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30-35,
*sh-dil-se
writes:So im in colg now... and u know the first guy firnd i hav ovr here was into my best friend. later me and my best frnd separated due to some misunderstandings... bt dat guy frnd and i remained close... now me and my frnd hav reconciled and now it seems as if the sole purpose of him being with me was her... i mean he asked me to tutor him aftr class and later he asked my frnd to teach him... he dint evn tell me once. wenevr we make plans to go anywere... he's like... pls bring her too... he even cancelled a movie plan we had... because she wasnt coming... of course he made up excuses later fr it... i m sick and tired of this... i dont know what to do... my frnd knws he likes her bt she is neutral... what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2013): The only reason this is happening is because you're letting it. If you don't want to feel so "sick and tired" then stop making plans with him and tell him to man up and ask your friend out. Especially since you aren't into him. If it doesn't work out, then okay, maybe you guys can hang out without him trying to get to her. If it does, then I suggest you try to cope with it and find more than two friends that you can hang out with.
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (18 December 2013):
Well if you're not into him there's no problem.Just be careful he doesn't become obsessed with you and tries to force himself on you.
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reader, Ash-dil-se +, writes (18 December 2013):
Ash-dil-se is verified as being by the original poster of the questionumm... i dont think so... i really like him... and he flirts with me... bt i dont think im into him
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2013): Are you into your guy friend?
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