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Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 25 November 2011: Thats very positive all the very best hun!!... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my ex even thought he cheated
Q. I'm confused as what to do even though i know the right way to go. I can't stop thinking bout my ex, i love him so much and don't know why. He's cheated, treat me like crap and eventually kicked me out of his house. I've never put a foot wrong and ...
A. 25 November 2011: your very welcome hun x... (read in full...)
Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 24 November 2011: Yeah overthinking! exactly.You are doin what comes naturally leave her with it and if she comes back well ok if she doesn,t you will have to move on. She isn,t worth getting upset over when she plays mind games with you.Its good you don,t want to ... (read in full...)
Boosting my self-esteem
Q. Does anyone have any tips to boost my self esteem I feel like my self esteem is really low I feel sad,confused all that other bad stuff can someone please help me? Thank you....
A. 23 November 2011: Its not unusual in your teens to feel this you are changing from a teenager into a young women and your body is changing.
Think about what makes you feel good if its your favourite tunes play them and loud.
Try on some new clothes get your... (read in full...)
Do I tell my g/f I've cheated on her multiple times?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for just over a year now. Things were great. We even talked about and planned wedding stuff. I had no doubts the she was the one. It was truly amazing. Here's the first thing. I've cheated on her multiple...
A. 23 November 2011: This is really bad and you are shocking. You must think you are gods gift. I wonder if your girlfriend does know your cheating and that you have had sex. Maybe she is getting hers while you are oblivious. Seriously think about it,becuase you ... (read in full...)
I need some conversation tips!
Q. I'm a kinda shy guy,but i have a couple of female friends,i kinda find it difficult to start convesations..but there's this girl that is a friend to my friend(female)...we both belong to the same department in college.we only talk whenever she's ...
A. 23 November 2011: Tell her you have noticed her for a while now and wondered if she is single and if she is ask her out for dinner!... (read in full...)
I just want to be loved. Am I asking too much?
Q. Really upset at the moment and really need some advice. I was in an 8 year relationship with my now ex, we had three children together, but broke up due to his alcohol addiction and temper. Anyway i went trough alot of stuff with my ex and i vowed ...
A. 23 November 2011: You are not asking to much and if he won,t listen to you hun, there are plenty of guys out there who don,t need telling!
Start making some new friends and do some nice things for yourself like new underwear new makeup. Get your self back.
You... (read in full...)
What is up with this guy?
Q. Hi, Please help me. I am a 34 year old single female. There's a guy whom I've known for 2 years. I have never seen him in real. He is an elder brother of a friend of mine. I have seen my friend not this guy. he was working overseas and we hav...
A. 23 November 2011: Sounds like his plans have not worked and he is looking to maybe get together with you somehow.... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my ex even thought he cheated
Q. I'm confused as what to do even though i know the right way to go. I can't stop thinking bout my ex, i love him so much and don't know why. He's cheated, treat me like crap and eventually kicked me out of his house. I've never put a foot wrong and ...
A. 23 November 2011: You are hanging in the wrong crowd . You need a new set of friends. you have all the answers about this guy change the way you think about him. Start to think of him as a drug adict and some one who needs proffesional help. Think about how he will ... (read in full...)
I'm 27 and never had a girlfriend
Q. hi everyone. im a 27 year old guy, moved to a new area which is 200 miles away fron where i am orginally for a new job. and its really nice here. i like my job and the people i work with, its really good money and ive started playing rugby again so...
A. 23 November 2011: There are women out there who have never had a boyfriend and its because they choose not to.You are giving off the vibe that you are not really bothered at the moment, you are just testing the water. Girls will respond if you look interested.Keep ... (read in full...)
Is a 30 year old man too old for a girl of 19?
Q. Ok so I met a guy in April met at a nightclub he was 24 we hit it off got together but within about a month weird things started uhappening he kept having serious accidents I couldn't get thru to his phone he could only call me he claimed it was a ...
A. 23 November 2011: No you cannot trust him he has lied about his age and is probably lying about everything else. You could have visited him in hospital except his wife or girlfriend may have been there.He is playing you hun!... (read in full...)
Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 23 November 2011: If you want to take her shopping then go. Treat it for what it is just shopping!Its good when it doesn,t feel awkward. Don,t pressure her into saying anything she isn,t saying herself.You are trying to hard.... (read in full...)
Did this seem like an unreasonable question to ask him? Why did he not reply?
