Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 30 August 2008: Abbysmom. You have a great point. This is exactly why he becomes upset. Thing is he is asking me please love me. Please be with me. Why don't you want to be with me? Why did you like me before but now you don't seem interested?
That is why we talk... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 30 August 2008: Abbysmom. You have a great point. This is exactly why he becomes upset. Thing is he is asking me please love me. Please be with me. Why don't you want to be with me? Why did you like me before but now you don't seem interested? That is why we talke... (read in full...)
Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?
Q. Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...
A. 29 August 2008: Ah yes. Thank you. I knew I would get some great feed back. Thanks a million times. I know that not everyone is this way. Not every mother does this to their sons. I know there is a very self sufficient...mentally stable man awaiting my presence... (read in full...)
I'm a young guy with sexual problems. My girlfriend is getting frustrated. How do I fix this
Q. I've been having sexual problems lately. I've been with this woman for 4 years and never had anything like this happen, but for the past two or three months or so I've been going soft during sex and sometimes we have to stop altogether because I ...
A. 20 August 2008: Hi. I have had this happen between me and my boyfriend for 3 years now. Its very discouraging for both people. I know. I don't know what will work for you. You need to talk to your doctor because if its physical it can be fixed. Don't delay. The ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for interfering with my bothers treatment of his son (my nephew)?
Q. I have a question relating to family matters. I always get such good advise from everyone here so I trust that I will be led in the right direction on this question. My brother. He is 2 years younger than I. He has 4 kids. 3 girls and one bo...
A. 18 August 2008: Here is an update. I got my nephew took him out for a ride. We talked. I let him know that my brother loves him dearly but that his father is under a ton of stress and this is new to him. His other children are under 5 and my nephew is a pre teen. I ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for interfering with my bothers treatment of his son (my nephew)?
Q. I have a question relating to family matters. I always get such good advise from everyone here so I trust that I will be led in the right direction on this question. My brother. He is 2 years younger than I. He has 4 kids. 3 girls and one bo...
A. 18 August 2008: Great advise. Thank you so much. I needed to hear encouraging words before I go into battle for my nephew.
Family dynamics goes this way. Me and my brother have different fathers. Same mom. My step father (his dad) addopted me at age 4 so we have... (read in full...)
Is he covering up a 'want' to cheat?
Q. Recently, my fiance and me went to his bestfriends moms house to swim. My fiance finally got in the pool and started dunking his bestfriends mom. She was wrapping her legs around him as if he was picking her up underwater. Their privates were so ...
A. 16 August 2008: Hi. Everyone agrees with you. That is weird that his friends mom was totally fine with him handling her that way. They probably have had sex already. Just break it off.
Don't question your feelings. If something makes you feel uncomfortably then... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss for words, what's going on? Is he not happy anymore?
Q. Before I met my husband he had two children.we've been together for nine yrs and married for six yrs.I am pregnant with our third child my husband told me that if I have this baby it will make our relationship bad. he told me the way we intrepid ...
A. 16 August 2008: Please get away from this guy. He is abusing you. Your mental state will deteriorate fast if you stay there. Especially being pregnant. Your relationship has gone bad and no child can do that. He did it. Please don't let him torment you this way. He ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared that I have lost all my family. What can I do?
Q. well to make it short im 17 and my dad left when i was nine my mum was great through it all but after 3 months of her and my dad spliting up she got pregnant with twins well me and my dad didnt speak for 6 years and i have just become in contac...
A. 16 August 2008: I agree with jen86. You should talk to a counelor. They really help. Your parents won't talk about it because they feel guilty. When Parents feel guilty they know how to turn it back on you and end the conversation. In the mean time you should w... (read in full...)
Sex is great but I can't 'go' - Help?!
Q. Me and my partner sexual realationship is Active!I can't 'go' at all but tho it is great sex, what should i do? And could you still become pregnant in way its just him that 'goes'?...
A. 6 August 2008: If you refer to cum or ejaculation when you say goes then yes you can get pregnant if he is the only one going. You don't have to cum to get pregnant. And you are just too young to know what your body likes and what it takes to make you cum. ... (read in full...)
After we had sex last night, there was alot of blood, and quite frankly, I'm terrified!
Q. I'm not sure how to put this, but it's weighing on my mind a lot. I had sex with my boyfriend last night, and when we were finished, I looked down, and I was bleeding from my vagina. Not even just a little, a LOT. And it didn't look like mens...
