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writes:I need help, I can no longer tell what my feelings tell me. I have a GF she's beautiful and completely devoted to me but we have had a brake from before because things didn't go too well. Well anyway we go on msn and she would always say "HI BABE!!" or "HI sweetie!" but today she said Hi John!! (lets pretend that john is my name) Well today i feel like i was not recieving any affection. She did tell me that she's not a girly girl like two weeks ago (like doing her nails etc) But i feel like i'm less needed unloved many things she said that she was sorry that she didn't call me then i had thoughts (what if she's cheating on me).She told me that she don't get more than one guy she doesn't flirt with anyone, besides she stays online almost all day besides going to school. But i feel like she's changed becuz in my eyes she used to show more affection although it only happend today.I need advice please, I don't know what to do anymore. She did apologize after that about not calling me to let me know that she was playing an online game. well anyways plz help meThanx.
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (9 April 2008):
maybe she got tired of being the only one to give all the affection and special attention. Now it's your turn!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm talking to her as we speak but i told her the reason all she said was "john i don't need this right now" she is arguing with our former friend.All of a sudden he says that my GF used to like him but she says that this was way b4 we went out.She did blacklist him (meaning she removed him from the list) now he's acting like a total ass to his ex dissing her(lets pretend his name is ron)So i admitted to my GF that i liked rons ex (he broke up with her like 5 days ago)His ex always liked me she admitted that she still does but considering that she and my GF are best frends she said the being frends is better i agreed to that.I know that my GF no longer likes this guys so this must be the reason why she shows less affection to me.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (8 April 2008):
I understand that her change of behaviour has upset you and has you worried. There could be many reasons why she has changed. Assuming the worst, she could be cheating or losing interest. But it could also be that maybe something has gotten her upset/down which is unrelated to you so shes becoming a bit distant. It could be that shes upset with you so shes withdrawing from you a bit. Another possibility is that maybe she feels you dont show her much affection so perhaps she is showing you less? Maybe she thinks you arent comfortable with all her affection she usualy gives you. There possibilities are endless really and i dont think I can honestyl say which one it is in your case unfortunately.
You should ask her if everything is ok then if she says everything is fine then go onto say that you feel lately she has been giving you less affection and you are just wondering why that is. Give her examples, like you did with his about saying 'hi john'. Then she will be able to explain herself.
Hope it all works out :)
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