Q. Hello All, I recently started a relationship with a guy and both of us were very nervous about getting into a relationship. After talking a lot about many things like previous relationships, family, friends, ect. and a few sleep overs without sex, ...
A. 23 November 2011: Maybe he hadn,t thought it through that far and maybe the relationship isn,t as serious for him at this stage as it is for you. It maybe that this new encounter has made him rethink things and he knows the answer but can,t say it so you have almost ... (read in full...)
Fiance broke up with me out of the blue, without any explanation, and has been ignoring me completely!
Q. Okay, so about 3 1/2 months ago my ex fiance broke up with me. It was very devastating for me because that same day we were talking about our wedding plans, laughing, and joking around when he just came out of nowhere and decided to end the ...
A. 23 November 2011: I agree with everything said so far. It does sound like he has someone else and he likes the attention he got from you when you thought he was serious about you. Some women do this too.
without paying to much attention to this kind of behaviou... (read in full...)
Girlfriend thinks I'm checking out girls when I'm not!
Q. I need serious help with my girlfriend she constantly thinks I'm checking out girls when I'm not Even if I do I don't ogle and do it rudely She thinks that's it's a sign that I don't love her that I don't want to be with her that And her friend...
A. 23 November 2011: She may not be of sound mind on the subject. You could try having the conversation of What do you think im doin that makes you think im looking all the time.!Listen to her answer!The trick is to listen to exactly what she is saying and agree. Then ... (read in full...)
I have periods where I feel insecure about things. Should I seek help?
Q. Basically, I tend to go through periods where I am extremely sensitive about things. When i reflect on it, i dont really have cause to feel the way I do but for some reason I do. I am normally content, energetic and loving life. I've never been...
A. 23 November 2011: There are some deeper issues for you here but i don,t think they are things you can,t solve.Sounds like you have a fear of rejection and you are not confident in your own self worth.You would benefit from some confidence building exercises.There are ... (read in full...)
My body failed to respond to my ex boyfriend's caressing.what is wrong with me.am I over him.
Q. hai everyone.my ex and i have been broken up for six months.it was a bad breakup (he cheated on me),so i broke up with him.but i have forgiven him.well he asked me back and he has shown me signs that he wants this to work,but i don't know what i ...
A. 23 November 2011: The more bad things that happen in a relationship the harder it is to have sex which is not crawling with anxiety and doubt.You have alot of things on your mind and he maynot be willing to talk them through,but you can try.... (read in full...)
Does anyone agree with "everything happens for a reason"
Q. I was wondering, do you believe in the phrase "everything happens for a reason". I am finding it hard to believe at the moment. I applied for my dream job (a promotion), got an interview... Everything was going well. The panel knew me, gave me...
A. 23 November 2011: This happened to me not so long ago and then i got something better.I never would of considered the option until it fell in my lap. Things do have away of happening when you least expect them. With every down side there is always an up side.You can ... (read in full...)
I'm confused if he likes me or not?
Q. There is this guy at my job he always said hey to me. And one day he asked out for coffee now is that a date?or what so i went and told a few of my coworkers and one of my coworkers asked him he asked me on a date (i never thought she would say ...
A. 23 November 2011: You may have lost your chance as blonde30s as said. You should have just gone for coffee and not gone over board with it.Its like saying hes the one and your goin to habe kids and everythin. You scared him off hun!... (read in full...)
Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 23 November 2011: I think you should not give her all the attention she seeks when it comes down to giving you mixed messages. She actually doesnot know what she wants but has found that she enjoys having you running after her when she gives you a bad vibe .Don,t do ... (read in full...)
Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 22 November 2011: This is true NFENIX you cannot be her puppy dog you are much better than that.Teach her a lesson and let her go. She has lost a nice lad!... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he was talking on the phone to a girl? We aren't together yet
Q. there is this guy its been almost 4 months since we've met each other we've been sleeping at each others place.and one night when was taking a bath at his place i felt something was wrong when i got out i saw him talking on the phone with a girl but ...
A. 22 November 2011: He can talk to who he wants he aint with you yet, and if he does get with you he may still talk to his friends!!... (read in full...)
Should your panties get wet when you're turned on?
Q. Simple question really. Should your panties really get wet when you're turned on and if so, how wet? And when does it become uncomfortable or embarrassing? ...
A. 22 November 2011: most women will secrete fluid when they are aroused. It is different for all women as to how much or how little.If you are worried that it may become or is ambarrassing for you wear panty liners!... (read in full...)
