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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:please help!!!!!yesterday i was on facebook looking at my frinds account and i saw someone who works at our school commenting her "u r sexy" i was shocked when i read this. and told my close freinds one of my freinds messaged him calling him a pedo which i got really upset about and my other freind said he is gonig to tell the headteacher.i really dont feel bad becasue of thease facts:it may not be himi wouldnt want him losing his jobi no it sounds stupid what i am saying but you never know what he may do to me or my freinds if he finds out we told the teachers which i am against.how should i handle this situation?(p.s he knows who that girl is becasue i have seen them talking in school he also seems like a nice man)
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Have you asked your parents what they think? That might not be a bad idea, as they can help work through some of the worries you have.
Another option is to contact this website or freephone for some advice:
Childline-
”You can talk to ChildLine about anything - no problem is too big or too small.
"If you are feeling scared or out of control or just want to talk to someone you can call ChildLine.
"Some of the things that people phone about are feeling lonely or unloved, worries about their future, problems about school, bullying, drugs, pregnancy, HIV and AIDS, physical and sexual abuse, running away and concerns about parents, brothers, sisters and friends, and crimes against them.
"Whatever your worry, large or small, we're here to offer advice and support. When you are ready. “
Call ChildLine on 0800 1111.
www.childline.org.uk
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As other posters have said, you could talk with a trusted teacher too, or the head of the school. But when I was in doubt about something, I would always ask my parents first.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (25 June 2008):
 You should definately get this matter dealt wtih quickly: you're worried about what he might do if you report him, but if you dont, what if he goes further?
Just go and tell a member of staff you trust, and ask them to dealt with it if you're really nervous about going to "higher powers"
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): One question before I say all of this: Why do you and your friends have a facebook? You are too young to have a facebook (based on the website's rules). It almost makes me want to say that you and her brought that upon yourselves.
I think what you did was good. Telling a teacher about what this guy did is the best way to deal with this. A man like him shouldn't give those type of comments to girls your age. If you're worried about your protection, tell your teacher about it and that you feel threatened. They will deal with this situation. Tell the teacher
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo +, writes (25 June 2008):
 He may be "nice" but he is certainly in the wrong here and you have every right to inform the staff at your school. The fact he left a message on facebook like that is a definite warning sign!
Dont wait for your friend to tell the head teacher, do it yourself.
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