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... Send *emonpixie a private message | | | *emonpixie's profile:Hi. Well I'm 24 years old. I've been in several long and short term relationships and I am a pretty good listener. I studied Psychology as an undergrad an although I am not a Psychologist I have been told I am good with helping people cope.
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What's happening with my periods?
Q. Hi, Just looking for help because I'm really confused now. My last normal period was 6th-10th September and they are regular so I was expecting to come on again around the 8th of this month. I waiting until I was a week late and took a pregnancy...
A. 28 October 2006: Periods can stop if you arent eating enough or getting enough nutrition, if you have an eating disorder or exercise too often that also may be causing it. Take some iron supplements and maybe a multi vitamin and go back to the doctor and get a ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 and have no driver's licence. I feel jealousy toward teens who drive. How do I cope?
Q. I am 20 years old, and I still don't have a driver's license, and I feel jealous when I see teenagers driving vehicles by themselves. I am trying very hard to become good enough to get a license, but I am also trying to earn money for car insurance....
A. 28 October 2006: Like ogga said it's just something you'll have to deal with. I suggest lots of practice and maybe take a class or two as well... as far as the money issues it's just the way it is. I wanted to get my license @ 16 and all my friends had one but my ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and experience very heavy periods. Is this normal?
Q. Heyyy, Is it normal for a 13 year old to have really heavy periods, cause when i stand up its like a waterfall and i need the toilet quite alot and i normally feel dead during the day. and i spend around 10 mins in the toilet each time. am i too ...
A. 28 October 2006: If your going trhough more than 5 pads a day, you should go to the doctor. Or if you have bigger than quarter sized clots you may have Menorrhagia. It occurs in a lot of women so dont think its a scary unknown thing but its important you get it ... (read in full...)
He used to work as a male escort, should I get out now?
Q. Its been seven years since my divorce and since this have met no one special, until recently when a man the same age as me has swept me off my feet. Tonight after a romantic meal we where beng honest about our past. He admitted he used to work as a ...
A. 28 October 2006: Well he may have been doing it to stay out of debt, honestly i think you should ask if you can handle knowing he was rather than whether or not he's a bad guy. Sometimes desperate times call for desperate measures... If everything is clicking and ... (read in full...)
Is an age gap of 8 years too big?
Q. hey i recently met this lad when i was out and we exchanged numbers etc he has text me asking do i want to go out sometime, its a good chance to get to know him better but the only prob is that he is 8 years older than me im 18. is that age gap too ...
A. 28 October 2006: It really depends. I have dated older men, but it depends on his maturity and yours. Men tend to develop about 2 years behind women... this isnt all of them of course however that seems to be the norm. As pica said it depends on the stage in your ... (read in full...)
he keeps giving strange looks
Q. hello. e here im falling for this boy who im friends with and he keeps giving strange looks. i think his friend n has told him. what should i do?...
A. 28 October 2006: Well I don't have a lot of info to work with but If the cats out of the bag than go with it. I remember my first serious crush came up to me and said "So and So said you like me" I confirmed even though every part of me wanted to scream and run and ... (read in full...)
Being gay and brought up in the UK makes me find it difficult to understand why people do this!!!
Q. My partner and I have been together for six years, recently he stated that he thought being gay was a desease and that people like us should not be able to have any rights and that he puts his family first before me. This came as shock, but he is a ...
A. 27 October 2006: He has a lot of self hate going on... and someone who hates them self that much may be incapable of loving anyone. Possibly therapy sessions but religion can be so deeply ingrained that almost nothing can revert it. Fortunately sexuality is ... (read in full...)
I've never turned down a guy in my life
Q. I had a relationship with S for 4 months, and he had a mate, M, that i really liked as we really hit it off. But My relationship with S ended 4 weeks ago, and today M was hitting on me. I have some serious hang ups at the mo, part of the reason me ...
A. 27 October 2006: I know it may be difficult but steer clear... this can only lead to problems... best way to not have to deal is don't hang out with him any more. Make excuses, avoid...do whatever you can. Not only will it hurt him, men have a tendency to be real ... (read in full...)
Should i flirt with him or not
Q. i really like this boy in school and he talks to me and he is single but should i flirt with him or not? ...
A. 27 October 2006: Why not, if you like him and he's single go for it!... (read in full...)
My partner cheated via texts, so should I cheat with this other guy?
Q. Well, i have been with my partner for just over 3 years and we have a son together. last year i found out he had been texting my best friend for 5 months we nearly split up over it but i tried for the sake of my son. Since then i think i have fallen ...
