What do I do whilst giving a blow job?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 4 months are still waiting just a little while till sex, we have done lots of "foreplay" but i was wondering, when i give him a blowjob, do i do anything with my tounge? i know i should ask him what he likes, but i would like ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
there are various techniques, they all feel really good.
try searching it on google.
hope i helped... (read in full...)
Having sex with the ex after breaking up?
Q. My bf and I just ended our relationship after a yr and 1/2. We love eachother and want to stay close. Last night we were talking about sex. And if we could still do that. I am not sure I can handle that. Anyone who has experience getti...
A. 2 July 2011: Hello,
I think this is a bad idea, not from personal experience, but just out of how it sounds.
you want to have sex with him, but you are not dating anymore?
here's the problem, you will become even more attached to him if you do, as will h... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I like girls?
Q. I never liked guys before. I always just thought I wasn´t old enough. Recently I just finished my first year in High school. This past year I found myself liking girls, I even kissed one! None of my friends or family know. Is it wroong that I like ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
this is normal, when i was you're age i wasn't entirely sure, but i know now that i am completely straight, but you may just be lesbian, and what is wrong with that? NOTHING AT ALL! you are who you are, you are free to love who you want, yo... (read in full...)
My bf has cheated on me and 6 months later he still can't forget the girl who he cheated with.
Q. First of all, I apologize for my grammatical mistake in English. I have been reading your website for a whole day and I think I really need your help. I am Thai 32 years old, my boyfriend is 23 years old british, we ‘ve known each other...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
having sex and climaxing releases endorphin's and oxytocin, that is why having sex with someone creates such a bond, if you two haven't had sex yet, then this makes a lot of sense, him having sex with the other girl has bound him to her, he ... (read in full...)
Why does g/f lie to me for no apparent reason?
Q. Okay so recently me and this girl started dating. we hit it off straight away and its been like 4 or 5 months now. Lately however Ive started to notice a couple of things i dont know what to do about. she'll go out and then purposely send me texts ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
she is manipulating you when you say you "talk" about it with her and you end up apologizing. She is LYING to you, that is a sign of unloyalty, thus, how can you trust her at all? if she lies about some things, how do you know she isn't ly... (read in full...)
Why did my friends send 2 gay stripper for my birthday party?
Q. hello everyone.. i dont know from where to start. but yesterday was my birthday so i made a party to celebrate it..it was cool and so all my friends came and had fun. but they had a lil surprise for me/ they tied me up to a chair and put like a t...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
No offence, but your friends are total a**holes. WHY would they do that? what a bunch of little sh*t heads.
talk to them, i'd be pissed to if that was my birthday and they did that, even though it wouldn't affect me because i am not... (read in full...)
My best friend is sleeping with my older brother, and they don't know I know. How am I supposed to react??
Q. Okay so me and my female best friend have been friends for years and we are incredibly close. Lately she has been distant with me as if she is hiding something from me. Then the other day i caught her and my 24 year old brother making out outside ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
I would talk to your brother first, your friend may get mad if you talk to her, your brother is closer to you than her.
see what happens, all in all, your friends choices and your brothers choices are their choices, you cannot really te... (read in full...)
How do I tell my shy husband that I want to experiment with sex?
Q. My husband and I have been together for about 5 years. We were both virgins when we got together. How do I explain to him that I want to explore sex further? We both come off as shy in the bedroom, so how do I explain to him that I want to watch ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
You are married, you should be able to freely express your feelings :)
I would GO FOR IT. tell him what you want, you never know, he may just enjoy it and find it kinky or hot... if he loves you, it shouldn't really matter right?
have ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend crossing the line with her guy friends?
Q. I realize many people have this similar problem with a girlfriend having several guy friends, and I believe each answer is based on circumstance so that is why I'm asking about my personal situation. For the record, I've dated people in the pa...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
I think girls should stick with "girlfriends" and guys should stick with "guyfriends",
girls friends with girls
guys friends with guys
this way, things don't get out of hand, it is really easy to fall in love with someone, even whil... (read in full...)
Is my bf being overprotective or just very caring? And should I stay with him even though my family & friends hate him?
Q. My relationship with my boyfriend has been great. He is such a great guy and he is my first love. We have recently moved in together but since the move he has started becoming weird like becoming over protective and making excuses for me to stop in ...
A. 2 July 2011: Hey,
I think he is being a little bit over-protective, but then again, most guys i know are very caring and controlling... so it's not a "new" thing. I think he is just madly in love with you and wants to spend every waking moment with you, whi... (read in full...)
Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS?
Q. A general question, for everyone out there. Why do so many girls, such as myself, go for complete JERKS? I'm meet these lovely, kind, hard-working and attractive men, who have similar interests as me and whom I can really talk to, but I'm just...
