What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!
Q. my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...
A. 7 January 2014: Most women do not cheat but I know a lot do when they think they can get away with it.What will happen when her friend's husband gets to hear of your divorce?is he in the dark about this?Will your wife get half your money if she was at fault?... (read in full...)
I don't want to seem boring during dinner conversation with my boyfriend and his friends!
Q. hello all, tonight i'm out for a meal with my boyfriend, his friend and his friends wife - i really am worried about conversation i'm not a natterer, a huge talker, i prefer to listen. i envy girls who get a bottle of wine a talk none stop for ages...
A. 5 January 2014: I'm sure after a glass of wine or two you will open up and become chatty.I'm quiet as hell when sober but after a pint or two i'll talk about anything.most people are like that I think.... (read in full...)
I was put on hold for his friends!
Q. Should I end my relationship with my boyfriend?. He said that he would be with me on new years eve. He said we would have a meal together at his place. He also said that we would spend the whole day together. He contacted me at 11.00am that day, ...
A. 5 January 2014: He sounds as if he has as much romance in him as a housebrick.Don't waste your time with such a person,he doesn't respect you at all let alone love you.Break with him and find someone new who will treat you better.... (read in full...)
I'm going for a physical and am a little embarrassed that doctor will see I am bald "down there"!!
Q. I'm a 41 year old male. I have a Dr. appointment coming up in a few weeks for a full physical (haven't had one of those in quite awhile). I've been doing a full pubic hair shave for the last couple of months. I'm feeling a bit embarrassed that my ...
A. 3 January 2014: Many men shave themselves these days like women.Your doctor will have seen it all thousands of times before.... (read in full...)
Is this affair just a phase in my life?
Q. Hi, I'm a married woman who's been having an affair with my coworker for 8 months now. My husband and I have a fake relationship, we pretend to be happy and try to do things together for the kids sake. But as soon as we disagree on somethin...
A. 3 January 2014: It's pointless staying in an unhappy marriage,you and your husband should split up even if you do have kids.You'll find out what kind of man Joe is after you divorce.... (read in full...)
Things are great but I am bored, how can I spice things up?
Q. So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and things are great I'm just bored. I don't know what to do about this, we go out alot and it just doesnt satisfy me (to put that in the most grateful way, we go and do things together alot, sex is dull ...
A. 3 January 2014: You love him but you're not "in love" with him.If you're not happy then you should split.You sound just like friends to me.There should still be some passion there after 2 years
Can you Imagine being married to him 30 years then?... (read in full...)
I cheated on him with my ex, what should I do?
Q. I am 17 years old about 7 moths ago I slept with a guy for the first time I left him . And now there is a new guy I slept with him, Because he said it was the right thing to do we have been together for 1moth and 2 days ago I cheated when he left me ...
A. 3 January 2014: +1 auntyBimBim... (read in full...)
Why do girls lose interest?
Q. This isn't a question about a specific scenario but rather a general question in regards to romantic relationships. Because I have seen this happening to me and to some male friends often (and it is a recurrent topic here in DearCupid.com). ...
A. 3 January 2014: Women of today are different from a generation ago.They are only doing what men have done across the ages and got away with it.Women are far more empowered today and know what they want.It's not compulsory to marry, have babies be behind the kitchen ... (read in full...)
What happened in Vegas didn't stay in Vegas!
Q. my wife and i have been together for almost 3 years and have been married almost 1 year. we have had our fair share of bumps and bruises. 2 months ago, i broke a promise to her by going to a strip club with my friends on my birthday. i have been ...
A. 3 January 2014: Why do women get plastered when they go for a drink these days.Those type of men love these type of women as they are easily seduced.She gave a complete stranger oral sex without thinking of the consequences and I'm afraid she probably had full sex ... (read in full...)
Was he just trying to get laid, or did he like me?
Q. I went to a huge party at a hotel in the city last night and this guy comes up to me and my friend and asks me what my name is and if i wanna dance. I say sure and he takes my hand and says "come here". So we dance and I'm a terrible dancer and I ...
A. 2 January 2014: If he gets his way he sounds like the type that'll bed you in a short a time as possible the it was nice knowing you and on to the next conquest.Being a bartender they can easily spot a potential conquest a mile away even more so with foreign ... (read in full...)
I asked her out and she said "we'll see".what do I do now?
