My boyfriend lied and cheated for over a year and got another woman pregnant. Should I dump him?
Q. Should I dump my boyfriend he has fathered a child with another woman and lied and deceived me for nearly a year he was having sex with both ov us but I had no idea he was cheating neither did the other girl know about me. He told me cause I caught ...
A. 20 November 2013: If he says he loves you then why cheat?He's been having his cake and eating it.Dump him.He will have a child to look after now.... (read in full...)
We've been tested but my boyfriend doesn't want to use condoms and it worries me!
Q. Hi,I'm a 23yr old female n my boyfriend is 26,we decided to go for an HIV test before we can ingage in sex n the results came back negative,we've been having unprotected sex ever since because even when I suggest we use a condom he tells me he ...
A. 15 November 2013: Are you afraid he's cheating on you?He should respect your wishes,it's your body.Was he tested for all the other STI's?... (read in full...)
I don't understand why I have no sexual desire for him at the moment
Q. hello, me and my current boyfriend have been together 4 years, last year we lived apart for the year but still met up and saw each other when we could. (we lived apart for this time because he needed some space and time to see if he wanted to b...
A. 15 November 2013: Do you masterbate when you're by yourself?Do you fantasize about anyone else?You can love someone and not be in love with that person. Maybe you're not destined to be together and yet you've been together 4 years.Maybe you should seek professional ... (read in full...)
Does it make any sense to forgive him and try to move on together?
Q. I have posted here before..I really need my awesome aunt and uncles help again. My boyfriend and I just got back together. We were split up for two months. We split up because one day he just wouldnt return my calls or texts. 4 days go by, I delete ...
A. 15 November 2013: He was the one who was dumped by the other woman.He's spinning you a pack of lies,he does not love you,tell him to get lost.... (read in full...)
His track record of one-night-stands really showed when we finally got intimate
Q. Hi aunts, Some advice would be great! Around 8 months ago I walked away from my 4 year relationship after not being happy for a long time. It was the right decision for myself and the relationship I feel. Around 5 months ago I met anoth...
A. 15 November 2013: It's probably about the chase and getting his prize for him and time to move on to the next one for him.I don't think his previous partners are keen on a second date.Sounds like you've all been used just for the sex albeit unfulfilling for the ... (read in full...)
How can anyone up and leave their kids?
Q. Why would a man or a woman walk away from their kids? I am a little upset right now. I am settled in a relationship and happy. I have two wonderful kids from a pervious relationship. My ex texted me before and said that he can't stand me, ...
A. 4 November 2013: Make sure you inform the child support agency,he has legal responsibilities for his children.This kind of thing happens all too often in the UK now.We have a useless government too preoccupied with the criminal's human rights.I sympathise with ... (read in full...)
I feel so inferior when I hear the word "porn"
Q. I have a fear of porn, whenever I hear the word I immediately think of better looking women who are good at sex and it makes feel small. I've always had problems, my first boyfriend was a porn addict ever since then I always had it in mind that ...
A. 4 November 2013: The majority of people in society are like you.The people who post porn on the internet are the minority,totally without moral principles.The best sex and the most fulfilling is between two couples who love one another.There's no love at all in ... (read in full...)
My friends girlfriend is cheating on him... Do I tell him?
Q. This is a bit of a strange one. And to some it might sound bad on my part. I want to try to set the scene so everyone has a better understanding. A few years ago my next door neighbour moved in with his girlfriend. We both stay in semi detach...
A. 4 November 2013: Well he's already told you things are not good between him and his girlfriend.I think you should tell him what you actually saw when you next meet.I would hope someone would tell me as well if I was in the same situation.... (read in full...)
Married but in love with another
Q. I got married 3 yrs ago, but fell in love with someone else. I don't want to hurt my wife, but can't help thinking about the other women. I know the other women also loves me, and will wait an eternity for me. My wife is 20 yrs younger than me, but ...
A. 3 November 2013: Sounds like a recipe for a disaster.Why did you get married in the first place then?It already sounds like a loveless marriage.You need to have a heart to heart with your wife to see if the marriage can be saved .The other woman might become the ... (read in full...)
