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I feel we've grown apart - should I leave my husband?
Q. I Love my Husband but am not In love with him. I have been with my husband for 18 years ( he was my first relationship), until recently i thought we had the perfect marriage 2 children , nice home etc. Then i met someone at work who i am very att...
A. 16 November 2006: Part od the problem is you've only recently told him how you feel. So for nearly 18 years he thought everything was fine, so how do you expect him to change so fast, and without warning. Are you willing to try and fix it? If you are bored tell him ... (read in full...)
My friend and her bf broke up. Him and I love each other but don't want to hurt her! What should I do?
Q. my friend was with her boyfriend for just under a year and in this time me and him became attracted to each other although we didnt do anything about it.Once they broke up he started phoning me and we became really close he told me he loves me and i ...
A. 15 November 2006: I agree its a bad move. What do you mean they still have something going on? He's having his cake and eating it too. Look sweetie, I know its possible to fall in love and be happy even if its not completely apporved by all but the fact is any ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't love me anymore, but I don't think that's completely true. I'm so confused! Plese help!
Q. i recently fell in love for the first time with my boyfriend. who in my eyes is the most perfect person ive ever found.but then he finished me a few weeks ago.and i am heartbroken,he wont talk to me face to face even to get his stuff.he still ha...
A. 15 November 2006: Well firstly you might have to face the fact that he may have not gotten around to deleting those things, I remember after a break up a few years back i completely forgot about this one accounnt i had and my ex thought i was keeping it up b/c i ... (read in full...)
Should I have disregarded my friends and family's advice on dumping my BF?
Q. I always thought that my relationship with my man was a bad one because it wasn't perfect. Since then I've looked at other people's relationships of people my age, and I've realised that every relationship has it's faults. My man lied and exadurat...
A. 15 November 2006: Some people are in our lives temporarily to teach us things... that doesn't always mean they are good to keep around. In the course of 4 months he cheated and put himself first... just take what you can from that experience and move on. ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my partner for a younger man who makes me feel happy?
Q. i am 44 years old and i have a partner that is 47 we have been together for 15 months this time , but i have a secret addmirer who is 10 years younger than me that i know would make me happy as when he calls or texts me i feel very happy inside in ...
A. 14 November 2006: I think Irish is spot on with this one. You don't know this secret admirer, and not to mention only know the good side of this person, get to know him... and if your unhappy with your current relationship leave it but not to jump into another one! ... (read in full...)
It hurts to masturbate - any tips?
Q. hi i would like to try to masturbate but every time i try it really hurts and im not sure why, i would really like to try it, all my mates have and they said it felt great and that i should try. i tried to slip my finger into my vagina and it re...
A. 14 November 2006: I think a vibrator would be better for you. If you are a virgin you most likely will want a small one that is mainly for stimulating the clitoris. Also make sure your nails are trimmed if you still plan on using your finger. Sex shops and places ... (read in full...)
I don't want to stay a virgin for too long! Any advice?
Q. hi i'm a virgin and dont have much luck with girls and am woried that if a wait too long it will be awkward as my partner would most likely have alot more experience in the bedroom than me and i would feel lost any advice is welcome thanks ...
A. 13 November 2006: Ive had sex with men who have had sexual partners before and I have had sex with Virgins... and I must say the guy who was a virgin was great in bed. Obviously the frist time he was a little scared but it was special. The guys with the most sexual ... (read in full...)
She's coming onto me in front of her bf...and he is encouraging it!!! What's going on?!
Q. I go to my local pub with my mum and dad once a week for the karaoke. A couple of months ago, this girl came in with her boyfriend and another guy, but was totally flirting with me. My mum and dad have known this girl as her and her boyfrien...
A. 13 November 2006: Seems like they may even be Polyamorous. If you feel uncomfortable dancing with this girl while he bf is right there, chances are you wont want a threesome or get involved in polyamory or swinging or whetever there deal is. Tell her you are not ... (read in full...)
Bf told me I need to be tighter! I heard somethin about vineger.. but how?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he has told me that im not tight at all.. Is there anyway to make it tighter for my boyfriend? I heard somethin about vineger.. but how? please help mee!!!...
A. 10 November 2006: First of all, no chemical can tighten the vagina. Vinegar and other chemicals can upset the pH and the friendly bacterial populations in the vagina, leaving it prone to infections. Douching is harmful. Don’t put chemicals in your vagina! It's really ... (read in full...)
Why is it that girls seem more attracted to older men?
