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Hi. Well I'm 24 years old. I've been in several long and short term relationships and I am a pretty good listener. I studied Psychology as an undergrad an although I am not a Psychologist I have been told I am good with helping people cope.

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Our sex life has deminished! I don't want to be pushy or say something that would hurt her - please HELP!

Q.   Hello DearCupid users! First of all, i'd like to thank anyone who offers advice. I thought a little bit of anonymous help would help me reach a sensible conclusion to the "problem". A little about myself, I'm 18, male, and happy in life. My pers...

A.   3 November 2006: Well like confusedinkent said you two should talk it over like adults. Initiate kissing and if she backs off ask her whats wrong. She may be afraid that things are getting too serious and shes not ready for it to be too serious. Or I'm just getting ... (read in full...)

I might be pregnant but I've been drunk in the past month! Will this affect the baby?

Q.   Hello. I'm wondering how long or how much alcohol it takes to affect a fetus. I'm on the pill and I am late with my period now by two weeks. Last month was my birthday (I got drunk at my party - I'm in my mid-20's) and occasionally I h...

A.   3 November 2006: It shouldn't affect the baby, but that doesn't mean you can drink now. Usually the first few months drinking wont hurt the fetus. However do mention to the doc that you did drink. Congrats on being preggers. Hope everything turns out well... (read in full...)

He slept with my sister in the past - I don't think I can get over it!

Q.   I went to college and became friends with this guy, will call him Jim. I started dating this other guy, Phil. I talked to Jim about everything and he knew my relationship with Phil was not all that great. I used to stay over at Jim's and we'd ...

A.   3 November 2006: Well heres the deal you either get over it or you move on. Obviously you believe you wont be able to get over it so i suggest moving on. If he liked you I dont know what his motives were for sleeping with your sister but obviously it's a big mess. ... (read in full...)

My BF doesn't want to be intimate with me!

Q.   I have a boyfriend who is 35. We have been together for 8 and a half months. I like to be intimite quite a bit but he doesnt, he says its because his tired or that i pressure him too much. He is also very insecure and blames me alot for cheating ...

A.   3 November 2006: He may be insecure about the relationship... or maybe about his abilities in bed. Next time you two do have sex make sure to let him know how good he makes you feel. Make noises, show how much you are enjoying yourself... that may help increase his ... (read in full...)

Can smoking marijuana affect getting an erection?

Q.   Can smoking weed prevent you from getting an erection? When I smoked pot it was almost impossible to get an erection, even with my girl giving me head. Is this bad?...

A.   3 November 2006: Marijuana can decrease testosterone. Lots of men who smoke it long term also develop the dreaded man-boobs! It relaxes you so naturally it's difficult to become aroused when your nervous system is dulled. Sorry for the bad news but lay off the weed ... (read in full...)

I get homesick very easily. What can be done about this?

Q.   im 15 and when i stay out i get homesick its so embarassing what can i do to put an end 2 this ive tried ringin my parents at night and a photo but it just makes me worse or doesnt change it at all...

A.   2 November 2006: I was the same way... and honestly i missed out on a lot for a long while because i was terrified to leave my mum and da. Just push through it. When i was 15 I told myself I couldn't do that anymore if I wanted to remain good friends with a lot of ... (read in full...)

I think my penis is too small and my erection may be abnormal - thoughts?

Q.   I am a 16 year old male, nearly 17 and my voice has broken and i have a small amount of hair on my body. But i think that my penis is too small and my foreskin doesn't retract when i get an erection. Is this normal?...

A.   2 November 2006: The foreskin thing is fine confused convered it, but if that stuff doesn't work penises are foreign to women and the fact is most girls around your age won't know the difference anyway. About size, the female "g-spot" is about 2 cm inside the ... (read in full...)

Been married for 18 years but we only have sex 1 or 2 times per year!

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 18 years and he is truly my best friend. The problem is that he has no desire for sex. I've tried everything, and keep being turned down. He says he's just tired and doesn't have the energy. We have sex 1 ...

A.   2 November 2006: I would suggest sex therapy, or marriage counseling. You wont feel as "shallow" if someone else reckonizes it as an important issue. Sex is an important part of a marriage... people dont realize this... although it shouldnt be the main thing that ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl I am related to! What should I do?

Q.   dear cupid i seem to be in love with a girl who i am related to (cuzzin through grandparents), before i used to have feeling for her but they usually go away after a day or two, but now i seem to be thinking about her non stop, and i would like...

A.   2 November 2006: Well cousins may be legal, but your family would be weirded out by it all, obviously she isn't into you... Move on find someone not in your family that likes you back... ... (read in full...)

She had anal sex with him, but won't with me!

