I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!
Q. I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...
A. 7 January 2014: It really does sound like she's up to something.Have you tried to gather evidence like having her tailed,ie private detective.It sounds like she's out of love with you,it's always horrible when this happens with one partner.I can tell this is eating ... (read in full...)
She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?
Q. I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her g...
A. 25 December 2013: I would not try to find her unless she finds you or makes a point of sitting next to you on a next journey and hope the other bloke is not there(maybe he'll try and find you).It's disgusting people can behave like that these days and scary.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that when my girlfriend does overcome her abusive ex she'll be attracted to his type again
Q. We've been together a year now and in our mid-twenties. She was raised very strict and about 8 months before I met her ended a 2 year relationship with your typical "bad boy" who treated her horribly, pretty much abuse from what I know. I ment...
A. 24 December 2013: I think you mare right in your assumption.Women that have been in abusive relationships know no better and think that all men are like that and that's how it is and has become conditioned to the abuse.Abusive men don't care if the woman gets an ... (read in full...)
Is he just in this for the sex?
Q. Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise ...
A. 24 December 2013: Well you initiated the sex on the first meet.He probably sees you as a Friend with benefits who will give him the sex he craves when he wants it.He clearly doesn't want to commit to you seriously and your falling for him already!.It's all about sex ... (read in full...)
Why do girls seem to prefer, and date, the guys who are cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types?
Q. Why oh why do girls prefer the cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types? Is it because they assume their children together will be born with a lightning bolt in their hands? Girls have done pretty skewed ways of finding guys thinking that they are bett...
A. 24 December 2013: God help us if all men were like that.We had a similar letter here on this forum a few days ago about women preferring the "bad type of boys".The same can be said of men after "blond and busty" types of women.I look for intelligenge first.I remember ... (read in full...)
His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.
Q. my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, ...
A. 24 December 2013: I wonder what is agenda is as to why he dislikes you.Your so called close friends should be backing you over him.Well let him cancel his presence on these night outs if that's
what he says he will do.If you're blameless in this then you've noth... (read in full...)
BF of 4 years. Our sex life was phenomenal. So why is he now choosing Porn over me? I need advice please
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have been living together for the past year and a half. Up until two months ago our sex life was phenomenal; we would have sex almost every day, and sometimes more than once. However we suddenly...
A. 24 December 2013: As one agony aunt has said this is becoming a problem in our society now.It's due to the pornification of society because of the internet.It's deeply worrying that women are portrayed as purely objects to be used for the gratification of men on ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked me to marry him in 4 or 5 years
Q. I am so broken hearted! My boyfriend asked me to marry him last night and I was so excited But tonight wanted to go look at rings and he don't want to buy me one cause it will cut into his beer money and he says I just asked you to marry me but I d...
A. 24 December 2013: This relationship is not for you i'm afraid if his beer is more important.It'll be worse after you are married i'm sure.Leave him.... (read in full...)
I can't bear the thought of him kissing another girl!
Q. Do you think that kissing is cheating? When I was with my ex, I would have firmly said no - I really didn't think kisses meant that much and weren't personal, I kissed other people and he did too, it was never sober or with the same person more...
A. 24 December 2013: A peck on the cheek is ok but a snog would be cheating in my book.There's a lot of emotion going backwards and forwards when snogging.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.
Q. Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long...
A. 24 December 2013: He's clearly trying it on with you,i'd do my best to avoid him and keep it formal and him at arm's length like you have already.Tell your boyfriend he made you feel uncomfortable at the party.Was he like that with the other women guests?If you tell ... (read in full...)
I recently gave up my virginity and still find sex uncomfortable
Q. Hi, I’m currently in a new relationship with my boyfriend and I have lost my virginity to him. We have tried having sex twice. Every time we have sex, it feels slightly uncomfortable and very tight. My boyfriend can only manage to enter his cock ...
A. 24 December 2013: Maybe your boyfriend is not very experienced at arousing you.It is very important that you are well lubricated before penetration especially the first time it happens.The more excited you are the wetter you are.Did you ever practice with a sex toy ... (read in full...)
He loves me but crushes on her!
Q. Hi, I have a boyfriend for a few months. Before we got into the relationship, I knew about the fact that he had a crush on another girl for quite some time before he fell in love with me and decided to confess. Even now, he still has feelings ...
A. 22 December 2013: If he's still thinking about her then it's not a crush,I think he may have fallen in love with her before you met him.It's more difficult to fall out of love with the object of your affection if you've never met in reality but in his mind it'll be ... (read in full...)