Q. I like this girl that works at my local convenience store. The Monday before last (23rd) I asked her if she wanted to go and see the local pantomime, expecting her to say no, but instead she said yes, but she's have to see about her shifts. S...
A. 2 January 2014: Well the ball's in her court now you've asked her and been polite with it.I'd just leave it with her now(don't push it).If she doesn't say anything to you or give any encouragement then I'd leave it at that.Some you win some you lose I'm afraid.... (read in full...)
I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm.
Q. Please excuse the graphic details!! I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm. Only ever clitoral orgasms. My boyfriend of two years says he really wants me to have one. I think he misses it and feels he can't satisfy me sexually. But I can only really ...
A. 31 December 2013: Most women can't orgasm through intercourse only without some form of clitoral stimulation.It's highly dedatable if the G-spot exists anyway.Half of so called experts say it does the other half say it does't.Maybe it's your boyfriend's technique ... (read in full...)
Was she trying to make me jealous?
Q. Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has pa...
A. 31 December 2013: When you next go drinking and she's there try chatting and get cosy to another girl present and covertly monitor her response to the situation.people who have secret feelings for one another at these events will always slyly eye one another without ... (read in full...)
I finished the job, now can I ask her out?
Q. Not so much a problem, more a dilemma. I am a single self employed tradesman of 25 with not to much confidence/luck in the lady department. I have recently been doing a bit of work for a lovelly girl who seems about the same age and from what i ...
A. 31 December 2013: I suppose you could pin a note to the invoice asking if she would like to go out for a drink with your phone number.Nothing ventured nothing gained I say.If you don't get a reply you'll know the answer.Good luck.... (read in full...)
I need to move on, how should I tell him?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4yrs, yet, he hasn't talked to me about marrige. He knows that I would like to get married and have kIds but I'm 28 he's 29, and I feel like I'm getting to that point where I need to move on. How should I bring u...
A. 31 December 2013: I was with my girlfriend 3 years and she was the one who said "are we getting engaged?" then "are we getting married then?" 12 months later.I said yes both times.Some men are like me,you'll just have to ask him straight out.It'll be a yes or no and ... (read in full...)
Was he serious or was it the booze talking?
Q. Hello agony aunts and uncles, Ok so I was out the other night with a friends and her boyfriend in the same bar as this guy we went to school with years ago. We never chatted in school but knew of each other. Anyways he was really drunk and it took ...
A. 31 December 2013: Well he sounded really drunk if he took 20 minutes to put his coat on.We all know booze gives us dutch courage and gets us to say things we wouldn't say when sober.I've seen drunks go around the pup trying to kiss all the women saying "I love you" ... (read in full...)
Now that she appears to have moved on I miss her in my life.
Q. Can someone help me understand this. I broke up with this girl about 7 months ago and I wont go into what happened and why I ended it. But it wasn't a nice break up, I ended it in a terrible way, unintentionally of course but as a result I was a j...
A. 31 December 2013: Well it sounds like there is a spark still there from her at least.You have a lot of apologising to do to her if you want her back.You never know how much you miss something until it's gone.If you feel you want her back then start grovelling.... (read in full...)
I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!
Q. on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than ...
A. 31 December 2013: I think you've done all the chasing here, I think you should drift apart permanently this time and not get back again.He's not worth it and does not appreciate you as a person.... (read in full...)
Cheater Cheater!!!
Q. My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ...
A. 31 December 2013: Unless he's a closet transvestite then this shouts cheater,cheater.Looks like another woman is supplying him with his oats.Show the receipts to someone you trust as back-up and proof in case he destroys them.... (read in full...)
Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic?
Q. Why do they have to ask extensive questions when testing for STDs at the clinic? I believe this is what puts people off going, the only question they should ask is how long since you last had unprotected sex. I also believe they should only ques...
A. 31 December 2013: You must not forget that there are STD's out there that will kill you if not treated properly.There's an epidemic of these diseases out there now and the authorities have to be on top of them and trace you're partners and get everybody treated ... (read in full...)
A stupid throw away comment may have ruined my marriage
Q. I'm 42 and my wife is 30. We've been together 5 yrs and married the last 2. We knew when we got together that due to the age gap, we'd have to compromise on expectations around the timing of kids. I didn't want to be a really old dad, and she wanted ...
A. 31 December 2013: Well her biological clock will be ticking now she's 30 and will find it much harder to get pregnant than she thinks.Men can father children until they're very old.I just wonder what happened on this training course to make her change her mind so ... (read in full...)
