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Hello!

I'm Felicity....And i'm 16.

I'm fair over life atm..../3

Even though I'm young and don't have a lot of life experience, I think recieving advice from all different age groups is important, as it gives a different perspective to various problems.

Thanks for reading!

xxx

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I got beated up, until I was bleeding, evidently because I am gay, my friend who witnessed it, went to the principal's office, and told, when I asked him not to, why would he do that??

Q.   I get pick on a lot because people think I'm gay (which I'm not) the "popular" kids shoved me into lockers, beat me up. One day I talking to my friends (who hadn't ditch me to be popular) until those guys push me into a locker and I started ...

A.   16 July 2008: He was just looking out for you, thats what good friends do. Im really sorry kids pick on you, maybe now that the principal knows, it might stop. Good luck. xx... (read in full...)

I am 14, never been kissed, boy, I like is taking me to the mall, and wants to kiss me, I am afraid to kiss him, what can I do, to not be so afraid??

Q.   Ok im 14 and ive never been kissed... there is this guy i really like and im going to the mall with him in a week... he told me he to kiss me... i want to kiss him but im scared...

A.   16 July 2008: I had my first kiss at 14 too, just make sure you lean to the side and start off slow. As long as you know what your doing, you shouldnt be too nervous. Make sure your breath is fresh, to avoid embarassment! To stop nerves beforehand, try to think... (read in full...)

How do I let him know he is doing a good job?

Q.   How do I let my boyfriend know he is doing a good job when he fingers me without saying anything? I can tell he's nervous and I just want him to calm down..Help!...

A.   16 July 2008: Moan. It will make him feel like he's doing a great job.... (read in full...)

What pet names can you call a guy?

Q.   A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...

A.   16 July 2008: ugh i hate Babe, sweetie, hottie etc... I call my guy Darling or dear. Just sounds affectionate, but not quite as common.... (read in full...)

Really like a guy and did oral - can we make it into a relationship?

Q.   I'm fifteen and I'm experienced with oral sex and what not. Its usually been with someone I've been in a relationship with - two different people. In 7th grade dated I someone for 6 mos. 8th grade I dated someone for 10 mos. last year, 9th grad...

A.   16 July 2008: You were used, and that sucks. Your obviously not mature enough to be engaging in these acts, and next time, you should wait until you are actually in a relationship. I'm sorry this happened, as you are probably going to experience heartbre... (read in full...)

What's wrong with us fat girls?

Q.   Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...

A.   11 July 2008: Im slim, and i hardly get noticed either! So i don't think it's a weight thing. Maybe you should just try to meet new guys... (read in full...)

What size and shape of girl do men prefer?

Q.   I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...

A.   2 July 2008: Every guy has their own taste. Like im slim, with long legs, and my best friend is curvy with large breats, if we go out, we both turn heads for different men. But in my experience, men tend to like curvy better, unfortunate for me...oh well! H... (read in full...)

I keep blowing my chances of finding a soul mate and I need advice.

Q.   I'm 27 and vergin.Never had a girl friend or dated in yhe true sense of the term.I just xcouldn't strike the right cord when it cimes to women..I always end up talking crazy getting nervous and blowing my chances of finding a soul mate.What do you ...

A.   2 July 2008: Your not the only one. Its important that you understand, theres no time limit to finding your soul mate. So when you find a women your interested in, take a deep breath, ask her how she is..etc. If you get really nervous, trying making women... (read in full...)

Anyone have any idea how we can arrange an underage marriage?

Q.   Ok so I am under 18 and I have this boyfriend who is 38. He and I want to get married but I know my parents won't allow it. No body even knows about him. So my question is, what can I do to be with him? Legally I mean. We have been ...

A.   2 July 2008: your age says your 13-15. Im guessing if you want to get married, you might be sexually active wiht this 38 year old man? If so....this is very wrong and illegal. You need to go to authorities, and inform your parents. He is a pedofile! serio... (read in full...)

Ladies, how do you want us to kiss you?