A. 6 August 2008: Did you just get over your menstrual cycle? I have no idea why this happens and if it even relates to you but the first advise I can give is to see a doctor ASAP because bleeding is not good.
Anyways. When I get over having my period and I have... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 5 August 2008: Everyone is right. You could regret this for ever. So many bad things can come from underage sex. You just don't know them all yet because you are underage. Its best to wait. Wait a few more year to when you know more. So you can protect yourself. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pleases me for hours, but I still don't cum.
Q. I have a little bit of a problem. My boyfriend and I have a great time when we are in the bed room. Although, he can give me oral for hours or rub me and it never gets me off. What can I do to fix my issue?...
A. 2 August 2008: Are you really attracted to him? I would think maybe you need to be more attracted to the person before you can really enjoy this. I agree with the last reply. You shouldn't think about how your not coming and just relax and think about nothing and ... (read in full...)
Miserable with my husband, should I have an affair?
Q. I am thinking of having an affair out of frustration and low self-esteem. My husband and I have not had any sexual encounters for eight years because he feels I am too aggressive and direct in general. He views me as a huge source of pressure and ...
A. 2 August 2008: Hi. I know people that are in yours and your husbands situation. Its so unhealthy for both of you. If your not happy you two really need to break it off and if you don't want to get a divorce then why don't you guys just split up for a little while. ... (read in full...)
How does chlamydia happen in a monogamous relationship?
Q. Hello, I have a very weird question. I have been with my man for a few years, in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I got a checkup a while back, and they said I had chlamydia. They also said that chlamydia can only be spread through ...
A. 1 August 2008: I am no doctor and so I can't say for surep0i wouldn't think you can just develope a std on your own or it wouldn't be called a sexually transmitted disease. Right? I think just some logical thinking can answer that question. But you never really ... (read in full...)
Another ten with an Am I Pregnant question?
Q. I'm 16 and I think I may be pregnant. My last period started on June 22, 2008. I had unprotected sex on July 5th, 2008.it is july 30th and I still have not got my period. A few days after we had sex I had blood spotting but only for a day or 2.now I ...
A. 31 July 2008: You could be on a 5 week cycle rather than a 4 week one. Don't panic. Get another test. Take 2 just to be sure. Your young so maybe your body just isn't really settled into a routine just yet. How about protected sex? Its no fun to be a young pa... (read in full...)
Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....
Q. So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...
A. 30 July 2008: Ok. I was right. Internet internet internet. Don't meet guys online. Holy cow! Do you know how dangerous that is? Well. You are lucky you didn't get introduced to his little friend that showed up while you were on top of him. I guess you can sleep ... (read in full...)
Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....
Q. So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...
A. 30 July 2008: I need to ask a few questions. Did you just meet him? It sounds like maybe you met him from the internet and went to see him for the first time. Is that it?
I would be very cautious if you just met him and he bought you a diamond ring. Answer thos... (read in full...)
I don't regularly have washes and I'm worried about how I would smell to a boyfriend.
Q. hi. this is embarrasing. but i dont regually have washes. once every two months if im lucky. and im worried if i get a boyfriend my area down below wont smell too good. if i start washing now everyday will it smell good if he was ever to go down ...
A. 25 July 2008: Hi. I have a question for you. Why don't you have a wash regularly? Everyday is best but at least once a week would be the longest you should go. Its just not healthy to not clean your self often. Especially if your are having your period. Now to... (read in full...)
How can I be a good mother to my daughter?
Q. Well now. I have a question for parents. I ask for parents because its easier said than done. I can give the best parenting advise but can't seem to perform. I am the only parental figure my daughter has now or has had her whole life. My main ...
A. 15 July 2008: Wow. Great I'm so excited to read all of these tips. I get the main points and that's stay strong. Don't get involved in an argument. No is no and that moment is not time to discuss it. God if I only thought to do this years ago. I mean she will ask ... (read in full...)
How can I be a good mother to my daughter?
Q. Well now. I have a question for parents. I ask for parents because its easier said than done. I can give the best parenting advise but can't seem to perform. I am the only parental figure my daughter has now or has had her whole life. My main ...
A. 15 July 2008: I re-read my entry and realized that we are not all from the same country and may not use the same slang words to describe things. I need to clear up the part about everyday being a fight a battle. I don't mean physical fights. We have never hit ... (read in full...)