A. 30 June 2011: Hey,
I kinda have a similar situation! I know many nice, cute, kind girls, who have similar interests and values to me... but my past 2 relationships were with girls who were bossy, mean, neglecting, and who partied, and who were gone a lot.
... (read in full...)
Do I follow the advice of others or listen to my heart?
Q. There is this guy that I like a lot and certain people around me keep trying to convince me that he is not the guy for me, for instance they brought up an issue about his personality being different than mine because he parties frequently and I ...
A. 29 June 2011: i would go for it, see where it goes, mainly, the point is to try it and see what happens, if it turns out bad, then get out..
its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all!
and hey, if you stay with him and things work ... (read in full...)
When does a guy know that he wants to marry a girl?
Q. Hi everyone, Background: He and I have been together for a little over a year. I now believe that he is the one I want to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. I have enough reasons to believe this. The thing is, we have not seriously di...
A. 29 June 2011: Hey, 1) I dated a girl for 5 months, and i was sure i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, and marry her (but i also fall really hard), things took a turn for the worst and we broke up, blah blah... it takes at least 4-6 months to get to... (read in full...)
I felt ditched and now I'm angry
Q. so this will be a simple and basic question. I was at the beach with my friend, she said she was on her period I guess as a way to justify being mean to me? is that fair? I was saying I want to leave this club because it wasn't fun anymore but she ...
A. 29 June 2011: Hey, I do not blame you one bit, you have feelings for her, and when a "jerk" comes along, you don't like them because you want the best for her. If she is a player, and does these things, and they are hurting you, then don't hangout with her... (read in full...)
Is he really in love with me?
Q. Ummm, well, there is this guy and we've been friends for more than a yr n we're so open with each other. Recently he asked me out n said he's in love with me. But he doesn't call often or txt n he says he loves me but i don't know what to believe ...
A. 29 June 2011: Hey, I would ask him to have a serious chat, find out if hes lying or not, stringing you along or not etc. If he says he loves you but doesn't call or text, he's either scared of commitment, wants you to go to him, or is just screwing with yo... (read in full...)
Male partner texting/sexual interactions with other men!
Q. My partner and I have been together for over 20 yrs and have 2 children. I have recently discovered he has been txting men and has on at least 3 occasions had a head job from another man and has returned the favour - this is what he has admitted ...
A. 16 June 2011: hey,
20 years of marriage and two kids later, i'm guessing divorce is the last option you want to take?
options :
1. go for counselling
2. talk to him and confront him and figure it all out, let out all lies and truths between you two
... (read in full...)
He is asking my permission to cheat on me (special occasion)
Q. We are dating for around a year now and we still haven't "done it". Well, that's all just because I can't, my mom is really strict (i mean it) and if she said no in that kind of thing, it means "don't do it or i'll kill you both". Well, he under...
A. 16 June 2011: hey, there is no chance in HELL that i would allow my partner to do that! seriously, this will complicate things, leaving you pissed off and jealous, leaving him feeling really guilty and stupid.. if you give him permission to do it, he will thin... (read in full...)
He's hurt me so many times, is it best to end things?
Q. I went out with this guy for almost a year but we've been talking for two years. At first everything was so perfect and he was so sweet... but as time went on he started lying to me and being a little too flirty with other girls we would get...
A. 16 June 2011: hey, i have been in a similar situation with my ex-girlfriend. I broke things off because it was really one sided and unfair to me, and i always got pushed aside for other things that were less imports (friends, tv shows, parties)... basi... (read in full...)
She had pictures of me on her nightstand! A little odd?
Q. Awhile back I got to know a girl I met online who lived in an area that I was going to be moving to. We seemed to have a good repore and connection. Fast forward and when I moved we met and at about our 4th date she invited me to her house for a ...
A. 15 June 2011: Hey,
I would assume that she is just trying to show that she REALLY cares about you.
is she a weird person?
does she take part in freak-ish activities?
i would look for suspicious/things that seem like shes obsessed with you...or talk ... (read in full...)
Getting mad that he keeps mentioning his ex!
Q. why is it when my boyfriend and me are having a wonderful conversation -he somehow uses his ex as an example or part of our conversation.she stays in contact with him once a month.he said he never contacts her.i feel strange and dont like it at ...
A. 15 June 2011: Hey,
politely ask him not to talk about her, and if it is bothering you that he contacts her, tell him that it bothers you, and that he shouldn't be because it is a lost love, and he should just move on.
hope i helped!... (read in full...)
