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Help! Theres another girl "sniffing" around my guy..what should I do about it?

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Question - (13 November 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I've had a long string of bad relationships but this time ive found a really nice guy. Only problem is theres another girl "sniffing" around. She knows full well he has a girlfriend yet she still persists to post flirty messages on his facebook, even though this is blatently in my face i can deal with that but she's started texting him, she text him at 4 o clock this morning and when i asked him about it he was shifty. Also i went away this weekend and when i came back he was acting too nice automatically i assumed him 2 b guilty. Am i just paranoid because of my past relationships? Or should i talk to him about this girl?

Help!

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A female reader, lilgirly Lebanon +, writes (13 November 2007):

lilgirly agony aunthey,

you have to talk to him first!and tell him how you feel, and if he is a nice guy likfe you have described i think he would talk to you and not run away...

if he is guilty on the other hand, you will know it by his actions!

you have to talk to him before it is too late.and if he did anything bad ,i think that no one wanna be with a cheater. good luck !byeXXX

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A female reader, whiteshadow United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2007):

whiteshadow agony auntPlease talk to him before its too late! if he gets reallyd efensive then it shows hes guilty. if he loves you enough he would talk about it :)

good luck x

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A female reader, girlwhoneedshelp United Kingdom +, writes (13 November 2007):

girlwhoneedshelp agony auntI think you should definitely talk to him about this girl! I would kill my boyfriend if he was waking me up in the middle of the night by receiving flirty texts from another girl! If he can't stop her sending these messages and texts himself then you should definitely step in and tell her to back off. Either way you should trust your man but if you feel you can't because he was acting guilty then you need to really talk to him and see if he is having anything to do with these flirty messages. What is he doing to receive such comments? It can't all be one sided. Just talk to your man.

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