Why do men think that lasting forever is better?
Q. This is a question mainly for the men out there. Why do you think that lasting hours while having sex is what women want? I've noticed this with all 5 men I've been with - they seem to think that lasting for ages makes them some sort of love God or ...
A. 31 December 2013: It's probably why so many men visit prostitutes,they don't have to prolong the act,it's to get relief in a short a time as possible(after all they're paying for it).Most male animals in nature do it in the shortest time possible so why should it be ... (read in full...)
Performance anxiety help?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for sometime and I do love her, but now that we've gotten to the point in our relationship where we make love, I've gotten performance anxiety. I wasn't able to get it up 100% and I figured the condom was too tight on ...
A. 30 December 2013: The more you worry about it the more anxiety you'll experience.We've all been there as men with the first sexual encounter with someone you care about.Don't hurry your lovemaking just take your time,the actual intercourse isn't the be and end all of ... (read in full...)
I work with my ex-boyfriend's new fiancée and hearing about their perfect life together is painful for me
Q. Me and my teenage sweetheart were together for 5 years when he broke up with me by text. Although we have been apart 2 years i really miss him. To make matters worse i work with his new girlfriend on a daily basis and he has just asked her to marry...
A. 30 December 2013: Well he wasn't much of a man to break up with you by text instead of face to face.Believe me nobody has a perfect life,she's just winding you up to make you feel bad and her to be superior to you.They deserve one another,good riddance I say.Just ... (read in full...)
Was I just used for sex?
Q. Hiya i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now he was in a very unhappy relationship when we met he broke up with her but is still living with her as they have twin boys who are a year old we recently slept together for the first time we had ...
A. 30 December 2013: How can he have broken up with her if he's still living with her? I'm afraid you've been used for sex and that's it.Get away from him,there are plenty more fish in the sea.... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have an affair when your single?
Q. Is it OK to have an affair with someone when I am single? I don't know the girls boyfriend but I know they have been together for over 3 years. She has been really coming on to me recently and I know something could happen if I initiate it. ...
A. 30 December 2013: If she's coming on to you then someone should have a quiet word in her boyfriend's ear if she's thinking of cheating.It's not ok to have an affair,it all ends in tears in the end.... (read in full...)
Blocked from facebook after first meeting!
Q. The other night, I went to a bar with some friends. It's a bar where we go quite often. There is this guy who I always see there as well. He usually look at me a lot but never talk to me. It's been going on for about a year. I never really was ...
A. 30 December 2013: Most definitely sounds odd,i think he wants to hide something.Keep your distance from him.... (read in full...)
Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?
Q. I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his ...
A. 28 December 2013: Well he will be legally responsible for the baby by law and will have to financially support it whether he likes it or not.I'm sure his new girlfriend will be thrilled by this.I think he's been playing with you all these years.He sounds like a jerk ... (read in full...)
Should I buy my boyfriend of 4 months the new Playstation 4?
Q. Hi Dear Cupid, I am in a LDR with a guy I met 4 months ago. We decided to make it official October of this year. Instead of exchanging gifts during Christmas time, it was a mutual decision for us to surprise each other with them in January when ...
A. 28 December 2013: I would never buy such expensive stuff so early in a relationship,maybe after being together a year or two.You hardly know one another and what if you break up a month later.... (read in full...)
How do you know he really means it when he says he loves you?
Q. How do u know wen a guy is crazy about u and really means it wen he says he loves u? This guy has always been my crush. I've known him for a very long time like 9yrs n for once,he hasnt shown me he has interest in me until last month wen he told me ...
A. 28 December 2013: When a guy says he loves you then it usually means that you're on his mind all the time.He'll probably be dreaming about you as well and want to be with you all the time.He'll probably want to hold hands with you when walking or put his arm around ... (read in full...)
Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?
Q. Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even thoug...
A. 28 December 2013: I don't think you should desert your child,you are responsible for him/her.Why no contraception?She might feel a bit of resentment because her career is on indefinite hold at the moment.She is the one who has to look after child 24/7.If you love her ... (read in full...)
I've stopped chasing him and making myself available. Now what?
Q. I need some advice regarding my boyfriend, possibly ex. Anyway, we've been together 3 years. Up until a few months ago we'd see each other all the time but due to new work schedules we'd started seeing each other on the weekends and during the week ...
