It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 17 December 2012: I forgot about this happening as i have not been on this site in soooo long. This guy actually tried to text me a couple weeks later but I was in New York on training. I told him that I was in New York and he never said anything further. I can't ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 24 September 2011: I have a feeling our paths will cross again and I will relish putting him in his place but for right now I need to get over it and meet other people. Thank You so much for all of your advice as it is highly theraputic to see different view points. ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 22 September 2011: its not the call that scares me. Its the "hey what happened where did you go" call answered by a voice mail with no call back. Or the ignored text message. NO GUY goes from texting everyday to nothing if he is interested. Perhaps my pride does keep ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 20 September 2011: I DID make contact after the sex. he responded and we talked back and forth for a week and then he went silent. When I say I don't chase guys, it means I don't keep texting/calling after i made the last contact. It seems so pathetic. I guess I will ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 19 September 2011: Well I wanted it under the assumption that it was headed somewhere. I guess I assumed wrong. He did not have a girlfriend but if he was hung up on someone I wouldn't know that unless he told me. He made me think he liked me and I stupidly slept with ... (read in full...)
Does Internet dating actually work?
Q. I thought I'd share my experience - I guess I'm probably not alone. I've generally not had a problem in getting first dates with women on dating sites: although my looks are fairly average at best I've got a good profile and can write witty emails. ...
A. 18 September 2011: The probem with online dating is this. People look at a picture and 2 hours with someone and expect it to be this amazing thing. The truth is, when you meet people in real life and get to know them, you find yourself later attracted to them when you ... (read in full...)
When I confronted boyfriend about cheating he didn't say anything which to me confirms that he's cheating. Now what?
Q. how do i get over this: I had my boyfriend, and he cheated on me and when I confronted him he said he didn't do anything, then he didn't want to talk about it, he left. That only tells me one thing, that is it true and I don't know how to cope...
A. 18 September 2011: Let him go and don't let him come back. I have been through this. I kicked my cheater out and never allowed him to converse with me about anything other that financial ties.Once the ties were broken, I went NC. I am 100 percent over it and he (from ... (read in full...)
Does she even have an ounce of love for me? Or am I setting myself to be completely destroyed later on?
Q. My girlfriend of almost a year dumped me two days after my birthday (mid-august) completely out of the blue. That night, she texted me saying "I think I don't like you anymore" and our relationship to me ended at that moment. Mind you, not to make ...
A. 18 September 2011: First off if her brother is telling you to leave her alone than she is telling her family a different story while she is texting/calling you. THat is bad. Next, she wants to keep you on a shelf because of all the power you have given her in the rela... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 18 September 2011: If I had a time machine I would have not had sex so soon. Its not fair that men chase you and if you let them catch you and its possibly too soon or before a connection has been made enough, he counts it as a stike against you. Such crap. I learned ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 18 September 2011: well my last text to him was Monday and I said some joke about me not being able to drink that much. He never responded and has not made contact since so obviously he doesn't want me I guess. I mean It is aleady Sunday now. He used to never go one ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 17 September 2011: well that is just it. I did initiate the text after the sex. He responded then it eventually died off with me saying the last text. I just think the ball is in his court now. I said I had a good time and I made contact after the fact and Monday was ... (read in full...)
Ex says he wants to keep in touch, but doesn't
Q. I have had it out with the 'ex' tonight about keeping in contact! He dumped me for not very understanble reasons! But said he didn't want to lose me completely etc..., I gave him EVERY opportunity to just end contact now, (in my text) said I...
A. 17 September 2011: he wants to keep you on the shelf in case the other items are defective. How bout you end contact. He had his chance and he blew it. If you want him back then ignore him a little and maybe he will see you won't sit on the shelf. If you don't want ... (read in full...)
Haven't met yet, but she's told me something personal. Not sure what to think!
Q. Ive been texting this girl off a dating site (we haven't met in person yet) for over a month now and I really like her but I dont know how she feels about me. It is a bit hard to gauge emotion through text message. We talk almost every day and on ...