Q. Why is it that girls seem more attracted to older men even when they're in their 20's? Ok i'll admit i'm 19 and fancy girls who are 16, 17 but not 20 or 21....
A. 10 November 2006: It's all about maturity and stability. Women tend to mature in the relationship part of the brain a lot quicker than men... And older men tend to have more things together in life... for a 16 year old girl a guy in college seems more career oriented ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 9 November 2006: Look i lost my virginity to someone who was 21 and i was 16... he broke my heart 3 weeks after we had sex...but i didn't run to the police. He broke up with me after i travelled 2 hours to be with him and stranded me at a faire. I had to call my mom ... (read in full...)
coming of age
Q. im 10 years old and want to know when ill get my periods and need infomason about it who can give me some?? ...
A. 9 November 2006: Well it differs in each person i was 11 personally but i had friends at 9 and some at 15 that got their periods it's never a set thing however if you have sisters or ask when your mom got it, it may be similar.
Ask your mom or guardian or aunti... (read in full...)
I cant come inside my girlfriend...why?
Q. iam 30, and masturbate almost daily for past 16yrs. problem is dat i find it very difficult to cum in my girl. been dating her for 4yrs. she disvirgined me. she has to suck my nipple while i make luv to her b4 i may cum. why? i need your help. t...
A. 9 November 2006: Well i recommend not jerking off youself for a few days and then trying to have sex... give yourself a break maybe? It might be a mental frustration or fear. Like fear of impregnating her that could also be a contributing factor. But lay off the ... (read in full...)
My BF isn't very well endowed...what sexual position is best?
Q. Hi i am wondering what is the best sexual position for my boyfriend who isnt that much endowed.. he's got a small penis. I get more aroused by his hands.. at times id prefer a vibrator but i dont want to hurt his feelings as he is the sensitive ...
A. 9 November 2006: i recommend you on top or doggy style... ask him to rub your clitoris or you can yourself while having sex it might help a bit... (read in full...)
How can I stop cheating?
Q. I have a bf. We are together 2 years. we have a kid. we are much in love but sometimes i feel like i hate him and then i wil go out and cheat on him. He loves me soo much, but wen i get angry i will go out and cheat on him. Sometimes i even dont ...
A. 9 November 2006: Your relationsip seems quite childish it's a scary thought to think a child is being raised in such unsavory behavior. I agree with the frist post, although i myself am not of religous influence maybe you should seek outside counsel, churches tend ... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland?
Q. Is it illegal for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 15 year old female in Ireland? I read that it is at least I think so. A girl I know did this and lost her virginity this way and he basically just used her and treated her awfully. Can she do ...
A. 9 November 2006: Well here is the deal it may be illegal but if she consented and let herself get put into that situation should he really get in trouble? I don't think the age gap is significant enough to raise too many alarms 2 years is psychology terms is the ... (read in full...)
Weight loss advice anyone?
Q. whats your advice for someone trying to lose weight? coz ive tried everything!...
A. 8 November 2006: Eat breakfast, do not skip breakfast whatever you do. It should consist of healthy things not bacon and fats. Try eggs, milk or orange juice. Or a bran muffin, you can sprikle some cinnamon/sugar on it if its not too tasty or try a multivitamin ... (read in full...)
We made a plan but he never called or showed up!
Q. I have been dating someone for a few weeks. He asked me to be exclusive. I called him to ask him if we still had planned for that night. He said yes he wanted to go eat and dancing. He would call me after he ate and got a shower. He never called or ...
A. 8 November 2006: There could be a million reasons. Have you talked to him since then? Have you attempted to get a hold of him? If he hasnt said anything or contacted you since just drop him, there's most likely something wrong with him not you... anyone who just ... (read in full...)
Do guys like hairy or smooth women better?
Q. This is a extremley embarrassing question but which do guys prefere a hairy woman or a smooth woman and i dont mean legs or arm hair i mean on the vagina.Has i am still a virgin i am 15 years old and i am worried just incase the guy i loose it to ...
A. 7 November 2006: Well as long as its in control i think some hair is appropriate. Especially at a young age, shaving bald is a little too porn star-ish just trimmed to about a 1 - 1.5 cm in length. But any teenage boy isnt really to discrimnitive when he's getting ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 7 November 2006: Well at first, he really didn't want to do it. He kept saying, no i'll just dissapoint you blah blah. But i persisted and let him know how will i knwo you suck at it if you never try. About 4 months after we started having sex he finally made his ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 6 November 2006: Well my beau did not like giving oral. I had found this out because we were friends before we dated and a group of us were chatting on about sex, like sand dislikes. He said he hated giving it, he felt he was bad at it and just didn't do it. I have ... (read in full...)
