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writes:My boyfriend of 4 years has just told me that he no longer wants to go out and just wants to be friends he says this is because in 3 months we are going off to seperate universities and we decided around a year ago that when university came we would have a break but keep in touch and hopefully get back together after uni had finished if we were still madly in love. However he now says that this will be to difficult for him and he wants to split up now so he can get used to not being with me. Is this just an excuse?? and if it isnt im scared that we will slowly fall out of love with each other and then have no chance of getting back together after university. What should i do??
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo +, writes (8 June 2008):
 I'd say it was an excuse - if he liked you as much as you liked him he would want to savour every moment with you. I'm sorry but I don't think that he is too bothered about breaking up with you for university. My best advice is that you have no choice but to sit down and talk to him about this. Tell him how you feel and that you dont want to break up - if he says "ok", problem solved, if he doesn't then you'll just have to do your best to try and resolve the situation by getting over him. Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear!
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