A. 17 September 2011: she likes you dude but if you don't meet soon that will die out... (read in full...)
How should I respond when a guy I'm dating says, "I love you"?
Q. what should I respond when a guy I am dating said "I love you" what should I say if a guy I am dating said "I love you"? if I want to find out his "I love you" is not just for a casual relationship but for a committed (to Marriage, I mean) relation...
A. 17 September 2011: I love is a pretty serious thing to say but don't jump to marriage and scare him away lol. He will let you know how serious he is if he speaks in the future and if he speaks in the "we" context. If he says we should get a dog one day then this is a ... (read in full...)
My gay best friend wants me to be his pretend girlfriend so that his parents don't get to know about his sexual orientation
Q. Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. One of my best friends is gay, and he asked me to be his pretend girlfriend so his parents don't get suspicious. They don't know he's gay and are very strict in their religion, which is anti-gay. My friend has a plan. ...
A. 17 September 2011: He is only 15. he doesn't have to have a girlfriend yet. patents don't usually get suspicious till post college and their son has no or has had no girlfriend. If he want to not tell them then he can talk about girls to them to give them the idea ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting my time? Is he out of my league?
Q. I've had this thing for this guy for a little less than a year. We hooked up in January (not all the way, however) and I left for college. We continued talking but I didnt fully believe he could like me (he was 2 years above me in high school and ...
A. 17 September 2011: well all you can do is say hey i like you what do you think. he will give some kind of answer. If he makes up some wishy washy answer than forget him. however if you want to forget him and stop ending up "back where u started and falling for him" ... (read in full...)
A girl told me a rumour about my boyfriend and now I'm lost, hurt and confused, can someone please help me out?
Q. A girl told me he told her he liked her two days into our relationship. I got super angry at him and accused him of cheating even though he kept denying it repeating "I have NO idea what you'e talking about!!" But she's a bit of a gossip so I don't ...
A. 17 September 2011: I think you need to let him come back to you. If he loves you then he will forgive you and make contact. If he doesn't or keeps suggesting you all be friends then he probably is trying to check out other options. If you blew up at him really bad ... (read in full...)
Hubby having/had an affair???
Q. Had or having an affair? hes 31 but 2 months ago he trashed his 24 year old friend by revealing her sexual antics on radio,the number of men she slept with and who's she sleeping with while hes talking and 3 weeks ago he said hes a fan of the same...
A. 17 September 2011: maybe she pissed him off by saying something to him or who knows. you don't have enough info yet. Ask him why he is so bothered by this and seem confused like you think its abnormal and maybe he will tell you. If he makes up some obvious lie, then ... (read in full...)
Broken heart, now I'm thinking of joining the military
Q. I am currently enrolled in college. I really dislike school. I cant pay attention in class. I just broke up with the girl of my dreams and I am really sad. The whole reason why I decided to go to college was to be closer to her. Now that its over I ...
A. 17 September 2011: This is not your parents life,its your life. I have made the mistake of giving up a career path for a boyfriend and it was just as much of a mistake. If you want to join the marines then JOIN THE MARINES. If you don't and do what you family wants, ... (read in full...)
The girl that I like doesn't seem to like me back..
Q. Ok,so I am a 14 year old boy ... and last year, I met this girl, who I find very, very attractive, a year ago, and i like her very very much ... So i am friend with her best friend and she tells me many things, and this girl who I like doesn't want ...
A. 17 September 2011: sweetie you are 14 and there are tons of pretty girls. why follow the one that says she doesn't like you. forget her. go for her friends!!!... (read in full...)
How could he be engaged so soon after our break up?
Q. What are the chances that my ex fiance's new relationship will survive? He left me after 7 yrs. 5 mths. ago and became engaged to her after only 3 mths. I know it seems like they were seeing each other before he left me but, that is not the case. ...