Q.   I have seen many many articles bashing guys on how to kiss. Well ladies exactly how do you like to be kissed? exactly what is it that makes your toes curl and your hair stand on end? i would like to know so that i can be the best i can....

A.   29 June 2008: i enjoy guys nibbling my lip, that makes my toes curl. Also, dont use too much tongue and always have minty breath, and should do well! Good luck! xx... (read in full...)

I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?

Q.   Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...

A.   29 June 2008: Believe me i know how you feel, but before it happens, try to read up on how to kiss properly, so when the time comes, you know what your doing. Kissing comes pretty naturally, just make sure you tilt to the side, and start off slow! Good luck! x... (read in full...)

Ladies: Tell me how you would react to this?

Q.   Ladies..if I saw you for first time and bumped into you and said "can I just say something, your eyes are so pretty" and walked off? How would you react and what would you think? [Moderator note: major spelling and grammar corrections, next tim...

A.   29 June 2008: I would think it's a bit strange, but take it as a compliment and probably feel confident for the rest of the day! I def wouldnt think it was a line though, if you walked away.... (read in full...)

I'm nearly 16 and never had a boyfriend. I am also shy. Any suggestions?

Q.   Im nearly 16, and have never had a boyfriend. Is that strange? I'm really sick of waiting for someone to come along! Im good looking and have a nice personality, and people are always asking me "Why dont you have a boyfriend?" which makes ...

A.   27 June 2008: Wait until you like someone, then go after them. Instead of waiting around, maybe get an after school job, or meet new people through friends. Since your shy, i think if you keep talking to people, you'll eventually get better with people, and meet ... (read in full...)

Is it just me, or is anybody else disturbed by 10-13 year olds giving out blow jobs?

Q.   I've been watching this board for a couple of days now, and I have to admit that I am shocked at the number of 10-15 year old girls that are asking questions about boyfriends, sex and blowjobs. Is this the norm these days that children start this ...

A.   22 June 2008: I agree, its wrong. They are way to young to even be thinking about that! I think at that age, the parents should be monitering what a child does, to stop these incidents happening. Im 15, and its still a big deal for me! let alone 10-13 year o... (read in full...)

Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?

Q.   im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...

A.   22 June 2008: Duskyrowe, ok thats fine. It just seemed like in your first answer that you were saying men only like curvy women. But your right, everyone has their own ideal partner. xx ... (read in full...)

How can she relax so I can give her oral sex?

Q.   Okay so my Lady is great and she does it all for me. What I really want is to do it for her. I want to give her great Oral sex but she is to tickleish down there. When I try and go down on her she squeezes her thighs on my head and screams due to ...

A.   22 June 2008: While your doing it, try to get her to concentrate on something else and focus of her breathing, to control herself. Maybe there is a drug or something that can help, im not sure though. If she's too ticklish, maybe stop for a while. Its a har... (read in full...)

Blonde, skinny, and beautiful--so why can't I find a great guy?

Q.   im young, blonde, skinny, and beautiful.(i'm not trying to be conceited) but i cant seem to find good a guy...im not sure if this is my fault or i just have bad luck?...

A.   20 June 2008: To duskyrowe: Some guys do find slim girls more attractive, as everyone has different tastes, and opinions. Im guessing your brunette and curvy, So its very arrogant of you to say men only like curvy women, and that red heads and brunettes are the ... (read in full...)

All the pregnancy tests were negative, but I have all the symptoms

Q.   hiya i didnt see my period for 2 monthes and took all pregnancy tests nd blood test cum back negative but i have all the symtoms.. but now today 15th june i have seen a period but it is very light and im having lodes of pains and feeling faint and ...

A.   15 June 2008: Well if you have your period, even a light one, your not pregnant. But if you are really concerned, go to the doctor, just to make sure. Lots of women have those symptoms during their period, especially the pain part! Good luck! xx... (read in full...)

I'm 17. He's 25. People say it's "sick" or just "wrong". Is it?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy who is 8 years younger then me, (im 25 his 17) We have been going out now for just over 6 months, but during this time we have had alot of people tell us that our relationship is 'sick' or 'wrong'. Is it really that wro...