Did it too early?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. We had sex after only 2 months... but we're still together. Months and months ago we would always fight- but it's gotten better. We still have a few issues between us though. And I'm thinking that if ...
A. 15 June 2011: Hey,
the thing is, sex makes the connection THAT much stronger, it forms a bond that is really hard to break...
YES, you probably would have broken up if you wouldn't have had sex, and yes, it was probably a bad time to have sex during those... (read in full...)
What is the proper place of sexual attraction in a relationship?
Q. Aunts, you know, here is my issues: over and over I have fallen for a girl because she gets me excited. She is hot, sexy and attractive. So I enter a relationship with her only to find we are not oompatible at all! She and I clash with our values ...
A. 31 May 2011: hey, beauty is only skin deep, if you can learn to love someone for who they are and their values, you will find them beautiful on the outside as well.. true beauty comes from within. hope i helped, that's how i look at it... (read in full...)
Is there any man out there who is satisfied with just one good woman?
Q. Can someone please tell me what is wrong with men? They say they love you, it feels right together, you have so much in common..... you are both having fun and things are great......Then why oh why, do they seem to think they need more than 1 ...
A. 31 May 2011: hey,
I for one, am satisfied with one girl... i may not have found her yet, but i only date ONE at a time... those guys that are cheating, and finding multiple women etc. they are just idiots who are looking for nothing but the wrong things i... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talks about sex but when the opportunity arises he backs out!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he ...
A. 29 May 2011: hey, does he have any religious views on sex before marriage? does he have a low self-confidence/self-esteem? - this may seriously make him afraid to have sex with you. theres one solution! CONFRONT HIM, ask him WHY he talks about it but w... (read in full...)
I'm in frustrated love!
Q. I'm "still" in love with my friend who is kind of still my boyfriend except we don't have sex now. I think he thinks we might not be quite right for each other in the long run, and so doesn't want to. But we spend endless hours together and he ...
A. 23 May 2011: hey,
I have never been through this before, NOR do i know how to handle this... but i would be glad to give you some advice on what i think.
options:
1. Talk to him about it and ensure to him that you want to be with him for the long run etc... (read in full...)
Guys: do you like being called 'hot'?
Q. Random pretty silly question, but do guys like hearing that a girl thinks they're 'hot' what do they think when they hear that? Because i met this guy and the other day i was talking to his friend and he asked me what i thought of his friend (the ...
A. 23 May 2011: i love it when girls say that :)
its funny, girls i talk to say i am hot, but my ex-girlfriend NEVER ever said i was, and if i asked her if i was attractive she would say "random question?" or, "maybe" or, "a little"...
its nice to hear, an... (read in full...)
How do I make him feel very bad??
Q. So Recently i Found Out My Ex Only Came Back To Me Beacause he Only wanted Sex. If Your Ex Is Just Using You For Sex How Would You Make Him Regret Using You? I Mean I Don't Just Want To Dump Him I Want To Make Him Feel Like Crap. So If Anyone Has ...
A. 23 May 2011: hey,
two wrongs do not make a right...
therefore, revenge will only hurt you more than it hurts him, because he CLEARLY has no respect for you, and has no dignity or integrity OR decency for another human being.
move on from this, take i... (read in full...)
How do I get over my behavior with him??
Q. alright. so im friendly with all the guys. and one of my gay best friends... i was over at his house and he has a younger brother thats a year younger. so me and my friend were watching tv and all his bro friends came and were watching tv in a ...
A. 23 May 2011: willpower, resist temptations...
you and this guy are completely at fault. he should know better, you should know better. BUT, at the same time, his girlfriend is also at fault because EVEN after he cheats, she stays with him...
this is what ... (read in full...)
How do I get him back without sucking up to him?
Q. okay so this requires an insight into the male species! to cut a long story short, ive met this guy, at first we got on really reallly well, could talk for hours without any akwward moments ect... he would occasionally ignore me for a day though? ...
A. 23 May 2011: hey,
i don't blame him for doing that.... it makes people feel like total crap when people do that. TRUST me, i know, that was the case with my ex-girlfriend, i would say "im gonna miss you!", she says, "i won't be gone long", or "i had fun toni... (read in full...)
Please come back to me!
Q. Me and my ex have finally got talking after a couple of months of awkwardness. I still love him and have missed him a lot since we broke up. We broke up because he felt that we had drifted apart. Friends and people who don't even know me and him ...
A. 23 May 2011: Hey,
I know what you mean, i broke up with my girlfriend but i still want to be with her regardless of what shes done to me... its called nostalgia, we view all of the good times and think about going back regardless of the bad times, and basicall... (read in full...)
Why does he go limp when I'm on top?