A. 17 September 2011: BTW read my answer below: The ex that left me didn't last 4 months with the 19 year old.He is now broke and clinging onto some other girl. The 19 year got too immature and he quicly dumped her for another. I still wait for the day that I hear he ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 17 September 2011: oh yeah also it had been like 7 months since he split with the ex so I figured he had enough single time but obviously he did not or he just isn't into me like that or worse yet............bad sex lol I sure hope its not that last one... (read in full...)
Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married but I feel like I'm going to be single forever..
Q. I feel like I'm going to be single forever. I just turned 25 and I feel so alone. Everyone around me is either getting engaged or married. It's lonely when my friends are talking about wedding dresses and center pieces and I have no one. I find ...
A. 17 September 2011: 25?! I'm 30 and still have not found my soulmate....well I did but he lives in another state so that is useless lol Don't live ur life on a time line. Lots of people do and thier time line usually includes divorce at some point because their reasons ... (read in full...)
It seems like everything died because we had sex!
Q. i hit one wrong button and deleted everything I wrote so here is a reduced version. I was talking to a guy for two months via text and hung out a few times. He works at the same place I do but don't see him hardly at all so I wasn't worried about ...
A. 17 September 2011: well he did reply but he hasn't spoken to me in 5 days. he used to never go one day and the only thing different is sex so that has to be the problem. I have not bothered him and I'm definately giving space but i can't help feeling rejected and a ... (read in full...)
I am a flirt who loves to just want sex!
Q. Everytime I like a guy and I know he doesnt like me back I seem to use sex as a way to defend myself, i seduce him, get what i want and then get over him quick. The sex isnt that good, it gets the job done it feels good, but it doesnt please my ...
A. 17 September 2011: you need to take care of yourself in the sexaul department before you go out on a date. I have never found that sleeping with someone helped me to get over them as it seems to make me bond with them. I wish it did not do that though as that has ... (read in full...)
Should I believe in the fortune teller?
Q. Hello everyone here in Dearcupid, I had something which is hard for me and make a decision. I went to met a fortune teller yesterday because i some people said he is famous at seeing people destiny, and he say a lot of bad about my future, he said ...
A. 17 September 2011: Fortune Teller. If he could predict your future so easily then he could do the same for anything. He would play the lotto, pick the Ky Derby Winner, or simply invest in the right business. He is not a fortune teller. He is a con artist. No marriage ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous of this girl and I don't know what to do.
Q. I'm jealous of this girl and I don't know what to do. First of all, we're not friends or anything like that. We go to the same school and I get to see her everyday. Basically, I'm just jealous of her looks and her popularity, because her inte...
A. 17 September 2011: Eventually these girls face a tragic reality. The day they are not young, thin, and perfect. It is debilitating for them and they can become seriously depressed as people who once idolized them, dont cast them a second glance. This doesn't happen to ... (read in full...)
Confidence issues. Can I stop having off days?
Q. Hi everyone, I wondered if you can tell me what's wrong with me (if anything is) I'm having some issues with confidence. I've always had an issue with confidence to some extent, but over the past few months I've tried to change. Some days I feel ...
A. 17 September 2011: I have a problem with confidence also. I simply FAKE IT. I have acted like something has not bothered me before when I felt like dying inside about it. Pretend you are an actress. After faking it, I eventually actually became more confident. ... (read in full...)
I may have messed things up...Help!!
Q. So, I met this guy online. We'd been talking for about 3 weeks because he was on leave when we first started talking. He's now back from visiting home and we met about 3 days ago and I ended up liking him WAY more then I expected to once I met him ...
A. 17 September 2011: WOA. no more contacting him. If it's messed up, sending more messages will just be ignored. If he makes contact, apologize about the facebook thing and appear like you are about to meet up with friends. wish him well and then leave it to him to make ... (read in full...)
How do I tell people I am gay??.... No one knows!!
Q. Im gay and iv always known that but no 1 else does how do i come out????? plz help...
A. 6 February 2011: Well I think it's like most things. Hard at first but so much better after. U can't live ur life in secret and why should u? Life is so short... (read in full...)
