When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 31 October 2008: This is an old question I know but I thought I'd update it. Friend 1 asked her out, she said no. Friend 2 asked her out, she said no. I asked her out yesterday, she said no. Life sucks.... (read in full...)
Are all of my positive qualities "outweighed" by the way I look?
Q. I am 6 foot 18 years old dark haired. Unfortunately I am very overweight. My looks aren't bad for my weight, and I have good posture and can generally hold in my stomach. But it doesn't hide my weight. I have been told that I am a really sweet guy...
A. 13 July 2008: Actually I'd say your situation right now is looking very good. If your weight is your biggest "negative" then youre on a good track simply because it is a problem that is very easy to rectify. Exercise and the weight will fall off you.
It ca... (read in full...)
My BF is letting the decision in my hands, of whether I should carry on with the pregnancy or not; I don't feel ready so what should I do?
Q. I've gotten myself into a huge perdicament. The same problem that thousands of young girls get into every day.....i'm so annoyed i fell into the trap. So i'm pregnant, to a guy i've know scarcely 2 months. He's 23 and i'm 20. As soon as we found...
A. 12 July 2008: Talk to a professional about it, I feel this is too big of a deal to give you any view I have but they will be able to give you the best advice anyone could. That is after all, why they are professionals.
Best of luck. ... (read in full...)
Arranged a seat next to her on plane, got her facebook ID, e-mailed her, no reply yet, think I'm in love, what do I do now?
Q. i think i am fall in love. I met with a girl when i was coming from US to my country. She is basically from hungry country and going to some other country for a holiday from US. She is born and bought up in US. I saw her in airport and told...
A. 12 July 2008: She lives in another country so your options are limited for now. Going to see her is out of the question until you get to know her a lot better. Phone calls can be awkward and expensive when you dont know somebody that well so e-mails seem like the ... (read in full...)
This guy wants me to send him naked pictures of me
Q. this guy wants me to send him pictures either nude or somewhat nude i dont want to be nude at all not even in bra and underwear i really like himm but i dont want to do it. what do i do?...
A. 12 July 2008: I'm a guy but if I were ever in your position I know that is something I would never ever do. Some guys see these as a "trophies" and wont keep them as private as you may have been hoping. Maybe this guy is better than the ones I know but thats a ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like?
Q. I'm not sure about this. I was wondering if it was wrong to use my friend to get information from the boy I like. She knows I like him, and that i have a hard time talking to him. So i ask her to ask him the questions I want to know and she does...
A. 10 July 2008: There is nothing wrong with that at all. Im a good few years older than you and I still do it. Gathering as much knowledge as you can beforehand can give you a much better picture of the person you are chasing and you can make decisions based on the ... (read in full...)
I really enjoy gay porn but also have feelings for girls...
Q. i watch gay porn. i really enjoy it but feel bad about it and scared. but i also feel feelings for girls and feeling them! what do i do? am i really gay? or bi ?...
A. 10 July 2008: Just something to keep in mind. Nobody is ever 100% straight or 100% gay, I think everyone is somewhere in a grey area between the two and this can change. The important thing is not to worry about it as you cannot help but be attracted to the ... (read in full...)
If he has no feelings for me why would he take me on a trip with his family?
Q. Hi everyone, I am going to start off by saying a little about my issue so you can get a feel of it and then you can tell me what you think. I had been dating this guy for about 10 months in those 10 months a found out a couple of lies he had told...
A. 8 July 2008: You answered your own question.
"He called me a day before the trip to tell me he would like for me to go with him as friends for me not to get my hopes up."... (read in full...)
What should my weight be?
Q. I am a sixteen year old female. I am five foot four inches. What should my weight be? ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hope you dont mind but I have copied and pasted a lot of what I have written below from another question I answered very similar to this about a week ago, only I have tweaked some of the figures to suit you! :)
Here goes;
A girl of 5ft6 sho... (read in full...)
How Do I Tell Her I Lover Her?
Q. Hi everybody. I've known this girl called "S" for about 3 years now. We're really close friends, and we're nearly always together. I see her every day at college, and at the weekends I'm usually around hers. Over the past year my feelings have cha...
A. 8 July 2008: I can relate to this! I also wish to tell someone how I feel about them and have been asking a few people, who know a lot more than me, for some advice. What they said has helped me tremendously, maybe it will work for you too. The trick is t... (read in full...)
My Guy Used to be on Sex Sites. Can I Trust Him?
