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No replies yet... 7 February 2012: Generally this time of year people tend to feel a little down in the dumps due to the darkness of winter and the cold. This only adds to whatever other miseries you may have. Eating a healthy balenced diet to include leafy green veg,oily fish an...
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I'm having a hard time with my family and need some advice.
Q. hey...i need some family advice :) i have had a bad past life with my family but i have put all that behind me well i thought i had :\ today i saw my brother again after a year because of my controlling grand mother (dads mum) she stop my brother ...
A. 21 November 2011: I don,t know really why you hate your gran its not very clear. I suppose you could try asking her why she has stopped your brothers contact and listen to her side of the story.I don,t know what you think you are turning into,but from all accounts ... (read in full...)
She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?
Q. Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, ...
A. 21 November 2011: ok you were over reacting so do you need her to tell you this all the time?Or can you live with every now and then.
Think about this because if you really need to hear it often you need to understand why that is.Understanding why you are the way ... (read in full...)
I'm FWB with my younger ex, but he has another girl as an FWB too! How do I get him to like me more than her?
Q. Hi everyone, well I really need help in this situation and please reply with honesty. well here we go first of all im a 16 yr old girl and I have an ex bf that my lil brother present to me, my ex is 14 and not turning 15 till 8 months and im ...
A. 21 November 2011: Don,t want to sound off with you but you have some issues yourself and they are quite dark for someone your age. I think you need some help from your parents and your peers.
The way you are describing how and what you want this boy to feel is ... (read in full...)
Is he only interested in sex? This guy has confused me.
Q. Me and this guy work together and have known each other for a while. The night we were out with co workers he admits to having his eye on me for a long time. (this wasnt the first he told me that a few months ago but I was on the rebound and wasnt ...
A. 21 November 2011: This guy sounds like he knows how to catch his prey. You can ask him how long he is prepared to wait for you,because quite frankly he could have proved his point by just letting you go home. Overly charming and probably thinks he is totally in ... (read in full...)
I want to see him at least once before I leave, is that too much to ask?
Q. Dear Cupid Me and my bf are together for 2 years and i am travelling away for my studies in another 2 weeks and we have to be in LDR for 6 months. Since i am travelling i asked my bf to meet once before i leave (he stays 5 hrs away from my pla...
A. 21 November 2011: May be if you went to see him and tell him how much your going to miss him. Sometimes leaving for a long period of time can have negative effects on people. He may feel that its you who needs to show you will miss him and you will stay in touch . ... (read in full...)
My vagina is so small it is stopping us from having sex! Help!
Q. I am married from 4 months, me and my hubby tried a lot to have sex, but it never happens :( I feel my vagina is too small and his penis is too large for me. I read some articles saying that vagina feels small until the hymen breaks. But how to ...
A. 21 November 2011: I watched a programme on this once. You can actually have an operation to correct this!Aftertrying some of the suggested techniques and it still doen,t work,go and see your doctor!... (read in full...)
She has left me and is now engaged to her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi, I am a male 24 y.o a graduate student study abroad. When I study abroad, I met this angel, she is the most beautiful girl I ever seen, and I love her so bad (we came from the same country, btw). The problem is that she already have a boyfrien...
A. 21 November 2011: love can be so painful. You sound so in love with her.She has stolen your heart but you need to get it back. She loves you to be chasing her in this way and she loves the drama and so do you.I wonder if you have no other person involved and you get ... (read in full...)
I found hundreds of porn videos on his laptop. I'm devastated.
Q. This is so hard, I dunno where to start :/ I moved abroad about a year ago, I left everything behind because I wanted to pursue some intellectual goals. Everyone supported me and it seemed pretty exciting for me. Things were good, and they got bet...
A. 21 November 2011: Your whole life is not ruined because some man can,t control himself. He has no regard for your feelings atall by what you have said. I spoke to someone earlier about porn and i told her what i did .In your case this will not work because you have ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with her?
Q. Hi guys. I am seeing a girl for like 4 months. She is younger than me but we are very well connected and enjoy our company very much. Lately she has been going through some troubles at her home and with friends and she moved to live alone recently ...
A. 21 November 2011: The answer is you don,t deal with her. You allow her to keep talking to you and let her get this out of her system. She has issues with being needed.Its not your fault if you are self sufficient. While she has a place of her own she will become as ... (read in full...)
Am I normal for wanting to remain single?
Q. Is it normal that I shut out all emotions and don't even care for having a girlfriend? About a year ago this time I was always stressing about finding a girlfriend and wondering why I was alone but something clicked in me this past summer and I re...
A. 21 November 2011: Its cool that your not bothered rite now .Your own state of mind is telling you that you need to give it a rest and that is good. Good things happen when you are least expecting them. All i would say is keep your heart open which is very different ... (read in full...)
I like him but he's friends with all of his ex girlfriends!