How can I be a good mother to my daughter?
Q. Well now. I have a question for parents. I ask for parents because its easier said than done. I can give the best parenting advise but can't seem to perform. I am the only parental figure my daughter has now or has had her whole life. My main ...
A. 15 July 2008: Thank you so much for answering. I really do feel better. I thought I was loosing it but I hear that all parents have to be parents and not so much friends. I will take your advise everyone of you. I need all the luck I can get and so thanks for ... (read in full...)
I want a baby but his penis does not go inside my vagina, why?
Q. it has been one year of our marriage but still i m not getting pregnant.me and husband have sex twice or thrice in a week without taking any precautions. we love each other madly. we do our best to get pleasure but we dont know that why his penis ...
A. 10 July 2008: So confused does he put his penis inside you at all? Or do you mean he isn't ejaculating inside you? I'm very confused. Very lost. You would know if its inside you and how can he not get there? Its simple. The only way your going to be pregnant is ... (read in full...)
We need some advice on anal sex
Q. Hello everyone! This is somewhat embarrasing to ask (I try to keep my sexual life private), but I've been wanting to know how to do this for a while. Well, me and my boyfriend have decided to have anal sex but even after searching about it I still...
A. 10 July 2008: Gecko12. How do you know it hurts in the morning? Haha. I have done it a few times and never hurt in the morning. It hurts the first few times I guess until you get usto it. I had it with a guy that was extreemly huge. Very thick. I was very turned ... (read in full...)
I need to tell my girlfriend I'm gay.
Q. Hello there, I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and love her dearly but not in a sexual way. Since i was about 12 i never had a sexual feeling towards girl. I've only ever see men attractive. After 8 years have decided to co...
A. 9 July 2008: Hi. I think you are a better person for telling her the truth. It is wrong to lead someone on as you have but life is all about learning and growing so you have grown and realized you can not hide this or hide from this anymore. That's a great ... (read in full...)
17 weeks pregnant and we are over the moon! But I don't want to make love any more...but we are having big arguments over this...
Q. i am 17 weeks pregnant with my firt baby and me and my partner are over the moon ablout it, the only thing is i dont want to make love any more,its not that i dont love my partner because i do very much, but were starting to have really big ...
A. 21 June 2008: Is it that your afraid to do it because there is a baby in there? Or you just don't want to do it?
If your afraid don't be. Nothing to worry about and your just 17 weeks prego and there are a lot more weeks to go. He will be dying or long gone befo... (read in full...)
She gave me a blowjob and I didn't feel it - it something wrong?
Q. I got a blow job recently. The problem is that i didn't feel it when my girlfriend was sucking on it. IS something wrong!?...
A. 20 June 2008: Was she really going on it? If she was and you still didn't feel it maybe she used a numbing agent to aid in her gag reflex and she used too much and numbed up your dick. Could happen. She could have been way to imbaressed of using it or wanted to ... (read in full...)
The thought of my ex having sex with her new BF is awful, how can I get over it?
Q. Hi The thought of my ex having sex with her new B\F is killing me. Is this normal? How do i get this out of my head? thanks...
A. 20 June 2008: When me and my daughters father were splitting up we decided to have sex still and told each other that we wouldn't tell the other one when we found someone else we would just stop having sex.
One night he came over and we had such romantic time... (read in full...)
Am I nuts for staying with this little boy for security?
Q. Ok. Here is my deal now. I have a 12 year old and her father and me usto fight like crazy when she was little so we broke up. I didn't date seriously for 7 seven years. I finally let someone love me and this kid is a bastard. My daughter has alre...
A. 19 June 2008: Thank you Daniel. I have thought and dreamed about how it would be with an older man. He would know what to say when to say it. His ego would be tamed enough to think of my feelings before saying something. He would be great with my daughter as a ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a bad person?
Q. hey, this is kinda an oqurid topic for me. ok here it goes... i have alot of guy friends and we all hang out alot, well one day we were hangin out and i said "im really bored" and being my guy friends they all said something dirty....but one or t...
A. 19 June 2008: Your hormones are going nuts at This age. You should show some self control though. It may be fun and help pass the time as well as make these guys like you even more but there are a list of bad things that will come from doing what you are doing. ... (read in full...)
I love him, but do his flaws make me want to leave him?
