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writes:There is this guy at my job he always said hey to me. And one day he asked out for coffee now is that a date?or what so i went and told a few of my coworkers and one of my coworkers asked him he asked me on a date (i never thought she would say anything) so now he probably thinks i said to much.and by the way i was never interested i just was kind of confused. but i guess he told my friend that he wasn't interested and im sure other people came up to him and said stuff too. which i wish they wouldn't of because i look dumb like im high school or something. i had this collage class that i really needed help with i asked him to look over he looks over it he wanted me to meet him somewhere but i had to work. so i just meet in his office. and we didn't have a lot time. so he said we can just chat it over on fb he never got on. i mean i just wanted him to help me so i wouldn't fail and today he saw me and was like uhh sorry i didn't get on i was yeah and i was ohh okay its fine. but im confused im just wondering if he likes me or not.
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reader, 90'sbaby +, writes (23 November 2011):
90'sbaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advise. I thought my coworker were my friends but i guess this proves their not. because friends don't go and do things like that but i thought i could trust them but i guess not
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 You should learn from this never to get others involved at work when someone asks you out for a coffee. It could have just been innocent on his part. Who knows, but yes it does sound like he wanted to get to know you more, but now he has been scared of, because guys like to think that they can trust a girl not to go around telling there friends every single detail of everything, especially in the work place where you both are.
There could be some potential still left here if you are interested in him like that, but am not sure that you are. If you are not well then don't lead him on and ask him for his help. If you are not interested then just simply keep out of his way but be polite. If you are interested in him, well then ask him out for a coffee and see how it goes.
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reader, mammaboo  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 You may have lost your chance as blonde30s as said. You should have just gone for coffee and not gone over board with it.Its like saying hes the one and your goin to habe kids and everythin. You scared him off hun!
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