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writes:So, I met this guy online. We'd been talking for about 3 weeks because he was on leave when we first started talking. He's now back from visiting home and we met about 3 days ago and I ended up liking him WAY more then I expected to once I met him in person. Well, he decided he was going to go out of town with his friends and I feel like I got ditched because he had made plans with me 1st. Ive been texting him a lot and I asked him if I change my relationship status on facebook and tagged him to it if he would accept it. He never answered me and so I texted him saying I asked you something on yahoo but you never answered trying to get a response but he didnt say anything back then either. Im now worried I may have messed things up. I really really like him. But now I dont know what to do, he is coming back home in a couple days and Im not sure if I should text him when he gets back or not. All i want to do is spend time with him.Can someone please give me some advice on what to do
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reader, mizzsarah18 +, writes (17 September 2011):
mizzsarah18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question He's already told me he liked me too. Yes he does live close. But I dont plan on messaging him anymore. Not until he is back in town from going out with his friends.
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reader, Red591 +, writes (17 September 2011):
 WOA. no more contacting him. If it's messed up, sending more messages will just be ignored. If he makes contact, apologize about the facebook thing and appear like you are about to meet up with friends. wish him well and then leave it to him to make contact again. If anyone ever ditches you to do something else, make other plans. you go do something else too. If a guy sees that you have your own life, he will more likely wish to be part of it. BEST OF LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2011): I think the whole facebook thing might have freaked him out. Let him have some space, dont contact him for a little bit. Does he live near you or is just in town for a few days? I would still leave him be and text him in a few days, see what he is up to.
You jumped on it a bit fast, he probably just got scared.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 Hello. He might of got all sorts of mixed signals if you said you wanted to change your relotionship status on "facebook". He might not be too sure if you meant as a friend, or in an acutual relotionship or something else. I do think you should meet up with him in person, a few more times just so you can be very sure he is the nice person you think he is. Even though you really liked him, he may not of been too sure about you. Just a suggestion, he could of just met you and thought you really weren't his cup of tea, and thats why he went off with his friends. Try and start on a new slate and just text him asking if he would like to meet up again when he next vists. If he doesn't reply then let him get on with it, because if he is ignoreing you then he can't be a very nice person after all.
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