A.   15 June 2008: I dont see age as a large factor in a relationship, unless its illegal, which in your case, its not. If you really like each other, there should be no problem at all. I would tell the nosy people to mind their business and to keep their rude ... (read in full...)

Most friends in my group have boyfriends, I feel like a loner. Any tips for me?

Q.   I just dont know what to do. I feel like a loner and I havent ever had a real boyfriend, just 2 elementary school ones. All of the other friends in my group have boyfriends except for the girls who (no offence) have really bad senses of humour and ...

A.   15 June 2008: Im going through the exact same thing, all my friends have fantastic boyfriends, and im left feeling lonely and sad. Your age isnt posted, but im guessing your 14-15-ish, so like i've been told, you have a lot of time to have a boyfriend, maybe for ... (read in full...)

What do girls find attractive in a guy?

Q.   what do girls/women find attractive in a guy? I'm going out all day with mates including lots of girls so its my time to shine. Any ideas what girls like? I know being funny is one. Thanks...

A.   15 June 2008: Funny Caring Sweet Understanding Attractive/clean Fun Just be yourself, and you'll do great! xx... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a partner to carry on 'pleasuring' after orgasm with it continuing to be enjoyable and then able to create another orgasm?

Q.   ...When i think i am reaching then achieving orgasm my heartbeat and breathing becomes faster, the sensitivity increases and there is uncontrollable, like, twitching of my legs and well the pelvic area, this seems to build till i get a tingley pins ...

A.   14 June 2008: After i orgasm i have to wait about 5 minutes to keep going, because im sensitive, and cant feel pleasure, straight after. I think you did orgasm, you've just been blessed with being able to have multiple orgasms.... (read in full...)

I fancy a guy I saw on You Tube, should I contact him?

Q.   I think I'm a little crazy ... here's why My friend told me to wacth a really funny video on Youtube of this guy and it ws hilarious! he had like 14 videos and he's soooo adorable !!! I got his myspace but I've never talked to him or met him...

A.   14 June 2008: Yeh def contact him! xx... (read in full...)

When I orgasm, there's no fluid! Am I normal?

Q.   Hi. When I'm having sex with my boyfriend or doing sexual things and I have an orgasm, there is never any female come. I know not all women can do female ejaculation, but I was wondering is it normal that my body just goes tense or should there be ...

A.   14 June 2008: Like you said, some women do, others don't. Completely normal. When i orgasm, sometimes i cum, sometimes i dont. Always feels the same, but its just extra to clean up. So your not missing out on anything! xx... (read in full...)

I will be staying a week with my boyfriend and want to make love for the first time!

Q.   On the 20th I'm due to go down south to see my boyfriend for the week. His parents will be away for the week too. So we'll be home alone. Now my dad thinks that we'll be doing something and keeps asking if he should get me some protection, just...

A.   14 June 2008: Well, to make it romantic, maybe a candlelit dinner, or a walk on the beach beforehand? Some girls bleed a lot, others dont. It differs on every person. Your very responsible using protection, but remember theres still a very small chance of it br... (read in full...)

I'm in a sexual relationship with my (step) brother! Is it love?

Q.   Hi. This is really awkward, but I don't have anyone else to ask. I am 16. My step-brother is 17. We have always been close, and have been raised as brothers since we were small. We started fooling around sexually about two years ago. At first, ...

A.   14 June 2008: I think since you are not blood related, it should be allowed. It's great that you have fallen in love, and hopefully all goes well for you. xx... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend talking like this when we are having sex?

Q.   I don't understand my boyfriend's language towards me sometimes. While we'll be having sex, he'll be like "let me hit it from the back" or he'll be like, "i wanna f***" it makes me wonder am i just someone he wants to f***. He does treat me well at ...

A.   14 June 2008: Some people enjoy dirty talk, others dont. Your boyfriend uses this language in bed, because he is excited. It's pretty harmless, but if you dont like it, ask him to stop. xx... (read in full...)

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