This boy I like says he loves his girlfriend yet he always flirts with me. What should I do?
Q. Hey Cupid This boy I like has a girlfriend and says he loves her and always wants her in his life but yet he always flirts with me while I'm at his house (my friend's brother). We don't go to the same school anymore but soon are and I just don't...
A. 6 February 2011: Would u really want to steal him? What stop the next girl from stealing him from you? Don't be that girl. She end up unhappy and no one feels sorry for her. Lots of hot single guys in the world. Go get one of those :)... (read in full...)
In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?
Q. My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don'...
A. 6 February 2011: He's a chaser and thAts it. It's frustrating cause they can't live without and then it's like u don't exist. There Are guys out there who are not like this. Just dump him. Free him to continue his cycle which will ultimately leave him alone in life. ... (read in full...)
Married man is finally free, will our marriage work?
Q. I have been dating a man older than me by 25yearrs for about 3years.I'm 21years old now.Now that he and his wife are nolonger together,I am sceptical that our marriage(he proposed) will work.Am I being unfair on us? I do love him but looking ...
A. 6 February 2011: U loose them like u get them. U are way too young and when reality sets into ur relationship, it will most likely not survive. Not to mention that neither of you are real high in moral character since u both disrespected marriage vows. Why would he ... (read in full...)
Backwards boyfriend de-evolution
Q. My boyfriend is age 22, we have been friends for about two years and in a deepening emotional relationship since last february. So it has almost been a year since we started being intimiate. My question is is that i am 28 and he is 22 and we ...
A. 19 December 2010: He may be too young. I know people mature at different ages but he sound like he still needs to sow some wild oats and that could take a while. I would ask him whAt his Plans are for the future. Ur gut is also pretty reliable so listen to it... (read in full...)
I wish my boyfriend would treat me with some sort of respect!
Q. i dont know what to do. my boyfriend treats me like shit. we have a baby and im 8 months pregnant again and he has a job so hes never really home during the day. i get up every morning with the baby and tend to the baby all day then my boyfriend ...
A. 19 December 2010: Well if u are on ur own make it official. He sounds like a selfish ungrateful prick. if he screams at u when u try to communicate then he is a child. U can go from three kids to two by dumping him.... (read in full...)
What's up with this discharge?
Q. Okay well I been having a problem and I really want to know what happening to my body. I just turned 15 a week ago and like two days ago water has just been coming out of my vargina. I'm not into sex or anything so why is water coming out of my ...
A. 19 December 2010: Prob just more lubrication than most but see a doc. They know for sure... (read in full...)
Shouldn't sex last??
Q. So me and this guy always have sex well kinda we did like 3 times and when we do it's only for like 30 or 40 min .. And idk if he cummed or not or if he had an orgasim or not .. But shouldn't sex last for like an hour or 2 ??? ...
A. 19 December 2010: 2 hours ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha .........ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. You are awesome and I needed that. Movies lie. Cosmo magazine lies. 30-45 min is outstanding but to be honest I would not enjoy it after an hour anyways. It's like enough already I'm ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said I was beautiful but had seen better
Q. So I have been seeing this guy for almost 6 months now. We got close very fast, and everything began so wonderfully. He always told me how beautiful he thought I was. I have a bit of a hard time accepting compliments, so we would kind of joke about ...
A. 19 December 2010: Well u are a but insecure and he is a bit superficial. Does he take the time to make himself llom good for u all the time? Doubt it. Men are so clueless and think photoshopped pics Nd women on tv all made up all the time are reality and they are ... (read in full...)
Given my dream, and my history with both men. What is my dream telling me?
Q. I literally just woke up from one of the most confusing dreams I've had in a very long time. I remember it vividly. *** I was at a flea market with my cousin and his wife. I get a call to my cellphone and it's my ex boyfriend. He tells me "I ...
A. 19 December 2010: Your dream is telling you to leave ur fiance. Your boyfriend is saying in your dream what u can't seem to say. Does it mean u should get back with the ex? I don't know but I'm not one to recommend getting back with a cheater. The decision I believe ... (read in full...)
