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GF just told me she was promiscuous in college. Can't get it out of my head.

Q.   I have been in a serious relationship with this girl for over a year now. We live together and split everything and love each other so. Out for drinks the other night we got on the subject of past sexual history. We didn't divulge our numbers but ...

A.   6 April 2011: Hello, Jealousy is a natural thing that we all have, and have troubles getting rid of. These things were in the past, no matter how close the past is, you cannot change what happened, and it most likely made her a better person because she lear... (read in full...)

I'm nervous. What should I expect to happen during our threesome?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are having our first threesome together what should i prepare for and what happens? i am excited about having a threesome and him seeing me have sex with another guy. what should i expect to happen so i am not so nervous? ...

A.   6 April 2011: I think that him seeing you having sex with another guy will make him extremely angry, and think that you are cheating on him, even though he might be cool with it now, when it actually happens he will be so pissed I just imagine... I think you ... (read in full...)

Is the fake cigarette anything like the real thing?

Q.   I just tried one of those fake cigarettes that help you stop smoking but is it anything like the real thing?...

A.   6 April 2011: Are you currently trying to quit smoking? If you are; - it will not taste anything to the real thing - it will be a pain in the ass in the beginning, but you get used to it - it has nicotine in it, but small doses, so you still want to suck o... (read in full...)

I worry that one day he'll wake up and realize that it's her he wants.

Q.   I'm in this 3 year relationship with this AMAZING guy. He and I have recently just came back from a 4 month trip in Europe. We have big plans for the future together. We are currently starting a business together, so life has been really stressful ...

A.   6 April 2011: We are jealous by nature when it comes to love, he has a strong friendship with this girl, 11 years you said. He could not possibly want to break that with her, and yea hes being a dick by doing that to you, but if his friend gets comfortable she ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend has broken my heart. I don't know how I am going to cope. Please help

Q.   I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 days before we took a trip to Texas to meet my family. We get back and she continues to go out every night (shes 21 Im 30). She comes home 3 nights ago wasted and refused to tell me ...

A.   6 April 2011: This is a very tough thing to get over indeed... But what you need to do is realize that YOU are not at fault for this, you shouldn't feel bad because SHE is the one that wronged you and broke the trust. You need to accept that she isn't for you, ... (read in full...)

I need to understand this guy's behaviour! Any advice appreciated.

Q.   I need to understand this guy's behaviour. He is a lot older than me. Lets call him jacob. There are times when he is so warm and friendly towards me. He stares at me and treats me differently to everyone else like I'm the only one he sees. Then ...

A.   5 April 2011: I think you've been waiting for too damn long girl :P For two years this has been going on? Dang, i would get over you by that time if i waited two years for you, this guy is most likely CRAZY about you. TALK TO HIM PLEASE?!?... (read in full...)

My boyfriends wants to have sex with another girl!!!

Q.   My boyfriend, well hes a good guy over all but he has said and done some stupid s***, first of all he does say Im pretty and he loves me and he takes me out but then... he has this friend that he told me with these exact words "I want to f*** her, ...

A.   5 April 2011: your boyfriend is a pig and you need to get rid of him... He is just bound to cheat if he says that.... YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE JEALOUS AND NEEDY/CLINGY ABOUT THIS HES BEING VERY UN-LOYAL AND YOU CANNOT TRUST SOMEONE LIKE THAT... it sounds to me ... (read in full...)

Is it right to bring a baby into the world when the father is a herion addict?

Q.   Hi, I've just found out I'm pregnant with my first baby The baby wasn't planned but my husband and I have been married for two years and I have openly wanted kids.... anyway... there's one small problem... my husband is a heroin addict... it all...

A.   5 April 2011: I am not married, nor am I at an age that is around the age to marry... I am only 17, but I think i might be able to help you... Heroin is a very harsh drug, it is relatively expensive, and it can have devastating affects on the human body. You ... (read in full...)

Is it me or what's the deal with this guy???