A. 27 October 2006: Well first off if you know how much it hurt you... why would you do it to someone else? I think you should really talk to your partner about what you are feeling. Like stina said counseling is key to this. Cheating is not the answer... Why put ... (read in full...)
Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss
Q. Is it appropriate for 14-15 year olds to kiss and make out? What is appropriate for this age group....
A. 27 October 2006: YES!!! It's completely normal, just don't let it get too far. Boys can be persuasive! Keep it all above the neck for another year or two... (read in full...)
what is the best way of asking?
Q. I am going to a dance and if I end up dancing with a guy who is not that close to me now and want to go out with him or to talk to him again what is the best way of asking?...
A. 27 October 2006: Well after a few dances offer to go get some snacks or punch together and strike up a conversation. Its good to try and make him laugh. If you've been dancing with other guys compliment him on how much better he is at dancing. Also when the dance ... (read in full...)
His mood changed really suddenly
Q. Hi, I had the weirdest experience with my boyfriend tonight. We were collecting our scholarships and it was the first time my parents had met his. We hadnt seen each other for a week and he had been more distant than normal e.g texting me less, no...
A. 27 October 2006: He might be under lots of pressure from his parents as well. I know in High School some parents don't condone relationships because they feel it may affect school work... He may have had to act standoffish and just got caught up in the mood of it ... (read in full...)
18 and craving for a baby... how can I stop feeling broody?
Q. Ok help. I'm 18, been in a very solid relationship for 2 years and everythings great. We're moving in together soon and everything. But I'm craving for a baby. I know I'm young and not exactly financially stable and all, but I really want a baby. I ...
A. 26 October 2006: My suggestion is to live with your bf for at least 6 months (trust me you find out a lot about people once you move in). Regardless of age or finance the most important things is if the childs parents are happy, and a unit. I would suggest waiting ... (read in full...)
He would rather end the relationship than talk to me about whats really wrong!!!
Q. I have been with my fiance for nearly 2 years now and we moved in together 2 months ago. Most parts of our relationship are great but we have little fall outs that turn into big arguements because he would rather say its over than talk to me about ...
A. 26 October 2006: Moving in together is tough especially the first 6 months or so. A lot of people break up within the first year of living with one another, so you have to see, wait it out and hope it gets better. Since you two are engaged you may want to consider ... (read in full...)
I think someone at work fancies me but I dont fancy him and dont want to ruin our friendship...
Q. i think someone at work fancies me but i dont fancy him and i dont want to ruin our friendship. where i work there is a group of 5people who get along really well, these 5, one of which is me, are the young people at work. we are 18-23 and get on s...
A. 26 October 2006: Well one way to deter a guy without hurting him is doting on about your bf. Even if it means exaggerating a little. Buy yourself a new necklace or something nice and say your bf got it and go on about how great he is in front of that guy... Don't ... (read in full...)
I told him I didn't like the idea of sharing a hotel room with two cute blondes, one with big breasts who he's slept with!
Q. Last week a woman called and left a voicemail for my boyfriend, stating that she would be in town in a few days and wanted to see him. I grabbed the phone before she hung up and introduced myself as his girlfriend (he wasn't at home at the time). ...
A. 26 October 2006: I do have an easy way to hopefully remedy the situation. Just say that you want to have a wild and crazy night of passionate sex in a hotel room. Buy a skimpy outfit that will turn him on, oils, creams and all that good stuff. Show it too him and ... (read in full...)
Who should have the last say on this abortion?
Q. Hi there. If a couple is pregnant, married, and has the means to bring up the child well (financially speaking and in a good neighborhood with a good education, etc), and one partner wants to have an abortion and the other doesn't, what should be ...
A. 26 October 2006: Well why did this couple get together in the first place? However it really in the end is up to the woman. It's her body, the man isn't going to have to carry around a human for 9 months. And really most babies end up being primarily the mothers ... (read in full...)
My heart hit the floor when I saw my husband's profile on AdultFriendFinder!
Q. I got home from work last night and i was trying to find a wed site i was at the other day, so I went into the "history" part of the computer and found that my husband signed up for adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com, is he thinking about cheating on ...
A. 26 October 2006: Hold on higgieschick! I've been in this situation before so you need to figure out how to approach this... and there is a few ways to do so. Some men are merely curious is they CAN get anyone not actually getting someone. So lets not assume ... (read in full...)
I love her but she is already with someone else!!!
