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writes:what to do when your girlfriend of two years leaves? her only excuses she keeps telling me is that i am controlling. we was talking she told me if i love her i would bring her stuff to her so we could start working on things. any way that has been two months ago, then she started texting me and telling she wasnt happy where was at and wanted to come home. then i seen her profile on facebook said that she was in a realationship with some one else. why would she do that? is she just playing games with me or what? i love her very much and we had a good relationship. i dont understand how she could hurt me like that
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reader, Red591 +, writes (30 November 2010):
 she wants to come home because the grass was not greener. don't take that crap back. she will always be looking for a better ride. she is the ride that sucks. go no contact and find a hot chick who barely gets on facebook. I have facebook due to peer pressure from work but I still don't see why everyone is obsessed with it. DITCH HER
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 October 2010):
This is bull. You're being played by her. It's not you who are controlling. It's her. Look at what happened. After 2 years, she suddenly dumped you and her excuse was that you were controlling. She never talked about this before, she never came to you about it. Then suddenly she ended it. After this, you tried talking to her and suddenly she says "if you love me, you'd bring my stuff around". Talk about total blackmail. That's pretty controlling. And in all this, she's said she wants to come home, but it seems like something else is going on.
My gut feeling says that she dumped you for someone else, but it's not worked out. The problem now is that you don't know that she's coming out of love, or just coming because she thinks you can be controlled until someone else comes along.
Ultimately, I think this girl is a waste of your time. I know you love her and that you think you had a good relationship, but this girl seems two faced to me. She hurt you, she tried to emotionally blackmail you, and something else has been apparently going on whilst you've been apart. I don't think you can really trust her, and I think you might be the doormat if you take her back.
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