He pursued his ex but won't pursue me. Should I leave?
Q. My boyfriend and I had known each other for 4 months now. Before we were in a relationship, I was the one who texted him everyday and he will Text back. We also went out because I was giving him hints that i'll be in town on my days off( I used to ...
A. 22 November 2011: You must of gone to great lengths to find out this info.
It seems that the girl was unavailable and this make alot of men chase, maybe you should take a leaf out of her book.
But becareful not to use it to much or he may not stay withyou either!... (read in full...)
He pursued his ex but won't pursue me. Should I leave?
Q. My boyfriend and I had known each other for 4 months now. Before we were in a relationship, I was the one who texted him everyday and he will Text back. We also went out because I was giving him hints that i'll be in town on my days off( I used to ...
A. 22 November 2011: You must of gone to great lengths to find out this info.
It seems that the girl was unavailable and this make alot of men chase, maybe you should take a leaf out of her book.
But becareful not to use it to much or he may not stay withyou either!... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me so why can't I get her out of my mind?
Q. Me and my now ex gf have broke up several times due to her cheating and addiction to dating sites. Each time she ends up turning up in an emotional mess and i get suckered,before i know it i am saying to myself, 'i am with her again'. Then within a ...
A. 22 November 2011: Many women do this too. You need to do more things with the woman you have now met,and go out with your friends and have no contact with the ex atall.She has gone!... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend's response or am I nitpicking?
Q. I have read on a few websites that the direction that someone's eyes move in tells whether or not they are telling the truth. It says when they move their eyes up and to their right it means they are constructing a response (lying) and when they ...
A. 22 November 2011: You need to stop this you will scare him away altogether,is he on trial here or do you actually want a relationship?... (read in full...)
Does he love me if he calls rarely and never tells me he loves me on the phone?
Q. When we're together he seems like he's crazy about me and always tells me he loves me... We've been together for two months and he really seems to care about me... I don't think he's only thinking about having sex with me, since he really seems ...
A. 22 November 2011: Why is it not normal to not say i love you when his mates are around. Hes a guy and when with his mates he doesn,t want to look loved up. They might take serious fun out of him. He may find this to difficult to feal with. I agree stop focusing on ... (read in full...)
Is she playing games or not interested?
Q. I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how ...
A. 22 November 2011: Let her call you donot chase her. She sounds like she is playing games. Don,t fall for it!... (read in full...)
I just got married but the 'sex' is few and far between! Any advice?
Q. I just got married BUT I met my husband early last year and we just got married last month. He is 15 years older than me and in the begining of our relationship, the very first time he asked me for sex, we did foreplay but when it came to the real...
A. 22 November 2011: You say he had to go back to his own country for a while.
Do you think that he possibly could have a wife in another country?... (read in full...)
Help! Does he love me or is he just using me for sex?
Q. hey everyone I have been friends with a guy for three years and we finally got together seven months ago (life was good) ...we started have a sexual relationship about three months ago, i am just abit worried that he doesnt love me anymore and just...
A. 22 November 2011: Maybe he is confused about how he feels.Are you his first sexual partner?
if so then maybe he doean,t know how to react to the situation anymore!
If you are not his first maybe he has found that he doesn,t feel the same way,now you have had sex.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should I do? is she scared of committment?
Q. My girlfriend of 7 yrs isnt putting effort in anymore what should i do? *warning this is gonna be long i apologize and appreciate any feedback*thankyou* Ok heres the situation.. Ive been with my girlfriend for 7 years and also have a beautifu...
A. 22 November 2011: No i felt the same way a few years ago.You are doin everything you can from your side she has to try herself . If she doesn,t unfortunatly you may end up going your seperate ways.If she insists on not spending any time with you, this will eventually ... (read in full...)
My teen daughter is staying with her gran to finish her studies. Now she does not want to come home. How do I resolve this?
Q. Hi everyone We relocated to a new city... My mom is currently staying with my 14 year old daughter in our house just till the end of this school year, then she will have to join us in the new city. I think the move is constantly on my daughter's mi...
A. 22 November 2011: Similar thing happened to myself with my son,except he chose to stay away for good.This was because all his friends were there. We have a very good relationship and see each other often.Sometimes we have to learn to let go.Just keep the door ... (read in full...)