Sex doesn't feel good for me, why?
Q. I have recently lost my virginity... We have had sex 3 other times since then. It does not fee; good for me whatsoever, its not really painful unless he goes deep inside but I'm curious if its normal that Im not enjoying it yet. I just feel Im too ...
A. 22 December 2013: Having sex and making love are completely different.It sounds like he's having sex with you and that's it!When you make love you get emotional fulfilment as well which is 10 times better especially if you love that person.... (read in full...)
Every girl needs a bad boy...... right?
Q. Okay so i need help, theres this boy who i like and he likes me too but people including my friends tell me that he's not a nice person and that he will ruin everything for me such as see other girls. However, when i talk to him i never see that ...
A. 22 December 2013: The bad guys can usually charm themselves into women's knickers and can make them available at their beck and call anytime when they fell like sex.You can't see that but other men can but you wouldn't believe them anyway.You'll probably fall in love ... (read in full...)
I wanted to celebrate, but he got drunk and fell asleep!
Q. It was mine and my boyfriend's second anniversary today ( the anniversary of our relationship, we aren't married ). He has Bipolar Disorder, and he sometimes drinks a lot. I was upset this morning , as I hadn't had a message from him saying happy ...
A. 22 December 2013: If he'd done that on your 20th,25th anniversary etc I would be mad but I never celebrated those early anniversaries and i'm still married 33 years later to the same woman.... (read in full...)
His ex wife wants him back!
Q. Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...
A. 22 December 2013: Looks like his wife has him dangling on the end of her string.Give him an ultimatum "you or her".She sounds a nasty piece of work to me.I don't think he'll commit to you to be honest.Find a fella with no baggage,he'll never desert his kids.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend storms out because I wasnt in the mood for sex
Q. My bf basically stormed out of my apartment because i wouldnt have sex with him. We've been together for 6 years. Some nights neither of us feel like it (bith tired from work etc) or even he doesnt. No big deal. He kept going on and on about how ...
A. 21 December 2013: Well it's your body and he should respect your feelings.6 years seems a long time for you not to have engaged by now.Maybe he does not want to commit to you.He's acting like a spoilt child for not getting his way.I don't think there's a future in ... (read in full...)
She got so drunk she can't remember hours of her night out!
Q. my girlfriend of a year and a half went out last night on bourbon street in new orleans with her brother and got black out drunk and seperated from him. said she doesn't even remember how she got back to her hotel room this morning and can't recall ...
A. 21 December 2013: I'd be more concerned about her heavy drinking.You only have to look at tv programmes here in the UK regarding weekends in our city centres.Droves of legless women puking,urinating and passing out unconscious.They can easily be taken advantage of ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he wants me for anything more than sex?
Q. I met this guy at a nightclub when all my friends were busy dancing etc. He approached me as he saw that I was on my own and I liked him so agreed to dance. I try to be subtle and genuine with people. He is currently working in the auto industry...
A. 21 December 2013: Every guy would like sex on the first meet(genetic conditioning).Get to know about him first,if he's interested in you as a person he'll wait.On the other hand you may have nothing in common and then you'll be glad you didn't have sex with him.
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I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!
Q. I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...
A. 21 December 2013: All the signs you laid out are classic signs of her having an affair.I've seen these time and time again.It could be that they've called time on their affair,the lust dies down eventually or maybe they knew someone was on to them.Was the other guy ... (read in full...)
He would rather masterbate on me than have sex with me
Q. HI There Please help me im going insane. my partner of a 1yr and I are living together, sex has never been often im lucky if I get it twice a week and it lasts about 5 minutes. In the begining I told him I was not happy about this as I have a heal...
A. 21 December 2013: What a horrible disgusting partner you have,he doesn't sound like he loves you and treats you like a piece of meat.This behaviour is not normal at all,it's the kind of thing you see in cold porn movies.Give him an ultimatum.... (read in full...)
Still sleeping with my ex but don't feel guilty for sleeping with others as well
Q. Hi- I'm currently single, but i'm still sleeping with and hanging out with my ex-boyfriend. We act very much as a couple, and still say I love you to each other, but we ended the relationship for good reasons, hence we are hesitant about rushing ...
A. 20 December 2013: It cannot be real love you feel for this bloke otherwise you would not sleep around with other men,you wouldn't want to.As Honeypie says "shit or get off the pot"... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied about going on holiday ...
