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writes:How do I let my boyfriend know he is doing a good job when he fingers me without saying anything? I can tell he's nervous and I just want him to calm down..Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): i think the best way to show him n let him know is moan;
also kiss him a lot after, tell him you love him if you do,
tell him what you like
and if you feel confortable and only if you do then
repay him by doing something back=)
dont worry and enjoy
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Moan.
It will make him feel like he's doing a great job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): well telling him wile hes doing it might make it more sexier, but i know you dont wanna tell him so another way is moaning or making faces sexy enough to let him know that you like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): if you aren't comfortable telling him...then you'll probably not ready for sex. but, there are ways letting him know without telling him. such as moaning, touching yourself, touching him...point blank...he wants to know if he is pleasing you and he's probably nervous because you aren't talking about it. so show him it pleases you and maybe please him as well...that's probably what he really wants
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 July 2008):
 Here are the questions I was referring to, also asked by a 13-15 year old girl.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-he-like-it-when-i-moan-or.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-moan--or-should-i-try.html
Maybe you should read those answers that this poster got, and learn from them?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 July 2008):
Honey, haven't you asked this question before in another format? And the one about oral sex?
Honestly, if your stated age is correct, then you really are a bit too young.
An older, mature person would simply be able to communicate with his or her partner to ask all these questions. Of course everyone is nervous at first. But if you are old enough and mature enough, then there's really nothing to be nervous about, is there?
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