Q.   Anal Sex my girlfriend had anal sex before i was with her she said it hurt so much never again but now i'm kinding of thinking well if she tried it with him why not with me am i being mean to think that? ...

A.   2 November 2006: Ok I tried anal with my first serious relationship... and i will NEVER do it again... it's not because she loves him more or found him more attractive, it just hurt like hell! Would you willingly hurt yourself again? I suggest trying out anal sex on ... (read in full...)

My online guy wants to meet me...I don't know what to do.

Q.   i have been talking to a guy on MSN for about 2 weeks now..online we seem to really connect and he says he can't get me out of his head and he really likes me, he also has hinted about meeting in person but hasn't put any pressure on me..im 16 and ...

A.   2 November 2006: Well when i was 16 i met up up with someone on the net... but i went with a group of my friends, met in a public place, and i had been talking to this guy for 6 months. We are still good friends and we hang out all the time... but that doesnt mean ... (read in full...)

My married lover said his wife and him don't connect...she gave birth today!! I had no idea she was even pregnant. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I need help.. I fell in love with my married boss.. i know its stupid.. but i did..this was over 2 years ago.. both of us had moved into a new city and were working in the same organization. His family (wife and kid) were in another city and...

A.   2 November 2006: This guy is a bum!!! Obviously there is no future... so why is he manipulating you by saying he loves you? Just get out of that situation. He's a creep... even if he did leave his wife to be with you he would end up cheating on you... and you seem ... (read in full...)

What can a girl do to make her breasts grow bigger?

Q.   what should a girl do for her tits to grow bigger?...

A.   2 November 2006: As a girl with large breats I must say... you don't want them!!! They are annoying, it difficult to run without them bouncing about, and shirts don't always fit well, and I feel the make me look fat! Be happy with what god gave you because most ... (read in full...)

Am I misreading his signals?

Q.   I was convinced that my ex still loved me (and so were people on this site) as there were so many signs that pointed that way, but I've found out he's broken up with his girlfriend now. Why has he not got in contact with me? I know he's been ...

A.   2 November 2006: I agree with Stina... he may just be really confused. He also may have dumped her out of guilt for cheating on her...Contact him and see how he's doing if he hints at getting back together then so be it... if not he may really want to move on. ... (read in full...)

Ladies, I want to try anal sex but tell me...does it hurt??

Q.   Girls,Just wanted to know whether anal sex hurts because i wanna try it with my new man!! Does it hurt more than having sex as a virgin?? thanx ...

A.   2 November 2006: Well it quite uncomfortable in my opinion. I only tried it twice and said never again! But some women love it. Just use plenty of lube, and make sure he wears a condom anal sex is the easiest way to obtain STD's... (read in full...)

I just break down and cry sometimes, is this normal???

Q.   Hey guys, My gf broke up with me around 2 months ago, we've been together for almost 2 years. Im 22, shes 21 and we moved in together after just 2 months when we were stll together. I loved her so much, i still do but she doesn't have feelings fo...

A.   1 November 2006: Well in light of your recent add on. I'd say when she calls dont answer. Try to go out a lot with friends and keep yourself entertained... you are no longer her boyfriend you still have to do all the boyfriend things with no fringe benefits... thats ... (read in full...)

Haven't had sex in months, but missed a period - could I be pregnant?

Q.   i havent had sex with my boyfreind for 5 months, but hav just missed a period.. is there any chance that this could be pregnancy? ...

A.   1 November 2006: Stress can be the cause of a missed period, also other health problems... go to a doctor to check all possiblilities including pregnancy. Missing a period is a warning sign for lots of things its important to check it out right away... (read in full...)

I want to make my chances better with him..what should I do?

Q.   I really like this guy, I sit next to him in a few of my lessons. He'll like smile at me, and occasionally talk to me. On Msn and stuff like that he'll call me babe, and rated me 7 out of 10. However, he's more friends with the much more popula...

A.   1 November 2006: Sweetie, if anyone is dumb enough to not go for someone they like because their idiot friends would make fun of them... they are not worth your time anyway. My best friend in high school was quite chubby and although I see nothing wrong with it high ... (read in full...)

What the heck does nip mean?

Q.   i have been dating this boy for ages now and he asked me if i would nip him what do i do when i nip a boy as i have never done it b4 this is really important help!...

A.   1 November 2006: I looked it up on the urban dictionary, and googled it and nothing really came up that would make much sense in the phrase he said... why dont you just ask?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't let me go out with anyone!! What can I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wont let me go out with anyone but him he even gets mad if i want to be with my girlfriends for just a night what should i do? i know he loves me but this is not right...

A.   1 November 2006: No he doesnt love you he controls you. How long have you two been dating? If you let it happen it will only continue to get worse... this is a form of abuse. They first seperate you from friends then family then the have control over you ... (read in full...)