He dresses in womans clothing when we have sex!
Q. I met this guy 5 months ago and everything was great he told me he loved me after the 3rd day of knowing me . I thought that was scary but i was lonely and decided to start a relationship with him. He seemed so perfect always treating me to nice ...
A. 6 November 2006: Well i don't think he is gay. He may be a crossdresser, or bi, but if you can't handle it then breakup it's only been 3 months... He obviously has emotional issues since he exclaimed love after a short time and has already moved in? Why did you let ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has lots of "girl friends" who text him and message him on facebook... My problem, or his?
Q. Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 9 years now. We are so great together and I love him very much. He says he loves me too and we have made plans to get engaged and married in the future. The only thing thats gets me upset is how is talks to so ...
A. 6 November 2006: Well unless they are saying "Hey Baby see you at my house soon" you can't really get mad. If he's hanging out with girls more than you, you might want to let him know that hurts you. But people are entitled to befriend any gender. Don't get me wrong ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is 30 and a virgin!
Q. Ive just started seeing a guy, hes in his early 30s and has never had sex before. I guess I want to know, when we have sex for the first time, should I take charge? Or would that make him feel foolish (Im 22)? Should I be the one to initiate it or ...
A. 6 November 2006: I can't say i've been faced with a problem as extreme as this... but i have been with 2 virgins before. I pretty much took charge, but women are in charge in the bedroom anyway! We decide where, when and what! So i guess this shouldn't be any ... (read in full...)
How long should a guy last, when having sex?
Q. How long should guys last for when having sex? ...
A. 6 November 2006: Yos pretty much has it covered, but i figure ill give advice from a female perspective. If you feel you are too quick, definitely invest in lots of foreplay, and i don't mean for you, because that will only make you go quicker. Try and please her ... (read in full...)
The relationship is fizzling...how do I stop this?
Q. I am seeing a guy. How does a girl stop the relationship from fizzling out after the initial honeymoon period wears off?...
A. 6 November 2006: I would try spicing it up in the physical department. Roleplay and dress-up: Try a bad school girl, or a naughty nurse those tend to be favs of most men. Or try having sex in places besides the boring bedroom. Living room, Kitchen, Car... anythign ... (read in full...)
coffee on teh first date...but why is he too cheap to take me to dinner for a 2nd date. Should I ask him?
Q. I'm going on my second date with a man that I met on-line (we are both middle-aged). We met for coffee on our first date. However, we are going out for dessert on our second date. He is quite comfortable financially as he owns a home, is a ...
A. 5 November 2006: I think it's sweet. He's breaking tradition, he thinks outside the box... why think of it in a negative way? He also may be testing you, seeing if you're not all wrapped up in money... Yes every other guy took you to dinner, but obviously none of ... (read in full...)
How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months?
Q. How do I start talking to my friends again when I havent spoken to them for months? Ive been working so hard over the past few months and only saw my closest friends at the weekends. Then the other day I was going through my phonebook and re...
A. 5 November 2006: emails and texts are a good way to get back inbto swing with people. See if there is an event you knwo they would like (ie concert, play, festival) and invite them to go with you... Or you can always throw a get together (i love throwing murder ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my boss....he's got a girlfriend and I don't want to spoil the working relationship!!!
Q. I have been working for a company for four months and we all took part in teambuilding and activities together.Since then I have had a crush on the boss.He's really nice to me and is always concerned if I'm ill.there isnt a huge age gap but he has a ...
A. 5 November 2006: Like the outher aunts said get it under control... if you like your job and your reputation then keep it to yourself. The girl who sleeps with the boss is automatically the workplace slut... it's just a fact of life that people will think that. Go ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 5 November 2006: lol go ahead... be my guest... Ive been using it for years hehe... (read in full...)
Brotherly love
Q. I have been involved in a sexual relationship with my younger brother for nearly twenty years now. We first had sex when he was twelve and I sixteen. I became pregnant with his child and gave birth to a healthy baby boy. Unsure as to what I should ...
A. 4 November 2006: This is a tough situation. A few days ago I read a post about a brother and sister who just became intimate recently and I told them not to tell their parents however you 2 have children and are basically married. I can say that marriage to your ... (read in full...)
When is the best time after your perid to get pregnant?