Why is she pushing me away? Why is she seeking me out only to reject me again? My offer is love and stability
Q. My Ex Gf and I have lived together for 18 months. We’ve supported ourselves this entire time, paying the electric bills, insurance, groceries, etc We broke up a month ago. For domestic reasons she has chosen to still live with me, despite the ...
A. 22 November 2011: Sounds like she loves for you to be chasing her. She is a bit of a drama queen. Ignore her for a while and see what comes of it. She is playing with your heart strings,don,t allow this. Tell her you need a break from all this up and down emotion!... (read in full...)
He abused me so I left the relationship. But how do I stop emotional binge eating I've been doing since the split?
Q. August, I got out of an emotionally abusive relationship. He would call me fat then try to get me into nude modeling (makes sense right?). Also I was 17 and he was 27. He'd say I belong to him and other manipulative ^^^t like that. Anyways one day ...
A. 22 November 2011: To stop the binge eating you need to concentate on the real issues and get some counselling.After all you have been through its not as easy as just stopping.
You have been assaulted befor and this guy is doin the same. August is not along time ago... (read in full...)
He isn't happy with her. Should I pursue him? Our co-workers think we are already an item.
Q. There's this guy I work with and I've really grown to care about this guy. We don't see each other outside of work much, but we are around each other at work all the time. We started out as just friends, but lately I started noticing a diff...
A. 22 November 2011: Its giving him his cake and letting him eat it. Let him sort out his relationship leave him well alone.... (read in full...)
What's an appropriate level of intimacy to have with male friends when you're in a relationship?
Q. I met my wonderful boyfriend during my gap year (2010) but now we're LDR. I love him to bits and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, but since starting college, I've been finding it tough not to be at least a teeny bit flattered by the sudden ...
A. 22 November 2011: I agree with chi girl she said it all and very sensible advice too!!... (read in full...)
My fiance is turning into groomzilla! How do I handle this?
Q. Hi there! I have an interesting case of gender role reversal for you all! I'm getting married for the first time next July. I was over the moon when my boyfriend asked me: I am really committed to him and I want to spend the rest of my lif...
A. 22 November 2011: I know you put this question out to the guys,but im going to answer it anyway. If you don,t feel part of these proceedings so far then you need to start and contribute to them. Have your say in a few things and tell him some of the suggesti... (read in full...)
How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you? I want my ex back but he says he wants to be alone!
Q. How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you?? I was in a LDR for 3 years and he broke up with me in April as he had become depressed (he became depressed about his life and what he was doing and where he was going)…si...
A. 22 November 2011: If you said to someone that you were not interested and that you wanted to be alone right now,would you like someone pestering you. Some people call it harassment! Its sad that you are finding it dificult to move on because you are probably mis... (read in full...)
He took part in a golf tournament with another woman because I'm not good enough! Now we cant stop rowing about this, what should I do?
Q. My husband and I both play golf. He has been a member for years and plays regularly, but I am a beginner and only get chance to play occasionally. At the weekend the club were holding an Open Doubles Competition which he wanted to play in. All ...
A. 21 November 2011: You have hit a raw nerve with yourself. perhaps this is the first time this has ever happened to you and your husband. Maybe it happened when things are not as good as they should be between you and it has disturbed your subconcious thinking about ... (read in full...)
He lied to me and I'm starting to have my doubts about him
Q. Two days ago my boyfriend told me he had to go do some work-related stuff. He told me it would take him a couple of hours and he would come see me right after he was done. Five hours or so later (it was really late by then, around 12am or somethin...
A. 21 November 2011: Anyone that lies to you will cause you to doubt them and so you should. Try asking him why he felt the need to lie... (read in full...)
How do I get over social enxiety?
Q. how do i get over social enxiety? i dont realy go out (besides work) i some times go out on friday to the pool club with some friends but thats not very often saturday and sunday a day of sports and thats it back to work, ihave absolutly no ...
A. 21 November 2011: You can go on different courses for this kind of thing. I joined a beginners theatre group and learned the basics of interaction and speaking out loud it really boosted my confidence!!... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time with my family and need some advice.
Q. hey...i need some family advice :) i have had a bad past life with my family but i have put all that behind me well i thought i had :\ today i saw my brother again after a year because of my controlling grand mother (dads mum) she stop my brother ...
A. 21 November 2011: I don,t know really why you hate your gran its not very clear. I suppose you could try asking her why she has stopped your brothers contact and listen to her side of the story.I don,t know what you think you are turning into,but from all accounts ... (read in full...)
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