Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now
Q. Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even ...
A. 10 May 2011: Hey,
today, she was like, if we get back together things need to change, you need to stop trying to run my life, and telling me what to do, i feel trapped... i was open minded and said, understandable, but given the circumstances, of how she like... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I broke up but are kinda in between dating and single now
Q. Hello, Today, i found out that my girlfriend got a job 6 hours away from where i live for the summer (2 months approx, 60 days). I've kinda known about this all along, but she always said she didn't know if she got a job yet, or if she was even ...
A. 9 May 2011: Well, it makes sense that she wants to go there and everything, like she has the opportunity to work etc.. i respect that.. but the other problems where she puts her friends before me, not allowing me to see her when one of her friends is around(a ... (read in full...)
I feel like no one will ever date me. What do girls do to get boys interested in that and want to date them?
Q. ok i'm a thirteen year old girl who is confused i feel like no one will ever date me i would love to know what to do i feel lonely and hurt is it just that in ugly or something is it just the fact that i'm not like perfect or absolutely perfectly ...
A. 5 May 2011: Hey, I feel the same way, and i am a good looking 17 year old male (6 foot 1), who is very athletic (play hockey, volleyball, tennis, badminton).. it's really something we all do, due to insecurities, mostly brought up from the past (i was a ch... (read in full...)
Should I stay or is it time to move on?
Q. my gf and i had a threesome with another guy and i went out side my room for a few minutes and they kept going. i have forgiven her but there has been nothing but arguements recently. i have also met somone else.what should i do, should i stay with ...
A. 4 May 2011: Hey,
Having a threesome in GENERAL is morally wrong, especially since you are dating... give your head a shake man, if she kept going, she must have thought you were ok with it.. if that were me, i wouldn't have even had the threesome... but sinc... (read in full...)
How can I distance myself from her, enough, but not too much?
Q. Hello, My girlfriend is out of town for a few days, but the whole time we have been dating, she has not really shown me that she wants to be with me, she only says she does. Examples: she does not like sharing feelings i tell her i am going ...
A. 26 April 2011: yeah, we've been dating for upwards of 4 months now, so I hope this goes ok.... (read in full...)
How do I french kiss???
Q. My bf and i have dated two other times before, so we just pick up from where we left off....He tried to french kiss me but i pulled away. I told him why i did and he said he didnt want to pressure me. But now i rly want to... oh and the reason y...
A. 26 April 2011: hey,
its a natural thing, you need to just go with the flow, if he puts his tongue in your mouth and does things, just follow what he does.. its really easy and it comes naturally when your in the moment :) if he really likes you, it wont matter i... (read in full...)
How can I distance myself from her, enough, but not too much?
Q. Hello, My girlfriend is out of town for a few days, but the whole time we have been dating, she has not really shown me that she wants to be with me, she only says she does. Examples: she does not like sharing feelings i tell her i am going ...
A. 20 April 2011: Hey,
Thanks for the great advice, it totally makes sense...
I will do what you said and see what happens :)... (read in full...)
I want to call him every night, and he said he would like that, but would he really??
Q. Hey, so my boyfriend said that he loves me and that he said he sees us having a relationship in the future - we have only been going out for 7 months but he is the most loveliest guy I have ever met. He is always saying to me that I am the most ...
A. 19 April 2011: Hey, i wish my girlfriend would want to talk to me on the phone every night, or even want to talk to me in general haha..
she barely texts me, and when we do chat on text, she says one word answers and never elaborates, when i ask her to call me ... (read in full...)
I love one girl but I'm made for the other. What do I do?
Q. so basically, im currently going out with this girl, i really like her and she likes me. im pretty sure i love her and i see her everyday at school and stuff. my friends dont particularly like her but thats not really bothering me. and there is also ...
A. 18 April 2011: hey, this is a difficult situation, didn't she say no to you a while back? thats pretty harsh, what goes around comes around, say no to her now, she is probably only trying to get with you because shes jealous and stuff... i think you should stay ... (read in full...)
I lied about NOT being virgin to GF. Should I tell her the truth?
Q. Okay so im deeply in love with this girl for 6months (me 19, she 21) Just in early march we came to the subject of our 'first time' agewise. I felt insecure and said 18, and she said 20. Cool thought that was that... Then late march she asked how ...
A. 18 April 2011: hey, I would just tell her after her exams, the load of stress would just be brutal on her and yourself... hope i helped... (read in full...)
Once a week is all I get. It's not enough. Help!
Q. help, i love my boyfriend by lately only seeing him twice a week and its only for about 2 hours each time. he has a baby with someone else and i understand he has her weekends so i dont see him, and then works all week and then gym after work so is ...
A. 18 April 2011: hey, He CLEARLY does not give a damn about you, if he really cared for you, those things wouldn't come first.... thats like me with my girlfriend, i see her at school everyday, but she doesn't really show me any affection/attent... (read in full...)