Q. can i just get people's opinions on this: If you'd been seeing a bloke for 6-7 months and you found out that previously (before he even got with you) he was registered on about 15 different sex sites, such as sexpals, quickflirt,sexse...
A. 8 July 2008: Yeah you really shouldnt look through his stuff ever without his permission. You obviously dont trust the guy nor respect him enough to give him his own space so I think you should just move on. Learn from this and keep it in mind for your next ... (read in full...)
I am married but considering leaving for a married man, should I do it?
Q. I am married and I fall in love with a married man.We were together 3 years,then I left with my family(I have a daughter 15yo)abroad.I thought this man would stop me from leaving,but he didn´t...he kept silent till my very last day before the ...
A. 4 July 2008: I think your first priority is your daughter. How old is she? Is this whole scenario going to affect her in any way? I bet it would, especially if she is still young. You need to put her before any emotions you may have, it's a promise you made to ... (read in full...)
135 pounds - and I want to lose about 20 pounds. Help me!
Q. okay its summer and i really want to loose like 20 pounds or more by the time school starts im 135 right now and i look like a beast!!! all my friends are so skinny but i cant keep away from food! its my enemy... i have a tred mill thats the only ...
A. 1 July 2008: You are not a "beast". Not at that weight and thats the honest truth. You are within the "normal" range for a girl of your age and height so don't sweat it yeah? :)
Getting fitter is easy though. Treadmill's are great for losing weight (if not ... (read in full...)
I've had enough of these friends. Should I tell them, or play it cool?
Q. ok there are these 3 girls that claims im their best friends its not a click we are all just friends in school that sometimes hang out. ok they started taking the hanging out process overboard and its like we are just friends that talk in school and ...
A. 1 July 2008: Actually I'm not quite sure I understand the question. You want to tell them that you don't want to hang out with them because you don't feel comfortable? Why don't you feel comfortable? Trust me, hanging with your friends is one of the things you ... (read in full...)
Is it safer to use 2 condoms?
Q. is it safer to use 2 condoms at a time?...
A. 1 July 2008: Safer to use 3!... (read in full...)
I'm sure he's "at it". I want to catch him. Can you help?
Q. About the beginning of last month my husband started acting different. One morning when I woke up, I decided to go onto his MSN and his facebook to see what I could find. On his MSN hotmail he had an email from an adult sex site. I got the password ...
A. 30 June 2008: A hacker decided to use his msn account to make an account on an adult website? That doesnt make any sort of logical sense and is pure BS. I am 100% sure that it was not a hacker.
Confront him again about the account, ask him to tell the truth as... (read in full...)
Should I go for the one I think I love, or the one who's in a gang?
Q. I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be ...
A. 30 June 2008: I only read the title. The one you love.... (read in full...)
Would it be awkward if I called?
Q. at this place i work this girl comes and keeps lookin at me. Her friend came up to me and said she likes me. A week later her friend came and gave me her number. I've never spoken to her but she is extremely pretty. Wouldn't it be awkward to call? ...
A. 30 June 2008: If I were you I'd send her a text. She will feel less shy about that as she can have some time and warning to respond. Once you can get that going back and forth, then you can move onto either calling her or plan on meeting up with her.
Try s... (read in full...)
I don't want my classmates to know I'm gay, how can I rig this test?
Q. I am a psychology Student and I'm on my 4th year of studying. I have this major subject called Projective testing and it reveals the deepest and inner part of yourself that you hide. The test shows many aspects of personality that is basically what ...
A. 26 June 2008: I'm afraid I know very little about these tests but could you not just go against your gut instinct? Dont say what first comes to mind, but second guess yourself and think of something somewhat unrelated.
Other than that I dont think there is... (read in full...)
Someone who works at our school wrote 'u r sexy' in my friend's facebook account! How should I handle this?
Q. please help!!!!! yesterday i was on facebook looking at my frinds account and i saw someone who works at our school commenting her "u r sexy" i was shocked when i read this. and told my close freinds one of my freinds messaged him calling him a pe...
A. 25 June 2008: He may be "nice" but he is certainly in the wrong here and you have every right to inform the staff at your school. The fact he left a message on facebook like that is a definite warning sign!
Dont wait for your friend to tell the head teacher,... (read in full...)
Are there exercises I can do to make my penis larger?
Q. Why Is My Penis So Small At Age 13 is this normal . if any suggestions please tell how to get or make it bigger by just exercises...