How can I take our relationship to the next level?

Q.   What is the best way to initiate intercourse with my gay partner? We've "slept" with each other in the sense that we masturbate each other to climax, and do everything but actual anal intercourse. How can I get started with this?...

A.   1 November 2006: I suppose your new at this... maybe he is too... I'd like it if we had a little background info... however gay sex can be trciky... with and hetero relationship we know what goes where and who does what. However do you want to recieve or give? You ... (read in full...)

I dont want to look needy but I want to text him. Should I wait for him to make the first move?

Q.   i met this guy a few weeks back he is a barman,he was very friendly to me and we started talking and both found out we were single so i plucked up courage and asked him out for a drink.he took my number and thought he wouldnt bother but he did.and ...

A.   1 November 2006: It could be the case that he is nervous because he just came out of a relationship or something... but as rhythmandblues said...you've done enough. Maybe text him in a few days time and say i'm bored what are you up to.... if he doesnt respond or ... (read in full...)

Public Sex was a go with her and now it's a big no! What can I do?

Q.   Public Sex was a go and now it's a no. my girlfriend 4 month's ago was so mad about us haveing so many fight's over nofthing. she said i sould write down what i want from out her and stuff so i said public sex would be a Big plus sign. she agree...

A.   1 November 2006: Wow I have no idea what you said... (read in full...)

I need some guy gift ideas

Q.   help! me and my boyfriend have been going out 3 year in a couple of weeks and i need some ideas on what too get him.. he always buys me realy nice gifts but i just dont have a clue. I cant cook him a nice meal either as i cant cook. lol :( any su...

A.   31 October 2006: When i had my one year anniversary I bought my bf 12 little gifts that represented each month... Our first date we saw a movie so i bought that on DVD, in the 3rd month we had sex for the first time and so i bought him a sexy card game we could play ... (read in full...)

Who do I choose-my wonderful new man or my husband who left me for another woman?

Q.   My husband left me for another woman, I was devastated but eventually tried to move on and even began seeing someone else. Now my husband has left the other woman and says he@ll do anything to get me back! I am very confused and dont want to hurt ...

A.   31 October 2006: Well you answered you're own question in a way... all you can say about your new guy is great things... why bother with the guy who hurt you. Going back to a cheater will only make you paranoid that he will do it again and most likely he will... so ... (read in full...)

I cum too quickly

Q.   I am 23 years, and I am with my gf for at least 3 years. Now we are doing sex for along time but I have a little problem. When we do sex it cums quickly after five minutes. Is there something that I can do for this problem? Thank u....

A.   31 October 2006: Possibly try thinking about things that aren't huge turn ons... I.E. baseball, or some sport...something that wont arouse you but also wont make you go limp like your parents having sex (ick!) Also try another position, one that doesnt feel quite as ... (read in full...)

Why do I have to choose one of them?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now and we are looking into spending our lives together very soon. My boyfriend is going oversea for six months to travel on his own, hoping to gain more experience in his life (which he truly lacks). He ...

A.   31 October 2006: Best Friends can be tricky... But he needs to learn to butt out! It's your choice... only you can make decisions regarding your love life. True best friends will support you regardless. He may hold you in high selfesteem so he thinks no one is good ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when a girl ......

Q.   Ladies. what does it mean when a girl smiles at you and sits next to you even if there are other seats...

A.   31 October 2006: Most likely she digs you...... (read in full...)

Started an affair with my husband's brother...

Q.   I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...

A.   31 October 2006: Well you have successfully messed up 4 lives, if you or he has kids then you also messed up their lives too. I really can't have sympathy for you, but if you so called love your husband...then leave him before you do more damage. So he can find ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has started to drink more and more, should I be concerned ??

Q.   My boyfriend likes a beer but has started having 2 and 3 beers every night. Is this normal or should I be concerned?...

A.   31 October 2006: Thats a bit much in my opinion. I don't think anyone should drink daily, and 2-3 beers is too much... Not only will he develop massive beer gut, he's well on his way to 5-6 beers a a day and then he's a drunk. Alcoholism isnt defined as to how much ... (read in full...)

Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships?

Q.   Can anyone give any tips on coping with failed relationships? I am a 33 year old attractive and intelligent woman, who has (unfortunately) had the worst luck when it comes to relationships. I've been broken hearted more times that I care to rememb...

A.   31 October 2006: Irish pretty much said it you said all the good single men are gone yet it seems a nice guy is right there in front of you. Most women tend to attract the same type of guy unfortunately you attract and are attracted to cheaters, scammers, liars and ... (read in full...)

My bf doesn't like my pubic hair! How do I go baout shaving it off?