Why don't guys ask me out?
Q. hi, I get told by many people that im beautiful looking and they seem shocked when I say I'm single. The problem is guys never seem to approach or ask me out, even at bars. I feel really self conscious about it because I always have my hair , ...
A. 18 April 2011: hey, I think you are trying to hard to be "perfect", you say you do your makeup and hair perfect, when yet the "perfect" girl is the one who can be herself around anyone, and the girl who doesn't care how well she does her makeup and hair, thats ... (read in full...)
Should I say yes to falling in love with my best friend ?
Q. When I was in 7th grade, I laid my eyes on the most adorable guy in school, we didn't talk until 8th grade. Soon we became the best of friends, he would walk me home everyday after school, we were just little youngsters and at our 8th grade ...
A. 18 April 2011: Hey, Only you really know if saying yes was the right or wrong thing... if you feel weird, that may be because you knew it should have been this way a long time go, and because you are overwhelmed with everything. If you love him, then it should w... (read in full...)
Am I making him wait too long?
Q. Ok so here's the deal, i just started dating this guy officially on March 26. He's 22 and I'm 19. He's had sex five times while i am still a virgin. As of late he's been bringing up sex more and more often. I'm not waiting until marriage, but i am ...
A. 18 April 2011: Hey, Do not feel bad for him, if you do not want to have sex with him at this point in time, then he needs to respect that or it won't work. Things may be rocky because of this, but tell him that you care for him, and hopefully things pan ou... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend thats a gentleman but where are they?
Q. Hey! This might not be the most unusual question, but help would be greatly appreciated! Alrighty, so I'm a freshman in Highschool, and I don't find any of the guys in my whole school..attractive. They're always screaming down the halls, throwing...
A. 17 April 2011: Hey, I am in a similar situation, the girls that are in my school are all immature girls who like to go partying and do stupid stuff(drugs etc.) My girlfriend, does not do the stupid stuff, but she hangs around with those people and i fear it wi... (read in full...)
He's in the army and being reposted. I don't want to lose him.
Q. I feel so confused right now. Basically i have been seeing this amazing guy for the last 3 months. Everything has been going really well, but there has always been this problems from the start. Basically he is in the army and is getting re-posted to ...
A. 17 April 2011: Hey, This may be a little much/weird to hear, especially from a 17 year old who has never had to deal with this... since he has some trust issues, and you OBVIOUSLY want to be with him - and he wants to be with you... why don't you move up the... (read in full...)
I didn't ask her out and now she's gone... how do I connect again and tell her how I feel?
Q. Sorry for the length of this question in advance guys. Alright, so there was this girl who lived in the room next to me in residence at university and about 2 weeks ago she mentioned that she and her boyfriend had broken up but she seemed to be over ...
A. 17 April 2011: hey,
She lives in a different city, so this would be a long distance relationship... until next semester? This would put a lot of stress on you and her because you would want to see her often, but you really can't - and you know that. In all hone... (read in full...)
Should I show my boobs to my online boyfriend?
Q. hi i am of 18old .i have a small doubt can i be romantic with my boyfriend? when we generally talk each other in video chat,at that time he asked me to show my boobs(chest without bra and anthing like that) i want to know can i show him what he h...
A. 17 April 2011: the main question is... DO YOU WANT TO? I mean sure, he really wants to see your breasts, but in a relationship, one has to respect another, and if you say no, if he doesn't respect your decision, then hes not the one for you. IF YOU DO NOT WANT TO, ... (read in full...)
Can chemistry grow with time?
Q. Hello I have been 'seeing' this lovely guy. He is caring, considerate, kind and all the things you could wish for in a guy. He calls and texts everyday. The only problem is I feel no chemistry with him. I should do as he is so lovely. I enjoy hi...
A. 17 April 2011: I do believe that people grow on you, thus saying that yes, i think that you can obtain some good chemistry with him... and kissing isn't really an exciting thing, unless its your first kiss (my first kiss went like this - my heart pounded hard, and ... (read in full...)
He's hot and then cold. Has he lost interest?
Q. I think he's lost interest. He hasn't talked to me, and when I tried talking to him, he didn't say much. I don't know what to do. One minute he's completely attracted to me and likes me, wants to hang out, and the next, I'm nothing? I know that on...
A. 17 April 2011: Hey, is there anything that happened recently that you did, or that someone did to him that has kind of pushed him away? did something happen in his family? ie. death, car accident, something that he is grieving over? if you do not know, if ... (read in full...)
If he loved me, he'd spend money on me
Q. I have being in a relationship for good one year and during this year my guy has never a day giving me gift or money to take care of myself. I want to quit because he don't love me and if at all he did he would have spend for me a little. Please ...