Q. Hi I need a bit of help my boyfriend has recently to me he going on holiday to tenireffe with his friend. But the day he booked it he told me he was going to his sisters and it wasn't until five days later in an argument he told me where he was ...
A. 20 December 2013: Do you know his friend is a male?Blokes don't go to Teneriffe to enjoy the scenery.You should dump him asap,he's not trustworthy.... (read in full...)
My guy friend stayed in touch with me just to be close to my girl friend. I'm sick of it!
Q. So im in colg now... and u know the first guy firnd i hav ovr here was into my best friend. later me and my best frnd separated due to some misunderstandings... bt dat guy frnd and i remained close... now me and my frnd hav reconciled and now it ...
A. 18 December 2013: Well if you're not into him there's no problem.Just be careful he doesn't become obsessed with you and tries to force himself on you.... (read in full...)
I feel jealous when she talks about her random sexual encounters, why?
Q. Some how I managed to make friends with a bi sexual female, who was attracted to me at one point but now she's not interested in me. So she hooks up with random men and women (never sustaining a relationship). Then proceeds to tell me about these ...
A. 18 December 2013: Maybe you've developed feelings for her resulting in this jealousy.Forget her she's not the faithful kind and will continually bed-hop.... (read in full...)
I feel so used -- he dropped me as soon as we slept together
Q. Hello, I understand this is probably a trivial and common question, but it is really getting me down as this has never happened to me before. I met this guy and we got talking, we had a in depth conversation and he was really sweet. We changed ...
A. 18 December 2013: Some men just live for the chase and when they get the prize then it's on to the next challenge.Learn from the experience and move on.... (read in full...)
I'm disappointed my boyfriend's thoughtless Christmas gift to me!
Q. I accidentally stumbled across the Christmas gift my boyfriend got me (it was addressed to me). It was a very wide, hot pink watch with a heart-shaped face, from a mid-range brand. I'm a little confused, because we have been together for 1 year and ...
A. 18 December 2013: At least he remembered,it's the thought that counts and just remember the true meaning of Christmas.... (read in full...)
He's made a mess of things, what is the best thing for me to do?
Q. I started seeing my bf sept 2012 .in August 2013 I found him out in a lie about what he was doing due to tbis he confessed that in october 2012 he had been with this other woman on at least 4 occasions and had got her pregnant he wanted her to ...
A. 18 December 2013: This situation is of his own doing and nothing to do with you.He cheated behind your back and will now be legally and financially responsible for his offspring.Do you want that hanging over your relationship?and when he visits will he be having sex ... (read in full...)
What is she hoping for here?
Q. My wife is doing something a bit "unusual" lately in bed and I am trying to figure it out. When I am on top, she holds 2 fingers together like a penis and starts sucking and licking them. (great so far :-)) Then she pulls my face down...
A. 14 December 2013: She's obviously seen something for this to have come on suddenly.Does she watch internet clips?This is a new one for me.Has she suddenly become adventurous in other ways in the bedroom?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone and I'm scared that he might cheat on me
Q. I just found out that my boyfriend is friends with this girl who sleeps around with almost everyone !! He cheated on me before, although that was a year ago. We broke up and got back together, and now I'm afraid that he has or will do somethin...
A. 14 December 2013: If he's cheated before then his track record is not good.Keep an eye on him and if he does then show him the door.She could be an STD factory.... (read in full...)
I'm about to break up with my B/f and I feel nothing during sex..no physical or emotional connection. Does this mean that sex is all about how you feel for that person?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles. I am in the process of leaving a 3 year relationship,it been tough,and volitile,but I.m finding it a bit difficult to let go of the last bit. It.s literally on it.s last legs. My question is this. The last few times I had sex ...
A. 14 December 2013: If you don't feel like sex then you're not going to enjoy it or look forward to it.It appears the relationship has run it's course.What if you had been married?... (read in full...)
Am I no longer a virgin?
Q. Hi I am in a new relationship. Yesterday my boyfriend and I had sex, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. I didn't bleed and neither did my first time hurt. My question is my boyfriend inserted half of his cock inside me, does this mean I am n...
A. 14 December 2013: Loss of virginity is officially described as the rupturing of the hymen,which results in a bleed usually.Alot of girls have ruptured their hymens through gymnastics,physical exercise,horse riding etc and don't bleed the first time they have sex.Most ... (read in full...)
My wife just wants to party!