Our "friend" has a reputation for going after taken men, and now we've broken up over her!
Q. Have been in the relationship 4 years, after being friends for about a year. I really enjoy being with him, and i thought he felt the same. Over the past year, our jobs have kept us in contact with a woman who is now the catalyst of our troubles. I ...
A. 19 December 2010: I would tell her that she should try the new fad diet as she appears to be gaining weight. Maybe tell her how your boyfriend thinks she is a more plain version of some ugly celebrity. He doesn't need to call her sweetheart and text her. She is ... (read in full...)
Where did my beautiful loving wife go?
Q. My wife and I have 3 boys and have been married for 8 years. This year just after our anniversary my wife began an affair. She had become increasingly distant, and I finally asked her what was going on after 6 weeks without intimacy. She flatly told ...
A. 19 December 2010: Your wife is a worthless selfish pig and was probably happy to find a way to make u a bad guy. Get your self respect back and kick her to the curb. She doesn't want to fix anything because it's her that is broken. LEAVE!!!!!... (read in full...)
He decided I'm not worth the effort of fixing this marriage!
Q. I do not understand how someone, man or woman, can simply walk out on their family. My husband and I have had our share of problems. Our marriage hasnt ever been a cake walk, but I have supported him in every decision he has ever made during our 3 ...
A. 30 November 2010: I answered this but my laptop just erased it when it back tracked to last page for no reason. FING MICROSOFT. anyways.....I said.....helping someone never turns them into a good person. I helped my ex when he was at his lowest and he returned the ... (read in full...)
She left me, now wants to come back, but her facebook says she in a relationship with someone else!
Q. what to do when your girlfriend of two years leaves? her only excuses she keeps telling me is that i am controlling. we was talking she told me if i love her i would bring her stuff to her so we could start working on things. any way that has been ...
A. 30 November 2010: she wants to come home because the grass was not greener. don't take that crap back. she will always be looking for a better ride. she is the ride that sucks. go no contact and find a hot chick who barely gets on facebook. I have facebook due to ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should dump my needy boyfriend
Q. well im dating this guy he is a very nice guy but he calls 24 seven. he never leaves me alone. i need time for my self and he wants me to be around him and i have things to do he would yell at me some times for saying i couldnt come over or talk he ...
A. 30 November 2010: yuk. needy guys are not attractive at all. I always end it when this happens immediately as letting it drag on just worsens it. DON'T cheat. break up. cheating is the most disrespectful thing you can do to someone and it build bad karma for you for ... (read in full...)
I feel like my life has fallen apart and I feel very alone......
Q. Where to start? Well have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. We have a child together, she is 15 mos old (I am stay at home mom). It seems every 3-4 months we get into a big fight, where he says he is unhappy. This last fight I had it, if h...
A. 30 November 2010: people do say hurtful things when angry but if its the same things like "i've never been happy with you" that is serious. you guys need counseling or to just call it quits. I would opt for counseling as you have a child to think about but no child ... (read in full...)
In love with two women!
Q. I never thought I would go through this, especially not now, but I'm in love with two people, two women. I met this wonderful girl a couple of months ago, we see each other almost everyday and it's always great. I trust her completely and she trusts ...
A. 30 November 2010: if you are wanting something with girl B then you don't really love girl A. Infatuation and new is not love. Both girls are new and exciting. You don't love either. Stay single though as you are not mature enough to be faithful to someone yet. You ... (read in full...)
How could he be engaged so soon after our break up?
Q. What are the chances that my ex fiance's new relationship will survive? He left me after 7 yrs. 5 mths. ago and became engaged to her after only 3 mths. I know it seems like they were seeing each other before he left me but, that is not the case. ...
A. 24 September 2010: That crap won't work out. He is moving waaaay too fast and that is a huge red flag. He is doing everything in the honey moon phase and that means he will be divorcing one day and probably with a kid if she pulls the "oopse I'm pregnant thing" to ... (read in full...)
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