Q. hi everyone, i need ur help. i wanna get pregnant. i want to know when is the best time after your period to have sex and likely to fall pregnant. i keep on hearing all didnt things like its harder to fall pregnant straight after period, so when ...
A. 4 November 2006: Ovulation occurs around the 14th day after the period, if your period is pretty regular (every 28 days)
But it can very. Ovulation is the sticky whitish stuff (resemble men's ejaculatory fluids) that comes out every once in awhile
this may help... (read in full...)
He cheated with his son's mom and I forgave him. How can I start feeling secure with us again?
Q. I have been dating my guy for 6 months now. And already we have crossed a lot of hurdles that we shouldn't have had to. To start things off, he cheated on me with his son's mother when we first got together. I forgave him and all. But now we fight a ...
A. 3 November 2006: Well as mother of his son i guess they will always be in contact. But it should be kept to a minimum. I dont mean to scare you hun but this is not the ideal relationship to bring yet another child into the world. However, being pregnant Im sure you ... (read in full...)
He told me to wait until he becomes single
Q. he said he likes me and he told me to wait until he becomes single. he has a live-in gf of 10 years. i waited for almost a year but he said he can't leave her yet because it's complicated and he has financial burden with her. for the last week i ...
A. 3 November 2006: Yes...eventually. I suggest you go out on the town, hit up a few pubs and clubs to get your mind off of him. Maybe you'll meet a guy thats into you NOW instead of later! But nevertheless it will hurt for a bit, and the best remedy is time. ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 3 November 2006: HEHE what can i say i have a weird imagination! ;)... (read in full...)
Does boob size really matter in attractiveness to guys?
Q. This sounds really silly, but...I'm 18 and I think my boobs are too small. All my friends a D's and big C's and I'm barely a C, probly closer to a B 1/2. I'm not a very big girl about 117lbs 5'6". So maybe it's normal for my size. Still my fr...
A. 3 November 2006: No, men do not care for the most part. if your thin size B is very vell proportionate I have plenty of friends with small chests that get men left and right. Honestly it varies. Some are ass men, some are boob men, some love a pretty face and some ... (read in full...)
I think my bf may have cheated on me! What do you think?
Q. I just need an opinion. Does this sound like something i should be concerned with..When my b/f picked me up yesterday. I got in the car and maybe about two minutes later he says--did you lose lip gloss in the car? He said his mother find it(h...
A. 3 November 2006: Honestly it could be a number of things. It could have been a friend of his moms even. This isn't something you should bring up. If he was really concerned he probably wouldn't have asked if it was yours in the first place. I wouldn't fret over it. ... (read in full...)
I fantasize about my boyfriend having sex with other women, does this make me a Lesbian?
Q. I Fantasize about My boyfriend having sex with other women, does this make me a Lesbian? I wouldn't want to be with another woman But i Can't stop thinking that I might be. I fantasize about girls that he thinks are sexy, it turns me on and I ...
A. 3 November 2006: It can also denote that you have some insecurities about your self. You'd rather picture him with someone else rather than yourself. But that doesn't mean it's bad. And it definitely doesn't make you a lesbian. This has happened to be once or twice, ... (read in full...)
My guy doesn't like oral because...he doesn't like the way a vagina looks! What is wrong with him??
Q. Is my fella under-confident with giving me oral sex, or is he just a selfish lover? He's gave it to me twice in 15 months.He says he doesnt like the look of a vagina, cos it looks sore? Hes good at it and ive told him.He'll do it 4 me on my birth...
A. 3 November 2006: What the hell? Let him know penis aren't all that nice looking either, they look like squids! Does he think he has a work of art in his pants? He needs to deal with it. What a selfish jerk. Don't give him oral if he doesn't give you oral thats ... (read in full...)
What will I get (?) for having sex with a 15 year old?
Q. can any one tell me wat i will get for having sex with a 15 gal rely need help plzs and i am 18...
A. 3 November 2006: LAws differ depending on where you are... but almost everywhere it is illegal and you can go to jail... (read in full...)
Our sex life has deminished! I don't want to be pushy or say something that would hurt her - please HELP!
Q. Hello DearCupid users! First of all, i'd like to thank anyone who offers advice. I thought a little bit of anonymous help would help me reach a sensible conclusion to the "problem". A little about myself, I'm 18, male, and happy in life. My pers...
A. 3 November 2006: Well like confusedinkent said you two should talk it over like adults. Initiate kissing and if she backs off ask her whats wrong. She may be afraid that things are getting too serious and shes not ready for it to be too serious. Or I'm just getting ... (read in full...)
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