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writes:AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHMy Boyfriend just figured out how to make me squirt, but now hes addicted!!!The problem is :S it doesnt even feel as amazing as people set it out to be. Hes been trying too hard lately to make me do it and then one time he even made me....bleed. -.-' Please help. It feels so much better when he goes down on me WITHOUT trying to make me squirt :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): If It is bothering u that much let him know tell him you love it when he goes down on you tell him it hurts and make him understand where you are coming from cause my girlfriend had the same problem girl so just talk to him he'll understand
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reader, puzzled  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 it seems like he was proud of it happening, and thinks makes you feel good. sit him down talk it out im sure he will understand how you feel bout this situation.
hope i helped
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (8 August 2007):
Yeah, it shouldn't be about his obsession. Your orgasm should feel good for you. Tell him to stop and throw it in the once in a while pile if even that. Your blood should be an indicator to him to stop. If he persists, offer to give him a handjob with a brillo pad. I've never masturbated with one, and I'll be damned if I'm about to try it. I'm sure you boyfriend doesn't want to try it either.
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reader, skye  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Speak with him and tell him that this is painful for you. If he truely cares for you he will not ask you to do it again. You are his partner and as such he cares for you and will want you to enjoy sexual contact with him.
Men can be sensitive creatures and Im sure you dont want to hurt his feelings here so tell him what you do enjoy and focus on that instead.
Sex should be enjoyable and Im certain if you explain your feelings to your boyfriend in a sensitive way he will be understanding.
Take care,
Skye
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): hi, how long as this been going on? my boyfreind figured out how to make me squirt a while back and for about 2 weeks after he was obsessed with making me squirt but the novelty soon wore off, now he only wants me to do it now and again which is great coz it means i can enjoy it too, if its been goin on awhile then i would tell him how you feel and maybe suggest keeping it as a treat for him so that you can get a break, hopefully that way you'll enjoy it as well xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2007): Tell your bf to stop this, now. He's treating you like a 'sex toy' for his own gratification. That's pretty self-involved of him. And if he's making you bleed, he's plainly hurting you and I worry about him damaging the delicate lining of your vagina. I hope he restrains himself and stops, when this occurs Please be cautious and in order for you to heal properly, please do not have sex until the bleeding subsides...usually a few days. If it doesn't subside...again..get to a doctor. It's important for you to be examined and get treatment so that it does not develop into a vaginal infection.
And please remember, having sex and making love is about the mutual givingness and pleasure, both people give that to each other, because they share something meaningful. Tell him you don't enjoy it and refuse to do it. Let him know what you do like, though. Look after yourself, hun...it's the best thing a girl can do, irregardless of whether the bf likes 'your squirting' abilities or not. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Why don't you talk frankly to him about this issue?
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Talk to him tell him that you dont like it and it would feel much better if you only did it now and again. I would suggest trying new things to keep his mind off the squirt thingy try the link for new idears to destract him.
http://www.moremagazine.co.uk/men_sex/sex_tips/
hope this helps
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