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Is it wierd if I propose to him?

Q.   Hi everyone ! Please help me...i like a boy who works for the same company as i do, but we work in different state. Im 27 and the boy is 24. Will it be weird if i propose him...coz of age difference ?...

A.   12 August 2011: 1. You say you like him? You don't marry when you like someone, but when both parties involved are in love with serious future commitments in mind. 2. From your limited text, I get the impression that this is a one-sided crush/infatuation. Are ... (read in full...)

No sex, problems with his son, and a weird obsession with a TV show. What is going on here?

Q.   My husband never wants to have sex - while we were dating he said he wanted to "wait until we got married". We've had sex maybe 5 or 6 times since we did get married. Meanwhile he tells me a story about his son putting a cat in the microwav...

A.   10 August 2011: You have given us a limited amount of information, so I cannot say anything with certainty. Is it strange for a man to hold off sex? Yes. What is his reason for lacking sexual interest with you? Have you asked him? If not, I suggest you have an ... (read in full...)

How do I start to trust my husband again? Or how do I start to put all this to the back of my mind?

Q.   I discovered my husband was using chat lines for sexual reasons. He was chatting to various women about sex and looking at their photos. He even bought a webcam! I know this side of things was pure fantasy (I've asked advice from male colleagues) ...

A.   10 August 2011: 1. "I feel really bad that I am paranoid and look for things to prove that it is still going on." This is plain silly! Clearly your self-esteem has gone down the drain completely, if you think you're the one at fault. You SHOULD be paranoid and mist... (read in full...)

Should I keep my eyes on my boyfriend's ex? I trust him, but not her!

Q.   Ok this might get a little long but bare with me please its important... So I have been in this great relationship with this great guy for 14months now. He is a 25 years old college graduate and I am a 20 years old Senior in college. We fell...

A.   9 August 2011: If she makes advances towards your boyfriend, it's up to him to put an end to it. You're not worried or mistrustful of her; you're worried that HE loves her a still; that HE will reciprocate or encourage her behavior; that he will eventually leave ... (read in full...)

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