I don't think this woman is as innocent as my b/f thinks she is!
Q. I hope you guys can help me, i'm drowning in my own am i paranoid question.. I met a colleague (A) from a different country 5 years ago. We had this connection and both of us felt it as we discovered 2 years ago when we met again. Anyway i told him...
A. 22 September 2010: I would never risk a good relationship to keep someone around who I hang out with when I'm bored. He sounds like he likes the ego boost but ask him if he would like it if you hung around some guy who liked you. He would not like it I am sure. If he ... (read in full...)
Should I just be content with what the ex and I have?
Q. Well my ex contacted me recently she wanted to be friends we have been talking for almost 2 months now and i still love her and out of the whole year that we havent talked i love her the same i was wondering should i try to get her back..tell her ...
A. 21 September 2010: I would let her lead a bit. Dont put yourself on hold forever though. Let her know your intentions of returning to a relationship but let her know that you are aware you messed up and it will be her decision. If she wants you back then you will know ... (read in full...)
Should I just be content with what the ex and I have?
Q. Well my ex contacted me recently she wanted to be friends we have been talking for almost 2 months now and i still love her and out of the whole year that we havent talked i love her the same i was wondering should i try to get her back..tell her ...
A. 20 September 2010: well then she has a valid point but she may still have feelings for her but you first have to show her that you 100% trust her. I have been cheated on for first time recently and it truely sucks. There is no way to ensure it will never happen but if ... (read in full...)
He won't be clear with me about our relationship...do I stay or do I go?
Q. hi i have been seeing this guy for about 5 months now, at the first few months he would ask what would i say if he was to ask me out (as his gf) i replyed i would say yes! ever since then i have not heard anything more about it, just recintly he ...
A. 20 September 2010: you're on familiar waters to me. I cant say how it will end for you but i can tell you how it ends for me. Nothing Improves. I analyze the situation and think he will figure it out but he doesn't. I finally figure it out and leave. I can't tell you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of 3years hasn't spoken to me in a month.. he's making me feel sad and pathetic, what to do?
Q. i have not heard from my bf in a month. last i told him anything i said he know swhere to find me bc he kept saying he 'doesnt feel right', cheating or lying has not been an issue with him and i, we have been with on another for 3 yrs. he missed our ...
A. 20 September 2010: well when my boyfriend started acting weird for bout5 days, i cought him cheating with text messages on his phone. We were together almost 2 years, lived together, his truck in my name which i still owe on and can't afford but its in my driveway. ... (read in full...)
Frustrated with a world of jerks
Q. why do pretty girls seem to go through more heartbreak. It seems that no one is safe from being used and abused no matter what their appearance. I am not saying that I'm the "Queen of the Universe" but I have always been told I am very attractive. ...
A. 20 September 2010: glazed donut Im in forensics i'm not an idiot. I just dont see why my relationships end up like crap. I try not to chase but then I end up going overboard and being told no one can read me. I can't win.
futurearmy wife glad you understa... (read in full...)
Frustrated with a world of jerks
Q. why do pretty girls seem to go through more heartbreak. It seems that no one is safe from being used and abused no matter what their appearance. I am not saying that I'm the "Queen of the Universe" but I have always been told I am very attractive. ...
A. 20 September 2010: male readerwow u could not have pegged me more wrong. there is only one rock star type i have dated. the rest are normal guys and i was not saying i'm a damn supermodel i'm just saying what i'm told. you sound very bitter even more so than me. It ... (read in full...)
I don't think this woman is as innocent as my b/f thinks she is!
Q. I hope you guys can help me, i'm drowning in my own am i paranoid question.. I met a colleague (A) from a different country 5 years ago. We had this connection and both of us felt it as we discovered 2 years ago when we met again. Anyway i told him...
A. 20 September 2010: no she sounds like trouble to me but men are usually very naive on how women can be. They act friendly and try to seduce the guy away. Most just end up with a guy that is seduced away from them sooner or later. However he says he does not want her ... (read in full...)
Loving your bestfriend that doesn't love u back
Q. What do i do if im in love with a guy and he doesnt love me back? plus he was my best friend. I know im in love no matter what, i never thought i could feel this way for someone. no matter how much pain he puts me through i still love him. over the ...
A. 20 September 2010: he may have got scared that a relationship would kill the comfort zone he feels with u. If you miss him than send him a message that you don't know what you were thinking when you told him you liked him. Just don't ever expect more than friends and ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have a relationship with my married boss?
Q. Hi there, I got divorce recently because my husband cheated on me,anyway, I 'm here alone in USA.(new arrived). I'm working in a company. The manager has some feeling towards me even before I got divorce. he asked me if I'm married or not. ...