Q. My wife lately start party with her girlfriend mostly every weekend.when i tell her to stop her get upset with me and she dosen't want me to touch her in bed or even to have sex.Please help....
A. 13 December 2013: These are danger signals i'm afraid.I've read hundreds of letters like these and it usually means she has no feelings for you any more and is probably sleeping with someone already.You should prepare yourself for a separation at some point.Sorry.... (read in full...)
In an unhappy relationship. Should I pursue things with the other man?
Q. Looking for some advise, I've been with my partner for 23 years. 6 years ago we split up for two years, in that time I met someone else and was with them for seven months. When that finished a while after I got back with my long term partner. Thi...
A. 13 December 2013: He sounds like a bloke with a lot of women's numbers in his little black book which he calls on from time to time and gets sex with no strings attached or luggage.Why hasn't he married by now.Things can't be right between you and your long term ... (read in full...)
I discovered my boyfriend texted his ex girlfriend. Should I say something?
Q. I borrowed my boyfriend's phone to make a call and noticed in his call history a unsaved number that been texted loads but the messages had been deleted, it bugged me I said nothing to him tho and he went back to camp (he's in the army). Now th...
A. 13 December 2013: I don't think he should be texting this girl either, especially that you're now pregnant.I wonder if she reignited contact with him?You say all the messages were deleted,does he usually do this? which kind of suggests a lot of messaging has been ... (read in full...)
Our sex life is lousy and now I find he's been using a lot of porn
Q. Dear Cupid, I’m a bit messed up and confused at the moment, so I am hoping to get some answers/help. My partner and I have been together 3 years and were planning to marry next year. We had sex about twice a week when we first met, and I wa...
A. 11 December 2013: This is what internet porn does to normal sexual relationships,it makes it suffer.The person becomes desensitized to normal sex and will look to more extreme porn to satisfy their lust.... (read in full...)
Sex isn't going so well during this pregnancy
Q. Hi. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with my second baby with my partner along almost 4 years. The baby was planned and everything is going well apart from our sex life. Ever since I was about 12 week's pregnant the sex has been off and on. To begin with he ...
A. 11 December 2013: I just didn't want sex with my wife during pregnancy,i was not turned on at all but I was close to her in bed and lots of cuddling and embracing.Kids are 28 and 27 now and were still together.... (read in full...)
Why do guys ask for underwear?
Q. I slept with this guy like more than 5 times. He asked for my underwear twice and on his third ask, I decided, why not? So I gave them to him. I just want to understand this phenomena... why do guys ask for underwear? I'm curious. I just hope I ...
A. 11 December 2013: It's all to do with your pheromones dear.It turns men on sexually.It's the norm throughout the animal kingdom.... (read in full...)
He has been cheating for eight years, and I have collected the proof!
Q. Hi I've been with the same guy 8 years I've been by his side through the roughest of times i had met him while he was married he left her for me . I've done everything possible to make him happy I've never cheated I've never been attract ed to any ...
A. 8 December 2013: Leave him he's a serial cheater.... (read in full...)
Men aren't interested in dates these days, they just want to shag!
Q. What is wrong with guys these days?? I am a newly single woman on my 30s. I ve been married for many years since I was 21, and have a teenage son. I meet men often, I started going out, but I don't only meet guys in bars, but just randomly ...
A. 7 December 2013: I'm afraid it's a different world today,this was not the case about 30 years ago.I think the internet has a lot to answer for,it's all about sex sexand instant gratification. Most men don't want to woo a woman these days because there are plenty o... (read in full...)
Are there any house proud men out there?
Q. Are there any house proud men out there? My boyfriend keeps his house tidy but it's definitely not as clean as I think it should be. For example the oven and microwave have NEVER been cleaned apart from a quick wipe down so they are thick with ...
A. 7 December 2013: Well I've always been houseproud,anything to do with hygiene and eating particularly.My wife is untidy but not dirty.I keep the house clean and do the dishes,i won't let her do it.... (read in full...)
Third date and he wants me to stay over ...
Q. Dear aunties I am goibg on my third date tomorrow with a guy. First date we kissed, second date we also kissed but he said he had three pints so was not safe to drive. So I said he could stay on the sofa. Then inside he said he wanted to stay i...
A. 7 December 2013: He certainly sounds like a fast mover,i think he expects sex.If your not comfortable with it then don't do it.If he has feelings for you then he should be prepared to wait.He might sleep with you and then dump you and move to the next conquest.You ... (read in full...)
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