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writes: I just need an opinion.Does this sound like something i should be concerned with..When my b/f picked me up yesterday. I got in the car and maybe about two minutes later he says--did you lose lip gloss in the car? He said his mother find it(he has his own car but sometimes uses his mom's as well). And i just kind of said no..i really dont remember losing anything. I saw him glancing at my lips and he saw that i was not wearing any(which is what i was able to figure when i saw him subtly doing that). And then he said it looks like what you would use, its pink. And i just kind of shrugged like i didnt think i lost anything. He quickly says its not mine. But then 30 minutes later when we get to the house and had to get soemthing--i mentioned it probably was mine as kind of a reminder but then 10 minutes later when he came out...i said did you bring it and he was like oh i forgot, i'm not gonna go back inside you have another one. And then i was like i want it back in a joking way and he said well they are all the same i will just take one of mine(joking around about what i might be thinking--which is--was it someone else's?Do you think i should worry--b/c sometimes his mom will come out to say hi and maybe he thought she would bring it up..but he could have easily said--yeah its hers i will give it to her..and then obviously not give to me if i wasn't mine and it was some other girls. Should i be worried? Ask again tonight for it? Let it go?? I feel like if a guy was messing around in the past or currently--he wouldnt take any chances in even bringing it up..he would say to his mom--yeah its hers and then get rid of it. I figured maybe he didnt want his mom to mention it to me or something....being too worried?
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (3 November 2006):
 Honestly it could be a number of things. It could have been a friend of his moms even. This isn't something you should bring up. If he was really concerned he probably wouldn't have asked if it was yours in the first place. I wouldn't fret over it. If he acts suspicious over a lot of things or more signs come up than that may be a problem but for now don't worry too much
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reader, Helly +, writes (3 November 2006):
 Dont worry about it. It could have been anyones lip-gloss. If he is cheating on you, there'll be obvious signs. For nor just let this one go, but keep and eye open for any signs of an affair.
hope that helps :)
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