Q.   Hi, I met this guy online a couple of months back, first we just exchanged emails then we started texting and then we talked on the phone a couple of times. I think he seems nice but something inside me tells me to be cautious and wait and see( I'...

A.   5 April 2011: it sounds to me like he is playing with you so that you think about him more etc.. like i bet you think about him more when you text him and he doesn't reply for a while and you go crazy? or he says hes busy... I would be very stern with him a... (read in full...)

The more he hurts me the more I want to cheat on him!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm back with more relationship drama, i'm 18, i shouldn't be dealing with this, but anyway the last time i was on here it was about my best friend and i and our break up. call me crazy or stupid i probably am for this but i'm back with ...

A.   5 April 2011: a very good answer^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ until he realizes it and wants to change, it will most likely stay the same.... (read in full...)

Should I take this friendship to the next level?

Q.   There is this guy who i have been spending time with recently, quite a lot of time actually but always in the company of friends. We also text very frequently. i have known him for years and i have started to like him a lot, we seem to get on very ...

A.   5 April 2011: Hey :), The nice thing about knowing him for so many years is that you probably mostly everything about him... which is a great thing to have in a relationship... He may be interested in you but is scared to ask because you have been friends ... (read in full...)

How do I ask, "Are we in a relationship?" without him feeling pressured.

Q.   How do i ask him if we are in a relationship without him feeling i am pressuring him. I have been dating this guy for a month now and we get on really well. we text everyday but sometimes when he feels awkward he will ignore me for days. we met...

A.   5 April 2011: From my experience with my girlfriend, I did it in a smooth way that didn't seem like a trap^^ or a way that was kinda demanding... I said it in a simple way that got the point across that I liked her and wanted to be in a relationship with ... (read in full...)

How can I get my boyfriend to ask his friend to join us in our threesome?

Q.   my boyfriend has brought up the idea of a three some i am down with it i ask my friend and she is down with it why wont my boyfriend ask his friend to join us in a three some and how can i get him to ask him ...

A.   5 April 2011: Your boyfriend may think its "hot" or "sexy" to see a threesome, or be in one... its a fantasy of like every guy to be with two girls or more at one time... but its not a fantasy he wants to execute with his girlfriend and her friend. If you pushed ... (read in full...)

"Relationship crossroads:Approach of College"

Q.   Alright This is going to be a bit of a long post, this is a big deal for me so try to bear with me through it. In September I started seeing a wonderful girl in the grade below me (shes a junior/I a senior), but of the same age as me (17, I'm v...

A.   5 April 2011: Hello, I am 17, and I have a similar situation to yours, my girlfriend is going away for school for 4 years after high school. But your problem clearly needs addressing now as it is approaching quickly. You say you have 3 choices... but r... (read in full...)

How can I have good sex with my wife?

Q.   I am 24, my penis is small in 5". I am going to marry, how can I have good sex with my wife?...

A.   5 April 2011: hey man, im not married or anything, i am still a virgin(christian background), but my grandfather always told me, its not how deep you fish, its how you wiggle your worm... and another thing, if she loves you and you love her, it will be great sex ... (read in full...)

Is he interested or am I misinterpreting everything?

Q.   Okay here goes, it will be long winded but I need to know once and for all, Im really losing my patience. About 5 months ago a new tenant moved into our house, hes very handsome and I was attracted to him instantly. Initially there was al...

A.   5 April 2011: Well.... since i am a guy i might be able to help you out :) First things first... he wanted sex without really getting to know you right? After you said no the first time, and he tried again and you snapped on him, he probably got the impressi... (read in full...)

Girl I'm dating hasn't contacted me since Friday at noon?

Q.   So I've been dating this girl for a month and everything has gone really well. Nothing i can think of could turn our relationship bad. Shes always laughing and smiling when shes around me. We normally have lunch dates together, and then we go to ...

A.   5 April 2011: Hey :) I have experienced this, but not for such a long period... there could be some very legitimate reasons for her absence, 1. she is actually really sick(maybe she has E.Coli or Pneumonia, i dont mean to scare you either friend) 2. she... (read in full...)

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