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writes:Dear cupid,well ok here goes nothing i really like this guy but my parents dont they think i can do better but i dont like nobody else he is all i think of and i dont really think he likes me but he aint afraid to be around me at night when nobody is around what do i do please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 every girl passes threw this fase ...be careful maybe he just want u for sex always keep your eyes wide open to whatever happenes ..why does he come late at night? maybe he just wants sex so meet in a public place where people can help if something bad happens(hope that would never happen)..but if he is very old for you then end it .. if u don't feel safe with that person then u have to listen to your parents because they want what is best for you.... goood luck
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (24 October 2007):
 My parents used to be the same way and it drove me nuts. I remember this one older guy that I was crazy about when I was 16. You know the type, they drive up to your house and honk and expect you to bop out and jump into the car, so they can avoid the whole 'meet the parents' nightmare. Yeah, that relationship lasted a whopping 3 months, in the meantime I gave him my virginity, and my heart and when I went on vacation with my parents he started seeing another girl from my school. Turns out my parents were a pretty good judge of character and I wasn't. I thought they were just being "square" because he didn't walk up to the door and ring the bell and come inside for their inspection. Nope. It was more like, he didn't want to meet a girls parents, so he would later feel guilty when he had to face them, knowing he'd treated their daughter like shit and cheated on her. Damn, I should'a seen that coming, but I was too busy with my head in the clouds, being 'in love' and all. So I learned two things that summer: Number one, if my parents don't like him, I should think about what they see in him, that I don't, instead of dismissing it like they're out to kill my good time (they're not, believe me). Number two, a guy who only comes around when nobody else is there, probably does not want a 'relationship' with you, he just wants sex. And you're gonna end up with a broken heart. So if you're dead set on this guy being 'the one' invite him over for dinner some night, let him come in and meet your folks, and maybe he'll be able to get to know them, and they'll get to know him and they'll feel better about him. Or at the very least, you'll figure out what he's made of when he refuses your offer for dinner and you realize he only wants you for sex and you'll be able to cut him loose and move on. Good luck Sweetie!
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