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I'm 12 and don't know how to finger myself.

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Question - (8 June 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, *m a horny 12 year old writes:

hi, im 12 and i am very horney i have tried to finger myself but it hurt so i just cross my legs and it feel nice , i but i feel like im not normal baeace i cant finger myself

is it normal?

help me plz

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008):

I can't believe there are so far 7 replies before me that have all more or less encouraged a 12 year old how to masturbate.

This is truly unbelieveable. I can understand the curiosity of a girl that age, but to be told how to finger herself and such just doesn't seem right somehow.

Next thing you'll all be telling her will be that full blown sex is perfectly normal for a 12 and a half year old.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008):

Hey the, the reason why it hurts when you try to finger is because yout "hymen" s not broken. Dont try to go all the way in at once, strech it out little by little each day it should hurt less. It will break when you have sex and it will hurt but hopefully not so much..

Yeah i masturbated that way too haha..sounds so sick but its so right and normal.. =)

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A female reader, JustMeeLikee United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2008):

OMG! this is such a releif! I am 12, and i started using my finger and rubbing it back and forth well fast until my body went weak and i got ripples - it felt so nice i did it again and again! I have never done it when watching porn like! :L i wouldnt no what to do :P

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

im 12 and i finger my self wen imm horney it feels realy good gust move your fingers around in your vagina its normal if it hurts. =)im about to do it now

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008):

Perfectly normal. You don't have to put your finger inside if it hurts, it's not necessary for you to feel good. Just rub the little bump at the top, or rub around the area that itches you most. Practice will make perfect. You'll get to know your body and what feels good.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2008):

this is normal..

it will hurt you first time around..

just go slow..

and you will not feel a thing..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008):

you can either rub your clit, or massage it in between 2 fingers...dont try and stick anythin in if it hurts lol

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A female reader, misfitschik66 Canada +, writes (9 June 2008):

misfitschik66 agony auntyou are at the age that your hormones are up their masturbation is normal if it hurts then don't do it till you are older or at least more comfortable

because you have already tried i can't really say your to young ( i tried masturbating for the first time when i was 12)

don't worry about it hun you are a perfectly normal 12 year old girl!!

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