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She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?

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Question - (24 December 2013) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2013)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times.

So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train.

She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her glance.

The thing is that when I smiled at her two or three times, she did not smile back, but she still kept on stealing looks at me. Even when I was leaving the train.

I am not sure if this has anything to do with it, but maybe she was creeped out with the about 40 year old guy sitting next to her rubbing his privates through his trousers(and more strange-he staring at me wtf!).

Jusr wondering if you think she was interested and should I try to find her again

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A male reader, M Proops United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2013):

I would not try to find her unless she finds you or makes a point of sitting next to you on a next journey and hope the other bloke is not there(maybe he'll try and find you).It's disgusting people can behave like that these days and scary.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2013):

Op here. I am almost certain that prior to this train ride, she has never noticed me. I have only previously seen her from a distance once or twice.

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A female reader, 123Peterpan United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2013):

I hate to say this, but I HATE BEING APPROACHED in the train. Unfortunately you guys seeing each other has happened one to many times and she may start to think you're stalking her!

As for the guys next to her, well that comment made my day. Although he several glances seemed quite flirty, the fact that she didn't return your smile suggests that she's not interested and you should stop looking at her.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (24 December 2013):

Maybe they were looking at something behind you.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia +, writes (24 December 2013):

Aunty BimBim agony auntIf you somehow 'managed' to sit almost opposite her she might have been looking at you to memorise your face when she reported the guy that has been stalking her on the underground.

Next time, instead of just sitting there waiting to see if she will look at you or not try some old fashioned conversations, "hi, its packed tonight isn't it", don't ask which stop she gets off or where she works (YET) because if she does think you are stalking her that will only confirm her suspicions,

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