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male
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anonymous
writes:I'm a kinda shy guy,but i have a couple of female friends,i kinda find it difficult to start convesations..but there's this girl that is a friend to my friend(female)...we both belong to the same department in college.we only talk whenever she's with my friend.now we're r on holiday and i met her online on a social site,and i'm interested in her ....please i need some conversation tips in order to get to knw her better and get her to like me...
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reader, mammaboo  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 Tell her you have noticed her for a while now and wondered if she is single and if she is ask her out for dinner!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 Well first of all you can't "get her to like you". If the chemistry is there (on her part), she will.. if it's not, she won't. You can however provide great conversation- which is something you're obviously seeking. A few pointers I can give to you right now is to keep the conversation interesting, balanced (don't make her feel as though she's on the hot seat... and don't talk too much about yourself), and stay away from off color humor (like locker room jokes). Ask questions to build rapport- and to find common interests so you both wouldn't have to rack your brains trying to think of questions to ask. Doing it this way, may make the conversation flow a bit more easier. And just as importantly, try to be aware of her body language. You can get a sense if she's into you or not also based on her non-verbal communication. Here's some additional reading for you that you may find beneficial:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what--women-want-most-from-a-guy.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-create-great-conversations-on-a-date.htmlGood luck to you!
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