Q. im in love with a girl thats already going out with someone. what should i do? please help...
A. 26 October 2006: Hi trusting,
ok so this all depends on how longs shes been in the relationship and what kind of relationship it is. First is first don't go after a taken women... if you guys really click and are truly meant to be, she will leave her current ... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't want anything serious but I don't want to lose him!!!!
Q. Hi there... Ok this is really embarrassing.... ive been after this guy for about a month, he's recently come out of a two year relationship and has warned me he doesnt want anything serious. The other day we watched a film together and one ...
A. 26 October 2006: Well in response to that, just keep your guard up. He may be playing games... How long has it been since his 2 yr relationship? I know some guys if they were played with will retaliate (in a stupid cavemanish way) on another woman to get back at us ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my girlfriend will cheat on me on cruise!
Q. Well, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. She has a history of lying sometimes, and its hard to trust here. Well anyways her and one of her friends are going on a cruise together. Well i'm concerned about her cheating on me on ...
A. 26 October 2006: Ask yourself this... if she can't go on vacation without freaking you out are you really happy? It's not your fault shes not trustworthy... but freaking out when she is out of yoursite makes for a bad relationship. If its 8 mos. down the line and ... (read in full...)
He said he had orgasmed in my mouth and I couldn't tell!
Q. i gave head the other day 4 the first time! is it normal to have (sorry 2 go in2 details lol) lots of spit in your mouth?? he said he had cum and i couldnt tell :S ...
A. 26 October 2006: Some men secreet a lot less than the average amount of semen. He also may have lied because well lets face it, it was your first time...you haven't worked out all the kinks... Don't be offended, just get better at it. Ask what he likes best do a few ... (read in full...)
I am in love with my brother and having sex with him
Q. I am a freshman at the university this year. This is the second year at the university for my brother Steve. Our parents decided to get us a two bedroom apartment for us to share. We have always gotten along really well and its been great. T...
A. 26 October 2006: Ok, you and Steve obviously want to be together, so be it no one can stop it but for the love of your parents NEVER TELL THEM!!!! You're best bet if you want to stay with your brother (which I don't condone but love is love and honestly there are ... (read in full...)
I am finding it hard to deal with the fact he has got alot of female friends!!!
Q. Does anyone else's man make a lot of female friends and how do you cope with it? My boyfriend has always made friends easier with women than men and I knew that when I got into the relationship but I still find it difficult to cope with when a...
A. 26 October 2006: Maybe you can meet his female friends and hang out, most times that can ease feelings. Stop snooping!!!! It's making things worse... female friends can be a great thing, they give advice that can sometimes be to your benefit!! My boyfriend is not ... (read in full...)
To be with him he thinks I should leave my faith and join his!!!
Q. Hi Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been on for about a month now. He is very kind, spiritual and pure. But that is the problem really. He expects me to imitate him and has strict standard that i really dont think i can keep up with.I really di...
A. 26 October 2006: It been only a month and he wants to convert you? Ack! I live by a simple rule in the first 3 months if there is a big issue that already arises in the relationship...it probably won't work out.
You have to consider your own faith and what it ... (read in full...)
His Mother keeps his old wedding pics up on her wall! This has upset me..what do you all think?
Q. hi im the one who thinks my boyfriend is ashamed of our relationship . i forgot to tell you about his mum decorating their house . when she decorated their house i thought when it was finished she wudnt hang up his wedding picture again but she did ...
A. 26 October 2006: Well first things first lets listen to this sentence... He's 43 and lives with his mom. WHY? 1. He needs to move out of their. 2. He needs to ask her to take those pictures down. A wedding is an important event, its her right to keep it around but ... (read in full...)
I don't look at him and find him as sexually attractive as other guys!!!
Q. My boyfriend fancies me more than I fancy him. I've been seeing a guy exclusively for the last two months and we're now talking about potentially living together. I really enjoy spending time with him, I like all his friends and feel like we cou...
A. 26 October 2006: Well, I believe that if you are having fun, give yourself a good 6-8 months before moving in. Moving in too soon will mess everything up. If your already doubtful way make a move that will lock you into the relationship already. Some people grow on ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he now works at the same place as his ex of 7 years???
Q. Hi everyone, my bf and I have recently got engaged. Its been a tough yr for both of us and we're happy.However, my partner has accepted a new job working for the same company as his ex of 7yrs. Now he's saying how weird it is bumping into her and ...
A. 26 October 2006: Well it's all relative. Does your man have a cheating history? They did date for 7 years, and everyone has their little slip-ups... personally I would ask him stright out if there is a chance it may happen. Also tell him that you're worried about ... (read in full...)