Q. I've been talking to this guy, we'll call him D. We've been talking for a week and I like him. So far. The thing is, I've been hurt so much in the past, idk what to believe. He's friends with 4 of his exse, and I'm not friends with any of mines. ...
A. 21 November 2011: I think it is normal to worry about this as most of the advice given on here and anywhere else will be that you don,t ever really stay friends with ex,s. But he is very young and boys donot mature as quickly as girls in such matters of the heart.
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Why does he have issues with our 7 month relationship being the open?
Q. hi im in a relationship since last 7 months. the man im in a relationship with is known to have a very colourful past. though, he denies it all and says that he has had only 2 girlfriends in his past. i have nothing to do with his past. i dont eve...
A. 21 November 2011: He certainly is acting very strange isn,t he. This must be very hard for you and frustrating but if he will not acknowledge you to anyone then i would leave him.I am sorry to say that he has issues that you cannot solve and you are better not even ... (read in full...)
He's ok till we are with others then he starts to get weird and doesn't trust me!
Q. I have been seeing a very nice guy for about a month now. Fell in love and everything is perfect when we are alone together, but the moment we are in a group with friends its almost as if he gets very insecure abut us. He tells me I look around at ...
A. 21 November 2011: Sounds like he is being manipulative and you have to stop this befor it gets out of hand.These are his insecurties. Tell him you are willing to support him and understand his issues, but you are not willing to be made to feel guilty or bad about ... (read in full...)
Should I dump him despite the fact he's given up the porn??
Q. I have a problem. My boyfriend of nearly seven years has watched and masturbated to pornography throughout behind my back. He has also lied to me when I have caught him out. He even continued to do this whilst I was pregnant and after our baby ...
A. 21 November 2011: I have has grievences about the use of porn befor and i said to him that if you can,t wait for me to do this with you then it doesn,t happen while im living here and i threw it away!
He bought more and did it while i was at work i got mad and refu... (read in full...)
I was sent to a department to help out but the two women already there are making it hell for me!
Q. Ok so I know this has nothing to do with love but this is a work sitution in which I really need some help with. So around 2/3 months ago I was taken from one department and put into another to train up how they work in their office as right ...
A. 21 November 2011: I think this is classed as bullying. You need to start to log all the conversations you have with these people and the incidents.Take it to a written complaint as you have already made a formal complaint to your manager!
Saying things like the... (read in full...)
He's mean and controlling and my children don't like him. Will he revert to the same monster again if we purchase a home together?
Q. I have posted on here so many times as I dont have anyone to talk to. What would you do in the following scenario? I am on the verge of buying a house with my second husband who I ended up having a seperate house from for the last 4 years as we had ...
A. 21 November 2011: I have read your post before and it seems that you are still in a mess about what to do!!I would be very reluctant to carry on in this relationship if it were me. The descision is yours and you don,t seem to have plucked up enough courage to do ... (read in full...)
Starting over again. Running out of time to have a family. Will men be put off by my situation when I start dating?
Q. I am 39 (40 next spring) and childless. I have just come out of a 10 year marriage which pretty much destroyed my sense of self worth / esteem. I am still a little raw but trying to move on. My hopes and dreams for a happy family life with a lovi...
A. 21 November 2011: Hi have no fear there are a lot of men out there who are looking for women who want a family. When the time is right he will find you. A ten year relationship takes a bit of getting over and you don,t want to carry all the emotional baggage into... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating on me ?
Q. So recently my girlfriend received a text message from an unsaved number. I told her to respond to it and she did it very hesitantly. She responded who is this. I then asked her to turn on her on sound because i was suspicious. So we were on the bed ...
A. 21 November 2011: you are now in the realms of uncertainty and this will eat at you till you find out,if you find out.You know that something is going on because its what people do when they have something to hide. To break this feeling of being suspiciousness y... (read in full...)
Can you really just be friends with your Ex?
Q. My ex and I said when it ended that we wanted to remain friends. For the most part, we are. We keep in touch, and see each other now and then. My problem is, every now and then, we have these "moments" together. We end up in a place where I see it ...
A. 20 November 2011: In my experiance no not really. Something awkward always gets in the way eventually.Unless you are both secretly wanting something to happen ,then one of you has to break it,if its not you, then its you my friend that needs to say it..... Enough is ... (read in full...)
I met someone online but everyone is always concerned for my safety!
Q. I think it's terrible how a minority of wicked people can forever tarnish something which could be used for the good. I met the love of my life (and I'm not using those words lightly) online in August 2010. It wasn't a dating site, just one for ...
A. 19 November 2011: You know you always think it won,t happen to me. It always happens to people you read about.I hope your rite.Online dating and friendship sites can be fun,and i don,t doubt you know your own mind,but listening to your friends and families, having ... (read in full...)
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