Q.   I am a 17 year old girl and i am afraid to shave my pubic hair. My boyfriend doesn't like it and i find it embarrassing but im afraid in case i cut myself or it hurts. How do i go about it?...

A.   31 October 2006: Well first off you shouldnt be ashamed of it... maybe trimming it a little is a good solution, because shaving yourself completyely is tricky and can be painful. First of make sure you have a mirror. Secondly, you may want to purchase a good ... (read in full...)

I just break down and cry sometimes, is this normal???

Q.   Hey guys, My gf broke up with me around 2 months ago, we've been together for almost 2 years. Im 22, shes 21 and we moved in together after just 2 months when we were stll together. I loved her so much, i still do but she doesn't have feelings fo...

A.   30 October 2006: Its ok hun. It happens to all of us... nothing hurts more than loving someone who just doesnt love us anymore... I know this is cliche but give it time. I'm only 22, but I have loved and lost, and it hurt like hell but I'm ok now. I thought I would ... (read in full...)

I lost my virginity and found out sex with my bf doesn't do it for me. Is this normal?

Q.   I lost my virginity, to my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, we've had sex twice since then. He enjoys it but it doesn't do anything for me, is this normal? ...

A.   30 October 2006: Enjoying yourself is all mental.My first few sexual experience were blah... now i absolutely love sex. 2 times is not enough to know how sex really is. Give a few months and things might pick up. I know women who can go months without wanting sex, ... (read in full...)

Everything about him is great apart from his underwear!!!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for a year and am getting obsessive about his underwear. He's kind, funny, good-looking and sexy. But he wears the most revolting old Y-fronts and grotty briefs and the sight of them turns my stomach. He thinks it's ...

A.   30 October 2006: I don't blame you, I hate guys who wear tighy whities they look like ginourmous diapers... i couldnt imagine ifthey were stained and holey on top of that... Us women shouldnt have to go through the annoyance of itchy lacy thongs that are pretty when ... (read in full...)

Ladies...do girls mind it if they know that males masterbate?

Q.   hi do girls mind if males masturbate. i do it about 3 times a week but i can't help thinking that girls dont like this....

A.   29 October 2006: Most girls probably wont care as long as its in moderation... everyday is a bit much. but 3 times a week wouldnt bother me personally. I think honestly is the best policy on this issue. As long as your able to perform with your girl than it shouldnt ... (read in full...)

Do I have the dreaded "pencil dick"? What do you all think?

Q.   Is my penis too thin? My penis measures 4.5 inches around when I'm erect and I've heard 5 inches the average. I'm worried because I've read women care more about girth than they do length. Am I OK here or do I have the dreaded "pencil dick?"...

A.   29 October 2006: Size isn't everything. 4.5 inches around is big.... like sugapuff said im sure they mean 5 inches in length not width... Just learn how to work it... Some guys with big penis' are awful in bed because they have some delusion of grandeur that the... (read in full...)

How do you get a guy to orgasm without actually having sex?

Q.   me and my bf of 6 months have done everything but sex and each time he has never cum.am i doing something wrong? he always tells me im great at it and that he realy enjoys it but he has never cum.we have talked about it together and he says its more ...

A.   29 October 2006: Well as far as hand jobs lets face it no one is going to be better than himself at it right he may be setting his expectations too high? Maybe try dressing up sexy also dry humping can sometimes get a guy off. BJ's can be quite tiresome for the ... (read in full...)

Condom split and 4 days late coming on my period....Can I be pregnant???

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about two months now. We use a condom every time, no exceptions. But we are worried now because on one occasion about a month ago, we were having sex and the condom broke. He did not ejaculate, and since ...

A.   29 October 2006: He may have had precum however and this can get you pregnant. Get a text, and also look into birthcontol pills or nuva ring as well as condoms as a super saftey precaution... (read in full...)

My best friend also likes my boyfriend. What should I do?

Q.   Hey guys. I really like my boyfriend and I care about him. And there's my best friend (aka also a relative of mine), I talk to her about everything. We are practically like sisters. But one problem is that she likes my boyfriend. She is always ...

A.   28 October 2006: Some best friend. Girly you need to stop them in their tracks... has she done this with multiple boys, or is the first boy youve dated? Because it will continue... she may not even like him really she just wants to 'one up' you. It's common with ... (read in full...)

What's happening with my periods?

Q.   Hi, Just looking for help because I'm really confused now. My last normal period was 6th-10th September and they are regular so I was expecting to come on again around the 8th of this month. I waiting until I was a week late and took a pregnancy...

A.   28 October 2006: Periods can stop if you arent eating enough or getting enough nutrition, if you have an eating disorder or exercise too often that also may be causing it. Take some iron supplements and maybe a multi vitamin and go back to the doctor and get a ... (read in full...)

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