A. 25 June 2008: You're 13. Don't sweat it. You can't do any sort of exercises to make it bigger, but if you wait for puberty to kick in I'm sure it'll....grow. If you're still worried about it when you're 20 then you can have surgery - although I really wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I've lost my sex drive...why?!?!? How can I get it back???
Q. I have a weird sexual problem. I'm 19. I should be craving sex all the time. I know I used to crave sex all the time little more than a year ago... I have no desire now. I do have sex and it isn't like a chore, even though I get no physical pl...
A. 16 June 2008: This is a problem you need to go see your GP about!
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
Do people who fall in love quickly also fall out of love quickly??
Q. My g\f has dumped me. At the beginning of our one year relationship she was all over me, almost clingy and more or less in love with me straight away. Now after a few weeks of arguing she has dumped me and just gone cold, just like that. I can't ...
A. 16 June 2008: There is no simple answer to what you have described. I shall try and put it as simply as I can. Everyone is different. I would suspect however, that she was never "in love" with you to begin with - more likely she was "infatuated" by you. It shows ... (read in full...)
I'm 17. He's 25. People say it's "sick" or just "wrong". Is it?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who is 8 years younger then me, (im 25 his 17) We have been going out now for just over 6 months, but during this time we have had alot of people tell us that our relationship is 'sick' or 'wrong'. Is it really that wro...
A. 15 June 2008: Firstly the admin titled this question wrong, SHE is 25 and her boyfriend is 17!
I don't think it's wrong. It's your choice - if you're both happy then who cares what anyone else thinks?
Chin up!
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He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?
Q. We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way ...
A. 15 June 2008: lilyflower, seeing as you are atleast 18 years of age I really think you're past notes by now! Go and "make the first move" - except it's not really making a move at all, going up to someone and talking to them doesn't mean you want to date them, I ... (read in full...)
He stares but we never talk. Is he shy? Is he waiting for me to make the first move?
Q. We have known each other since the beginning of middle school. We have never talked much but when we do he and I are at a loss of words and when that happens he stares at me like crazy. I never know what to say around him and he seems to be that way ...
A. 14 June 2008: Talk to him. See how he reacts. Take it from there!... (read in full...)
I'm feeling low after failing a subject at school... What step should I take?
Q. I failed a subject in school...What do i do? I feel really bad....
A. 14 June 2008: Go and talk to your subject teacher / head of year / parents / whoever might be able to help you. Just talking about it will help you feel better and it will show them that you care and wish to do well - it means a lot.
Discuss your options ... (read in full...)
He calls me every day without fail. Does he really like me?
Q. There is this guy who calls me every day and we would talk for hours and hours together...He didn't tell me he liked me but i want to know if that's not the case then why does he want to talk to me every day,and why does he get angry if I dont ...
A. 14 June 2008: I can't believe you're even asking! Seriously? I would bet my dad's car that he does - guys don't ring every day if they don't like you you know? ;)
Best of luck with the situation and I hope that if I'm right, that you like him too!
x... (read in full...)
How do we 'play' a guy who's a real player??!?
Q. Okayy. Me and my friend have a problem; this guy keeps trying to get in every girls pants he approaches, tries to kiss EVERYONE, and he is just being a plain player. We need revenge. How do we play the player? Loveee, Project Hairspray [PS....
A. 11 June 2008: Why bother doing something cruel - surely you could do something more constructive with your time? Help someone out? Make more friends? Try and IMPROVE something instead of making it worse - builds character.
Just don't give him the satisfac... (read in full...)
How do you feel when you fall in love?
Q. How do you feel when you fall in love? Do you feel sweaty, nervous, excited, overwhelmed? When someone says to you that they romantically love you, do you think they truly mean it? Romantic love is quite complex. It is the feeling in your brain that ...
A. 11 June 2008: Just to add a slightly different face to what has already been said. In biological terms - there are alot of different stages of love - which can be monitored by the differing levels of horomes in your body. Testosterone is the first one ... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 9 June 2008: Ok. Another huge turn of events. I think this is it this time. Although Jack has been giving me advice on the situation I dont think he has my interests at heart at all. I found out that he kissed her again - or "she kissed him" or some bullshit. ... (read in full...)
Does this girl likes me, by any chance?
Q. Uh well there's this girl who I met through a writing website half a year ago. So as an extension of collabing story with her (and along with the other 3), I got her email and we start to chat through msn. She's always appearing offline, so it's...