A. 20 September 2010: If you do than you are just like the girl your ex-husband cheated with. It creates bad karma. I would keep friendship and use him as an example of what to look for out their in the non-married male world :)... (read in full...)
Feel insecure in a long distance relationship
Q. Hello. I'm a 25-year-old girl in Asia and I've been dating my 24-year-old European boyfriend since February. Now, we're in a long distance relationship because he has gone back to his country to finish his school and it's been two months. (Sorry, I ...
A. 20 September 2010: you are right to worry. Last time i checked out suspicious texts was when I caught my boyfriend cheating on me. You should not have to feel that way. No woman should. You need to get yourself a loyal guy who you don't worry about. I have not really ... (read in full...)
I've fallen in love with my brother's wife
Q. I am totally confused right now. My brother and I have always been great friends, but I seem to have fallen in love with his wife. All three of us have been good friends for more than 7 years now and I have always liked her a lot, both as a friend ...
A. 20 September 2010: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Dont say a friggin thing. Your brother will hate you, she WILL tell him eventually, you are not seriously going to be the step dad to your nephew one day are you??? NO, Look I work in the crime scene unit for a large metropolis. I ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated and got the girl pregnant
Q. I am a woman that has been married for 3 years just found out that my husband may have a son. I will not leave him but we are both trying to deal with the problem i personally think it was a trap for him because he was being stupid its not ok he ...
A. 20 September 2010: um....sex once and resuting pregnancy is not as common as highschool makes it seem. He did this more than once which means he continued to stab you in the back till something force him to be honest. He didn't even use protection obviously so he ... (read in full...)
Did I sound too needy?
Q. hello, My boyfriend of almost a year and a half cheated on me with a girl 10 years younger (i'm 29, she is 19, HE is 30!!) I threw him out and he is off with her I guess. This question is just a back story as I'm dealing with that better than I t...
A. 20 September 2010: i guess i respond to your answers by answering my own question. I'm new to this site. Thanks Rescuer. I don't keep cheaters a second longer than they deserve which is none lol. Thanks for thinking it not too needy. As to Anonymous there thanks for ... (read in full...)
Should I just be content with what the ex and I have?
Q. Well my ex contacted me recently she wanted to be friends we have been talking for almost 2 months now and i still love her and out of the whole year that we havent talked i love her the same i was wondering should i try to get her back..tell her ...
A. 20 September 2010: what broke you two up?... (read in full...)
Lust... or love???
Q. Hello can anyone please tell me what to do when i was younger there was a girl that most of the boys were after and no one could get her, she would flirt with all of us. Me and her didn't really talk that much when we were younger but when she...
A. 20 September 2010: Facebook is fine for long distance boredom chatting but wrapping yourself up with someone you will never see is not good cause you may overlook something close to you. You have a boyhood crush and you are fantasizing based on a memory and not the ... (read in full...)
Sex dilemma!!!
Q. Hello everyone, posted yesterday about an issue with my girlfriend. Now I got another question about sex in relationships. Is it normal that I want sex once a day if the possibility is there? Is it uncomfortable for the woman in the relationship if ...
A. 20 September 2010: Ha where are u at?? just kidding. Get some lube for her. works wonders. i recommend liquid silk or astro K-Y. friction cause a "rug burn"like effect but this help that. some pain is worth it though in my opinion. :)... (read in full...)
Can a "dog" ever change?
Q. Hi, i've been told by people that a guy i know is a "dog" etc... i think i know what that means, do guys who are "dogs" ever change? Would they still act like a "dog" even if they have a girlfriend?...
A. 20 September 2010: honestly i think the only timme "dogs" get girlfriends, its because they find someone who they can't manipulate (usually a female "dog") it usually ends disastrously and u find yourself saying....."i'm glad i'm not her" I have never seen a guy ... (read in full...)
Is this just his way of finishing with me?
Q. About 5 weeks ago I received a message from my partners saying that he had to deal with major issues in his life and since then I barely hear from him. He says he needs his space to sort these things out. He tells me that the relationship is not ...
A. 20 September 2010: "issues" usually means another girl. I have recently been cheated on for the first time and it hurt so Im not speaking from a pedestool. He is a coward and I bet he is trying on other women but keeping you on the shelf in case the grass is not ... (read in full...)
I love him but he makes me crazy!
Q. Hi. I've been married for six years. This is my third marriage. I didn't want to marry again, but because my husband was not from the USA, marriage was the only way that we could be together. (I did not want to move to his country.) This is his ...
A. 20 September 2010: I hate to tell you this but the third time is not always a charm. He is using you plain and simple. I have been used before and it hurts but the second you catch on that it is happening..............END IT. who says you can't get rid of him. Who ... (read in full...)
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