did come out with whatever she may be hiding what exactly are you going to get from it, it may well be something you would really rather not hear about.
I would suggest you just enjoy the relationship you have with her and if she wants to tell you she will in her own time.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Samutsen  +, writes (19 November 2007):
 I definitely think you need to know and it is your right. But if she wants she will still lie to you. Sge sgould now that if she tells you honestly chances are you will agonize over it but forget it later.
I hope that she did not do something perverse. Hard to swallow. Better to talk. I dont think you are kind of person who will easily let go of this thought.
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reader, pgissyd +, writes (19 November 2007):
 Didnt we answer this one this morning???
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