A. 9 April 2011: Hey,
Isn't his love enough?? Why does it have to be about money? If he loves you, and you love him, then you need to realize that the gifts and money do not really matter. Gifts are just something that some men do, and some do not.
Example... (read in full...)
If he loved me, he'd spend money on me
Q. I have being in a relationship for good one year and during this year my guy has never a day giving me gift or money to take care of myself. I want to quit because he don't love me and if at all he did he would have spend for me a little. Please ...
A. 9 April 2011: Hey,
Isn't his love enough?? Why does it have to be about money? If he loves you, and you love him, then you need to realize that the gifts and money do not really matter. Gifts are just something that some men do, and some do not.
Example... (read in full...)
Do you think this could be the start of the end of our relationship?
Q. my partners mum passed away yesterday morning. I met him at the hospital to comfort him, went back to his brothers house after- put my arm around him on the couch but when we got home he told me to save it for when we're alone(he usually doe...
A. 8 April 2011: Hey, His mother just passed, that is a tremendous thing to experience... He politely asked for his space, and he needs to grieve and get over this himself. He loves you, but needs his space and he needs to handle it his way. Hope i helped, ... (read in full...)
I like her and don't know whether I should contact her on Facebook or not.
Q. i went out to a bar with one of my mums friends daughter it wasn't really a date but i really like her and i got the feeling she liked me i didn't get her number but i found her on faceboook but im not on it and i don't know if i should just add her ...
A. 8 April 2011: Hey, I would try and talk to her or see her in person rather than on facebook... maybe ask people to see when she will be out next or something, or to have a get together and you show up... talking to her on facebook will just look bad if you ... (read in full...)
He says he got rid of his porn for me. Should I believe him?
Q. i have a question that is mostly for guys.. i want to start by saying that i am very aware that when a girl tells a guy she wants him to get rid of his porn, usually he just hides it.. but in my case, i never told him how i felt about it, the to...
A. 8 April 2011: Hey, I would believe him, if he says he did, he probably did, if you find it, confront him... If my girlfriend told me to get rid of my porn (if I owned some), I would do it A.S.A.P, regardless of how I felt... because thats how much I care, and... (read in full...)
He is very romantic around me except when his friends are around. How do I deal with the mixed messages?
Q. Any advice please? I have been seeing this guy for the last 4 weeks. He is really really shy when we go out and his friends are there. He said he feels he will be judged by them. I know he has a lot going on at home. On occasions he goes funny wh...
A. 8 April 2011: Hey, He probably feels uncomfortable in front of his friends, that is exactly like my girlfriend, in private she is all over me and I love it, in public, while her friends are around, she barely talks to me and kinda ignores me. Just accept it, ... (read in full...)
I have a really embarrassing problem. Should I tell her?
Q. hey guys, i just wanted to know, is it normal for me to 'jizz' every time i snog my girlfriend i want to tell her that it happens but im scared in case its a turn off, or makes things weird between us, or makes her go away from me shall i tell h...
A. 8 April 2011: Hello, I am 17, and I recently just started kissing for the first time (5 months ago), and its with my girlfriend, I was very nervous... Every time we would kiss or get really close, I would "precum", and it was quite annoying i might say... THI... (read in full...)
How do I get him to notice / talk to me ?
Q. I Am really in love with this guy in the year above me (im year nine) and every time i see him i feel strange and do stupid stuff... but we have never really talked i know we are into a lot of the same things because of the times we have talked. we ...
A. 8 April 2011: Hey, Go up and talk to him, or smile at him and wait for him to talk to you... if he is not the outgoing type, he will NOT come talk to you. If you go to up and talk to him, he will admire the confidence that you possess. Maybe you will talk to... (read in full...)
I have a very high libido, and she used to, but now it's almost nonexistent. Please advise.
Q. I am 28, my wife is 24. We have been married for a year and have no kids (yet). We dated for five years before getting married (for school reasons). About a year into dating, we started having sex. Lots. Like three times a day. Most of the time, she ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey, I did a search on "libido", and I was looking for things that talk about a decreased libido, found this: "A person who lacks a desire for sexual activity for some period of time may be experiencing a hypoactive sexual desire disorde... (read in full...)
Why has she suddenly changed her mind?
Q. So me and my Gf have been dating for almost 3 years. Im 27,she is 26.Since last year she has been talking and hinting about getting engaged. To make things worse, her cousin and 2 of her friends got engaged,so all the pressure was me.She said ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey,
She may think you do not want to anymore, because even though you cannot financially get the ring, she may think its because you just don't wan't to get engaged and married... talk to her, and tell her the honest truth, and i am sure she will... (read in full...)
Advice on dating outside your own race?
Q. Ok, I'm a white boy and haven't had many girlfriends at all. Where I live there are a lot of Hispanics in addition to whites. I have found a lot of the Latinas to be very attractive and outgoing but haven't asked any out cause I think they wouldn't ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey, the main problems with that would be religion and cultural views/ceremonial things... they might be ok with dating you, but their parents might object, or their religion is against it etc.. and that will cause problems... i would talk to he... (read in full...)