Why Do I Constantly Want To Have Sex! Please Help
Q. To make a long story short. Im 19 years of age and im in college and i know it's natural for males to sometimes glance at a females ass and such, i do that sometimes when i see these college junior girls. I get boners in awkward times. like when...
A. 3 November 2013: You're 19 and your testosterone is raging.I'm glad i'm not a 19 year old of today.Back in my day women were covered up and sexual activity outside marriage was frowned upon.It's normal for today's society.... (read in full...)
How can I remain strong once my lying cheating ex begins his apologetic stage?
Q. Hello and thanks I just broke up with my bf yesterday and I'm feeling saddened that it had to come to this. We were together on and off for 3 yrs. We had issues yrs ago when I caught him cheating with two different women online one woman was hi...
A. 3 November 2013: You did the right thing in dumping him.He sounds the abusive type and has cheating "form".You're better off without him.... (read in full...)
We've been having NSA sex and I'm confused
Q. Female, 17. Soooo...there's this guy and we've been having sex on and off (no strings attached) for about a year and some change. I know he's having sex with other people...and I'm not. It kind of makes me jealous that he can just go around having ...
A. 3 November 2013: Jealousy is a sign you're developing emotional feelings for him.It's just sex for him,he's sowing his oats with as many different girls as he can.He's not for you,move on.... (read in full...)
Do I have feelings for him or is it just sexual?
Q. hi I met this guy twice and I have never felt this way about anyone. we met at a convention last year and not the best of first impressions I was extremely attracted to him and slightly drunk. my first words your stunning and that's how it started ! ...
A. 3 November 2013: Sounds like you're "in lust " with him and not "in love".... (read in full...)
Is dripping in sweat normal when you both have sex together??
Q. My boyfriend and I are dripping in sweat when we have sex together. I mean, it is as if somebody sprayed a hose on both of us. Dripping wet in tons and tons of sweat!! Lol Is this NORMAL at all? And... we usually fog up all the windows ...
A. 3 November 2013: I suppose it's how physically active you are,the ambient temperature of the room,the length of time etc.Are you both physically fit? I hardly sweat but my wife does.If you both feel ok afterwards then it's ok.... (read in full...)
Does this mean she wants a threesome?
Q. Hey guys and gals I am new here and just have a question about my sex life with my girlfriend I was wondering I can get your thoughts on. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 years now. Shes the mother of my two kids 4 and 7 months. Been through...
A. 3 November 2013: You obviously don't love your girlfriend to be even suggesting this.Doesn't bode well for your future together.Poor woman I just despair.... (read in full...)
He has made me so angry! How can I make myself calm down?
Q. I am so angry and don't know were to begin with this....I will explain as best I can so please be patient... my boyfriend has an ex wife and two kids of 15 and 17. I am finding it hard to trust him lately as he keeps going out for hours and I get ...
A. 3 November 2013: Looks like you're "ex" boyfriend had a lot of luggage.Why did they divorce in the first place? He sounds a lot older than you.Who babysits a 17 year old?You're better off without him,calm down and learn from the experience.There's plenty more fish ... (read in full...)
He won't help clean our apartment!
Q. Okay everyone. I need some help! My boyfriend and I fight a lot because he will not help me our apartment clean. Right now it is so gross. Dishes everywhere, clothes and trash in the floor. Food all over the counters in the kitchen. I stopped ...
A. 3 November 2013: Household chores should really be 50/50 these days.There should be no stigma for a man to hoover or wash the dishes these days.I do it and have done it since I married my wife 33 years ago.I'm assuming you don't invite friends around for drinks and ... (read in full...)
Should you reveal what you did in the past?
Q. What does everyone think about revealing a shameful episode of cheating on a previous partner to a future partner? If cheating took place in a long , supposedly committed relationship, and went on for a few months then is this something that n...
A. 3 November 2013: You should not reveal what you did in the past to a future partner otherwise you're informing him you have "form" when it comes to infidelity.You will plant a seed of doubt in his mind and you won't be trusted fully.... (read in full...)
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