Q. me and my boyfriend just started having sex. I was a virgin before I met him and he always says how sexy I am and he is alway all over me but here's the problem..... when I'm on top he goes limp. why? when he's on top it's fine but he goes limp...
A. 21 May 2011: hey,
he probably is getting "weirded" out, or the awkwardness is overwhelming... he most likely is looking for more confidence in the way you get on him, don't be afraid to be rough.
hope i helped.... (read in full...)
I am really sexually confused.and need advice.
Q. I will be 18 this year and I am still a virgin and the reason why is because I'm so confused and scared. So I spend time watching porn gay and straight and I am so sexually confused. I find a gay interesting first and ive been looking since about ...
A. 20 May 2011: hey,
you may be bisexual.. there is nothing wrong with that.
simply: get a girlfriend/boyfriend, and share a nice physical and emotional connection, or focus on other things in life :)
life isn't all about sex, and you can decide to be who... (read in full...)
How to get over a girl, and remove the breakup jealousy I am having?
Q. Hey, About a week ago (tomorrow it will be one week), i broke up with my girlfriend, she is a very free spirited person, and a very independent person, she told me i was being immature, and that i am needy, insecure, possessive, controlling, and...
A. 20 May 2011: Hey,
ive lost 25 lbs due to stress(caused by me and her), and i have been on pins and needles for the past 4 months of the relationship.
i had an MRI last night due to me having sharp pains and abnormally looking ribs (only one side really), im... (read in full...)
Was it wrong to ask my boyfriend what he thought of me?
Q. hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is ...
A. 19 May 2011: hey, in all honesty, you aren't seeing him enough to actually trust him... it's not your fault at all. how can you trust someone if you can never contact them, and you can only see them once or twice a month? you can either re-evaluate the re... (read in full...)
I think I should go with the one I can see every day, yet I don't want to hurt the one I met online. What should I do?
Q. I like two girls but one (15) lives in the South West of London, and the other (17) Lives in the South East with me, I can see her more of less everyday, the one on the internet and I are close yet we don't really have a lot in common. yet with the ...
A. 19 May 2011: it is better to have love and lost, than to not love at all.. really, just think about yourself in this situation, and whats best for you. breakup with the girl online and make her sad, but you can be happy now with the girl who lives close ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to sleep alone and not be scared?
Q. Hi, I'm a 22 year old woman, and I cannot sleep alone. At night I get horrible images in my head and get scared, and so cannot sleep. Sometimes I am awake until 3am because I am so scared. Or I need to go to talk to a family member or even sleep in...
A. 19 May 2011: Hey, i actually have had this a few times. what causes it for me: jealousy of my ex-girlfriend and what she might be doing scary movies i had watched fearful events in my life that are playing back in my mind thinking about things that make... (read in full...)
The weight and height difference is getting in the way of us being together!
Q. ok so im a freshman in high school so is he. we text a lot it seems like he likes me. the only thing holding me back is my weight. im 5'2" and 115lbs. hes 6'3" and so tall and skinny. what do i do?...
A. 17 May 2011: hey, I am 6'1, my ex girlfriend was around 5'8 or so, i am skinny, she weighed around the same as you.. but it was fine with her and i... she was really easy to move whilst making out, and she was fit, so i didn't mind... we had an alright chemi... (read in full...)
Does playing 'hard to get' and being slightly unavailable keep a guy?
Q. Hello everyone. I have a question - does playing hard to get work and how do you do it? I am always the very willing one, always available, always wanting to spend time with my guy, quite needy and I always end up losing the guy I'm with! I think I ...
A. 17 May 2011: Hey, i am the same way as you in terms of availability.. and my last girlfiend was playing the hard to get role, which made me extremely uneasy about things... it was always me trying to see her, going to find her at lunch, making plans, making ... (read in full...)
I think I might have made a mistake by breaking up with her......
Q. Hi all. A week ago today I broke up with my girlfriend and for the first 2 days I was happy but as the days went on I've been feeling less and less happy. I started thinking it was a mistake to end it and now I miss her. I thought it needed to...
A. 17 May 2011: Hello,
I just recently broke up with my girlfriend too, i have been having the same feelings since the moment after i did it. I did break up with her in person, but i felt as though i made the wrong choice...
really, all you can do is reassu... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now
Q. Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hey,
today, she was like, if we get back together things need to change, you need to stop trying to run my life, and telling me what to do, i feel trapped... i was open minded and said, understandable, but given the circumstances, of how she like... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now
Q. Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even ...
A. 9 May 2011: Well, it makes sense that she wants to go there and everything, like she has the opportunity to work etc.. i respect that.. but the other problems where she puts her friends before me, not allowing me to see her when one of her friends is around(a ... (read in full...)
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