A. 28 December 2013: He said he missed you and loved you and yet made no effort to come over to you,that in itself says it all to me.You have been doing the running in this relationship and he hasn't.Unless he starts running for you now then it's better to break free.He ... (read in full...)
My husband never seems to notice hot women.....EVER!
Q. Hello, I am in my 20s and my husband is great, perfect even. He takes me out, listens to be me, we have a great sex life, we hardly fight. It's wonderful. However.... I recently began to notice that he never seems to notice young attractive...
A. 28 December 2013: You should not be concerned but quite the opposite,you should be flattered.It shows he loves you and is "in love" with you.You are his"bombshell",he doesn't want anyone else.... (read in full...)
I cant stop thinking about my neighbour...do I have a chance with her?
Q. Ok so lately I can't stop thinking about my neighbour. Her and her fiancé have lived next door to me and my parents for 2 years and I hit it off with both of them Immediately! They were nothing like the previous neighbours who were much old...
A. 27 December 2013: Well she has a fiancé who she's commited to marry,you should not be pursuing her.... (read in full...)
What should I expect on a first date?
Q. I have been a closet crossdresser for a few years. Recently I had a pro do a makeover on me and was finally able to see myself able to pass with no problem. Now that I decided to go out into the world a friend of mine set me up on a blind date with ...
A. 27 December 2013: This guy should know before you meet that you're a cross dresser.Being a blind date first impression will be everything,you'll like what you see or not.I f you like what you see then it'll be getting to know his personality via conversation over a ... (read in full...)
After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed
Q. I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...
A. 27 December 2013: I'm not surprised you're taking long to heal,to be divorced out of the blue without a word or discussion.What a complete feeble coward he was to do such a thing.I would not like to associate with such a person.Don't waste any time grieving about ... (read in full...)
Does it sound like she feels more secure in long-distance relationships?
Q. I'm 51 she is 55. The other day, sitting on her couch Very close together side by side. I looked at her and told her for the first time I loved her. Without looking at me, looking forward she said I know.... I asked if she loved me... She turn ...
A. 27 December 2013: Do you actually believe her about the other chap?She might be in a long term relationship with him or he might be a fabrication to keep you at arms length.She doesn't sound as if she wants to commit to you.You should cool it with her and keep a ... (read in full...)
Did I leave it to long? Is she not interested anymore?
Q. Ok so I met a girl right before Christmas. We got on pretty well and by the end of the evening we were kissing. We were both with groups of friends so we exchanged numbers and parted ways. Next day I texted her telling her how nice it was to meet ...
A. 27 December 2013: Don't rush it,if she has a feeling for you then i'm sure you both will "gravitate" together.Meet together with her friends again and good luck.... (read in full...)
Where is the passion?
Q. I appreciate any/all answers immensely because I'm feeling very lost. I have been dating a man for nearly 3 years now (I'm 22 years old) and he is a great individual..he is kind, affectionate, understanding, loving, intelligent, supportive, has a gr...
A. 27 December 2013: You love your boyfriend but your not "in love" with him as I see it.You've been together and you're now acting like brother and sister.You'd be wanting him passionately if you were "in love".He might be a good decent person but i'm sensing he's not ... (read in full...)
I drove him to the airport, so why isnt he texting how he is away?
Q. My bf left for vacation to see his fam n hasnt txted me or anything. I tried texting him bt he doesnt reply. I know he is with his fam n his enjoying his time, bt just texting to know how I am is not much. Afterall, I was the one who volunteered to ...
A. 26 December 2013: Strange he hasn't texted you to even thank you for the lift or if he arrived safely.When he comes back who is going to collect him? I presume he'll text you then.This is rather selfish of him i'd say.Still it's early days 3 months.Don't be doing all ... (read in full...)
Not sure if he likes me, or not, after he avoided me. Have I ruined my chances with him?
Q. I thought a shy friend of mine liked me, and i think I am starting to develop feelings for him too, but i think I ruined my chance to form a relationship with him. The only reason why i think he likes me is because of our mutual friend's teasing...
A. 26 December 2013: I think we had an almost identical letter like this last week.The only way you'll find out for sure where you stand is to strike up a conversation with him.Try and find out what you have in common from your friends maybe,music,hobbies etc.It's ... (read in full...)
She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?
Q. I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her g...
A. 25 December 2013: I would not try to find her unless she finds you or makes a point of sitting next to you on a next journey and hope the other bloke is not there(maybe he'll try and find you).It's disgusting people can behave like that these days and scary.... (read in full...)
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