A. 8 June 2008: I wouldn't worry too much about sounding desperate! Try not to give out mixed messages if you think she is too, you've known her long enough so that you can start slowly dropping hints that you like her. Sooner of later she'll pick up on it I'm ... (read in full...)
He wants to split up for uni - how do I cope?
Q. My boyfriend of 4 years has just told me that he no longer wants to go out and just wants to be friends he says this is because in 3 months we are going off to seperate universities and we decided around a year ago that when university came we would ...
A. 8 June 2008: I'd say it was an excuse - if he liked you as much as you liked him he would want to savour every moment with you. I'm sorry but I don't think that he is too bothered about breaking up with you for university. My best advice is that you have no ... (read in full...)
I discovered that being a jerk does not make girls like you.
Q. I screwed up big time. A few months ago I read on some website that girls only like guys who are complete jerks. So I decided to be a jerk to a girl that I liked in hopes that she would start to like me. That was really stupid because now she sees ...
A. 8 June 2008: Wow im surprised that didnt work out! I say keep trying! All girls are idiots who wish to be treated like crap and you would be silly not to follow the brilliant advice you find on the internet. Try spitting in her face a few times until she changes ... (read in full...)
What should I weigh?
Q. Ok just wondering here. I'm 17, female and about 5 ft 4 - 5ft 5 ish i'm not to sure which. I'm just wondering do you know what the average weight is for someone of that age and height? Because from being about 14 i was about 9 stone and the doctors ...
A. 8 June 2008: Firstly, you dont need to go to the doctors to try and find out how much you should weigh. Infact, I can tell you right now! For a girl of height 5ft 4" you should weigh between 8.5 - 10.5 stone to have a normal body mass index (eg. youre healthy!) ... (read in full...)
Does this girl likes me, by any chance?
Q. Uh well there's this girl who I met through a writing website half a year ago. So as an extension of collabing story with her (and along with the other 3), I got her email and we start to chat through msn. She's always appearing offline, so it's...
A. 8 June 2008: I'm going through something fairly similar to you at the moment - trying to get a girl but unsure if she likes me back. I think just because its you in a particular situation you start to doubt yourself so it's good you came here to ask for advice ... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 6 June 2008: Ok heres the current situation. My first best friend has backed right off - I think he must know how much I like her. My second best friend has shown very little interest in comparison with myself and I think I actually have a shot at this.
Ive k... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 1 June 2008: q1605! I appreciate you are trying to help but do you really think thats a good path to take?!! You want me to take him down an alleyway and as far as I can tell, either try and beat him up whilst hes drunk or make him think hes playing a game of ... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 1 June 2008: Heres what happened, my best friend has bascally completely backed off. Yay right? No. My OTHER best friend met her seperately on the same night as I did and fancies her too. We have alot more in common with each other than my other best friend. He ... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 31 May 2008: Hahahaha this gets sooooo much worse it's untrue. I shall update you as soon as I get back home from going out.... (read in full...)
Kissing... a big problem. Any help with the tecnique?
Q. I have tried thousand times but till date am just a loser.though my bf have been very supportive and helped me but i just can't give him a smooch. Its not that i don't like his taste,though it was a problem earlier but now its been long time tha...
A. 30 May 2008: This is what I know from my very limited experience!
-There is no right or wrong way to kiss. Just dont FORCE it! Just do what feels right!
As a tip it helps if youre nice and relaxed (alcohol can help!)... (read in full...)
Why falling for your teacher is never good!
Q. *LONG BUT READ IT ALL TO UNDERSTAND PROPERLY* I know for a fact many of you girls on here have crushes/are in love/are in fatuated with your teachers, and most of you would love something to happen aswell.Most of the aunts say this is a b...
A. 30 May 2008: Your life isnt over yet! If I were in your position I would get back into education and finish it the best I could so that I could have some better job prospects.
Try and get some professional help about your alcoholism if youre not currentl... (read in full...)
When we found out that we both liked the same girl, his exact words were, "let the competition begin". I'm furious with him!
Q. My best friend met a girl last week. He told me, "You two would really suit each other". I shrugged it off, he always says things like this, besides it takes alot for me to fancy someone. Im sure ive been a whole 2 years without liking a soul ...
A. 30 May 2008: Thanks for what youve all said so far - I read all your advice carefully and tried to put it into practice as best I could. This has been very helpful so far! Well back to the situation at hand, I didnt write this in before as I thought it would... (read in full...)
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