Q. I have been dating a guy for over 3 1/2 years. I love him so much, but there are quite a few things that I'm not ok with. I need to know if I should just ignore his "flaws" and be ok with them because it's normal, or should I move on because he's ...
A. 15 June 2008: There is nothing hotter than a man that can do for him self. It makes us feel more secure to know that the man we are going to spend the rest of our lives with can keep things going when we can't.
I would contemplate this relationship. He may not ... (read in full...)
That disappointed look on her beautiful face when she is not satisfied in bed... discourages me even more!? Help!
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for almost two years now, and i plan to marry her soon. everything seems to be going well except for one thing. our sex life. we are both 17 and have been tring everything to make sex work but something always goes ...
A. 15 June 2008: Your question helped me so much. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. At first the same stuff would happen. He would go limp or not get it up at all. I have a great sexual apitite. I have always been very good at it. I give awesome oral and ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with my boyfriend and his sexual carry-on!
Q. I'm fed up with my boyfriend and his sexual carry-on. We've been living together for almost a year and have sex only once every two months. To make matters worse, he is absolutely obsessed with porn. Every day after he comes home from work he spends ...
A. 13 June 2008: Hey. Ill tell you I found the same stuff going on with my boyfriend and my best friend has the same issues with her boyfriend. I remember growing up knowing a man wants a woman and will want it more than once a day. He lived to feel his womans skin ... (read in full...)
I am very young and want to have sex with my boyfriend but I hear is nasty and painful the first time... what to do?
Q. i am young and i want to have sex with my boyfriends because i want to and he really wants to. Only i hear it is really painful and nasty the first time. I really need helpon what to do...
A. 11 June 2008: I will tell you what I told my daughter. She is your age. 12.
I am glad your asking advise before you go and do anything.
Besides the hurt and emotion you will feel you must remember that one day when you get older you will want a wonderful ma... (read in full...)
Are there treatments to help me thicken my hair?
Q. Hello, this is rather embarrassing... I'm a young female, and as far as I can remember, I've had a little quantity of hair. My hair is shiny and healthy, it isn't brittle or frizzy, it's shiny a bit thin though, but it still looks nice. However...
A. 9 June 2008: Hi. I know there are some options. First off I don't know what color your hair is but blonde is best when your hair is thin. Also if you can get away with it try double processed blonde. Its very blonde but when your hair is processed the hair ... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 9 June 2008: It is a viberating cock ring with a thing on the top that hits the girls u know what uphon deep thrusting. Its cool. Really cool. Wasn't anything too kinky. ... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 8 June 2008: Haha. Nothing on TV tonight. I got my fun. He liked it more than I did. Figures. Just made me think. I sure did make a mountain out of a mole hill. I believe I have issues with rejection. So lastnight wasn't the right night but tonight was ... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 7 June 2008: You guys are all so awesome. I am so happy I got great advise.
I guess I could have approached it differently.
Maybe if I wanted it so bad I should have just took it.
... (read in full...)
Men, what would you do if your partner came home with a sex toy?
Q. So I want to take a poll even if I only get a few answers its ok. The question. The senario. Just home from the local porn store. Just bought a new toy. One that is pleasurable for both individuals. This question is basically for men. Women you c...
A. 7 June 2008: Thanks for your quick answer. We had one of these things before and he loved it. He even tried it on while watching TV. And soft. I was sure he was going to start something but then he put it back in the package and said oh cool the simpsons are on. ... (read in full...)
He likes kinky stuff--I'm not into that! What should I do?
Q. Hello I am dating a 25 year old man. Sometimes we have great sex but more than the great sex its bad. He will get aroused at first but when we ingage in intercorse he loses it and sometimes he looks akward and laughs. He does masterbate a lot and ...
A. 5 June 2007: Thanks for writing... (read in full...)
He likes kinky stuff--I'm not into that! What should I do?
Q. Hello I am dating a 25 year old man. Sometimes we have great sex but more than the great sex its bad. He will get aroused at first but when we ingage in intercorse he loses it and sometimes he looks akward and laughs. He does masterbate a lot and ...
A. 5 June 2007: I will try to make him happy I put the cuffs on him and give him a few good smacks to the face and get into it tease him and he seems ready to go but when I get on for the ride he loses it. Even if I try just giving him oral or hand love he loses ... (read in full...)
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