I love my first cousin what should I do?
Q. I love my first cousin with all my heart and i want to tell him but wat if he does not feel that way about me what if he rejects me and we lose the cousin bond we have now.I live in conneticut so its legal could you plz help me tell me if i should ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey,
There are two things wrong with this...
1. marrying your first cousin is illegal, and dating them is just weird in social views.
2. your children will most likely have deformities, or special needs like down syndrome or something...
... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to date an 18 year old? She's still a virgin.
Q. I'm 31 and have never gone out with a girl this young. She's 18 but she's quite mature for her age and doesn't look young either. Sometimes I forget she's 18 and feel like I'm speaking with a grown woman. She's not even "really" woman since she ...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey,
The age difference is quite large, there is nothing really wrong with that if you are both ok with it... its just her parents that might object to that... i would check with her parents before you decide to call her your girlfriend etc.
... (read in full...)
Boyfriend in service will be away for 7 months and I need ways to cope
Q. Hey All, I know Dear Cuprid isn't necessarily for this type of question but I honestly don't know where else to turn. Many of my questions have been answered from people who genuinely seem to care and I'm hoping it's the same case with this o...
A. 7 April 2011: Hey,
This is where your friends and occupation can help... When your boyfriend is away, you will be worried sick, as we all do regardless... you cannot escape the worrying, but you can do things to make it milder.
1. Have sleepovers with ... (read in full...)
The ex didn't invite me to his birthday party and I feel hurt
Q. Why would he do that? or am I overreacting? I rang my ex boyfriend today and he asked if i would sell him my old phone (i got a new one). i told him i'd let him know. he says he wants to get rid of his phone cos is betraying him like he betrayed...
A. 7 April 2011: I don't mean to be rude, and i am not lying when i say this...you are overreacting, he dumped you, you aren't together, he doesn't view you as a friend... he doesn't want to see you there because it will most likely remind him of everything he did ... (read in full...)
I'm ready but do I want to lose it just yet?
Q. Ok ill try and keep this short. Im a Male of 16 years of age and still in secondary school. In year 7 - 8 I went out with a girl who i really like and to be honest i havent liked anyone as much as i have liked her. I recently found out that she ...
A. 7 April 2011: if you are going to get with her just for the sex, because you think shes special then your brain is playing tricks on you... after such a time of not being with her, you grew apart, and those feelings won't just come back, they have to be worked ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my GF who I'm comfortable with, or pursue the new girl I can't stop thinking about?
Q. Ok. So, I've been dating the same girl for two years now. Things are mostly good, except we fight a lot, have different personalities, and dont really have many similar interests (i.e. she gets pissed off when I spend a day watching sports). We are ...
A. 6 April 2011: Long distance relationships SUCK, no offence but they barely ever work unless you can meet periodically and it just clicks. you have two years invested into this relationship, and you just met some girl that you are crazy about - CLEARLY, you hav... (read in full...)
How to I get her attention?
Q. i like a girl and this girl kind of dislikes me i dont know why...she in fact knows that i like her and she plays dirty being more interactive with other guys especially when i am around (hugging, flirting etc etc). She also doesnt talk to me much ...
A. 6 April 2011: Hello :) I am close in age you to, I went through the same thing buddy. The girl that I liked did it to make me jealous, which is a good thing for you. She most likely does not dislike you, if you be yourself around her and she doesn't seem ... (read in full...)
Didn't hear from her for months. Do you think she still cares?
Q. i met this gal ages ago about October last year online we have been talking a lot until few months ago i emailed her no reply for some weeks. i got a reply today does she still love me and why has she replied so late to my email??? please help ...
A. 6 April 2011: There could be many complications in her life because you only talk to her "online", thus, she may be seeing another person, she may be having a hard time with family, a stressful semester at school, hardship with her social life. You do not know, ... (read in full...)
I am worried about wearing a revealing swimsuit. I need some advice.
Q. I'm going to be going on a trip with my school year (about 200) and im going to have to wear a swimming costume, very tight diving suits and lots of revealing clothing that comes with the activities. my problem is that i'm about 12 stone, 5'5, and i ...
A. 6 April 2011: Hello, I AM A GUY, but I do know what you mean, and I can provide some valid suggestions for you. You are around 168 pounds? (if you mean that each stone is about 14 pounds, then 12 * 14 = 168 lbs approx.) You are 5'5, which is average f... (read in full...)
GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.
Q. I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...
A. 6 April 2011: Hello, Jealousy is a natural thing that we all have, and have troubles getting rid of. These things were in the past, no matter how close the past is, you cannot change what happened, and it most likely made her a better person because she lear... (read in full...)
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