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writes:I really like this guy, we've been best friends for a while now. We had an amazing time the other night. We stayed up all night talking, kissing, cuddling. I was the happiest I have been in a long time. Though, we are not dating, I think I may be falling for him. I don't know if our relationship will take itself to another level or not.But, while I was out with a few friends lastnight, I met ANOTHER guy. He is very cute and sweet, the only thing is, he is in a gang. That's not normally the type I'd go for, he's somebody I'd probably want to stay away from. But the thing is, I don't want too! We spent most of the night talking to eachother, and he was telling me alot about his backround and his life, and at the end of the night we kissed. He told me had a "good" feeling about me. Meanwhile, when I got home, I started to really think about what I had done. I mean, just the night before, I spent the night with an amazing guy whom I think I am falling for. But, now I can't seem to get this other guy off my mind. He is all I am thinking about, and he raps and gave me a CD of all his songs. All I do is keep replaying the CD over and over. I want to see him again. I am so confused, my emotions are just mixed up.Am I crushing on this guy? but what about the guy I think im inlove with? Do I tell him how I feel? Do i tell him I cannot get some other guy off my mind?I keep asking myself, what if i never see him again? I mean, I only met him once, and I feel like.. I just miss him, Help!
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (1 July 2008):
 hey girl!=]
This certainly is a sticky situation..
I had an expirence similar to this, only with a drug dealer. I found myself choosing between 2 guys I was uncertain about..do I choose the smart cute guy my age or the cute 16yr old druggie with no future? The choice was obvious, I chose the first choice. Do you know what happens in most gangs dear? killing,drugs, crimes..not a good scene to be in. You stated before that the other (better) guy, is the one you might be falling in love with. There is a mega huge difference between likeing or crushing, compared to love. Your heart is telling you to be with the one you love or you wouldnt say you love him. Think about your future! he could wind up in jail. I would tell him that it just wont work out between you two. Your heart told you who you have more feelings for
best of luck! && take care
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 Hi,
I think you need to take a step back. You don't appear to have the maturity to really offer real committment .
Going for the gang guy is just a case of "bad boy" itis. You know he is wrong for you but you are seduced by the danger and the fact that he lives an unconventional life. This is why I think you arent ready to a real committment in a relationship. You are still looking to experiment and try different things. So keep things with boy number 1 on a social level but be wary going for Guy no.2 he may be all sweet now, but if he is in a gang he has probably done some pretty nasty things, what makes you think he won't do them to you if you decide to split up with him?
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reader, OhLawdWhat DoIDo  +, writes (30 June 2008):
 I only read the title. The one you love.
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reader, Ski +, writes (30 June 2008):
Well babe I have been best friends with this one guy since I was like 3 and just the other night (just like you) i had an amazing night with him I slept over and we stayd up all night just cuddleing and laughing it was so much fun and even in the morning I woke up to him pokeing at my butt and it was cute but I really think I'm starting to fall for him to but he has a girl friend although he always flirts with me but I can tell you something dont go for the gang guy if anything goes wrong( idk if he's this kinda guy) but you could be scared and you dont want that to happen is there one movie or story you no where the child hood friends dont end up together
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