He cheated on her with me...do I find a way to tell her so she finishes it so I can have him???
Q. A guy i'm into cheated on his girlfriend with me. They've only been going out for 2 days. I know that if she found out what we did they'd break up and he would be free for me to have him, but I know that he wouldn't be all that pleased with me. If ...
A. 26 October 2006: Ok they've been dating 2 days, but slept/messed around with you... it's not as if he's emotionally attached to her...so lets ask the obvious question. Why hasn't he just ended it with her for you? He may not want that to happen...so telling her ... (read in full...)
Do I just leave it and get on with my life or fight for my man???
Q. my boyfriend and i were going out for 3 years and we have a son. last year i cheated on him it was a drunken mistake and i feel really bad he found out and he was ok till one day he kicked off at me and said that he didnt think he loved me anymore ...
A. 26 October 2006: Ok ok, i know everyone makes mistakes but lets back track here for a minute and look at the facts. You cheated on him, he breaks up with you and moves a girl in instantly(which to me denotes he may have been seeing her whilst you were still ... (read in full...)
I know he doesn't want anything serious but I don't want to lose him!!!!
Q. Hi there... Ok this is really embarrassing.... ive been after this guy for about a month, he's recently come out of a two year relationship and has warned me he doesnt want anything serious. The other day we watched a film together and one ...
A. 26 October 2006: Wow, well... you may be headed down a bad road. Men are pretty forward with their thoughts and us women well we tend to play games and we are less than straight forward with our intentions. He has just come out of a long term relatioship... he may ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want anything serious just fun...I don't want to give up on him!!!
Q. Hello... Ive fallen for a guy that i really want. He's just recently become single and is a couple of years younger than me (20). We got together recently and we've txt since, but im not sure where to go from here. He doesnt want anything se...
A. 26 October 2006: Don't get your heart set on this guy, he's young and clearly wants to weigh out options. Remember to have fun, the best way to lure him in is woith out trying too hard, and just being yourself. Men are attracted to fun-loving, out-going, independent ... (read in full...)
I'm staying friends with her as I'm hoping to spark her feelings for me back up!!!
Q. I am 21 and have recently mutually split from a long term relationship (4 yrs) where everything appeared to be lasting for life with ambitions of marriage and kids as we both loved each other immenseley. She fell out of love with me over a long ...
A. 26 October 2006: So here's the deal, women when they want to break up prepare themselves for it. It may take weeks or months, mainly because we are insanely rash creatures and we often regret split second decisions. On that note, i don't think her intentions for ... (read in full...)
What do I say to the boy that pulled down my skirt at school??
Q. today someone pulled down my school skirt at school and it came right down to my calves so all my thong was showing! i don't no wot to do or say 2 the boy who done it help me !...
A. 17 October 2006: Well, if you want you can tell a teacher, headmaster, principal, counselor whatever. But i think giving him a good smack on the face is due. I like the idea of humilating him in front of people like yos said, he's such a loser the only way he'd ... (read in full...)
Im really shy so how can I get her interested in me ?
Q. hi, ill keep this short and simple. theres a girl i like in year 11, im in year9. i only have a year to get her to like me. she dosent really know me that much yet, because im to shy to talk to her. my time is running out. please help me!!!!!!!...
A. 17 October 2006: If i can say one thing that gets a womans attention it's confidence...but please don't mistake this with cockiness. Look her in the eye and smile when she looks at you, don't shy away and act like you were never looking. I don't know if you have ... (read in full...)
Does this mean that I am related to the guy I've fallen for ?
Q. I don't know what to do, I think I may be related to this guy that I've fallen for. So if you can understand this, please tell me if we're related or not. He is my: Dad's uncle's wife's sister's son. So, my Dad has an uncle named "...
A. 17 October 2006: Ok, so you're not related by blood, so its all good from that stand point, but were you raised with this person like a cousin or family member? and would any of your family have a problem with it? I have cousins in which I am in no way a blood ... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with a 20yr old dating a 16 year old ??
Q. Is there anything wrong with a 20 year-old dating someone who is 16 or 17 years old? Some people say the minimum age to date some with a 3+ age gap is 16, while others say it is 18? I live in the United States and this is confusing me....
A. 17 October 2006: Well, i personally don't think there is much wrong with it. However, legally it is statutory rape, and if the 16 year olds parents aren't cool with the situation, I would say stay away, because they can get you arrested! I dated a guy who was 16 and ... (read in full...)
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