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41-50,
*onie
writes:I'm 27 and vergin.Never had a girl friend or dated in yhe true sense of the term.I just xcouldn't strike the right cord when it cimes to women..I always end up talking crazy getting nervous and blowing my chances of finding a soul mate.What do you advise me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): Can't you even make friends with women you're not attracted to at all (like much older women, relatives, etc.)?
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reader, donie +, writes (9 July 2008):
donie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Pashanoodle's questions about anxiety helped because the repeated failures sure must have hurt my confidence in social gatherings.I'm reading some books and improving.Thanks Pashanoodle.
To the anonymus writer who suggested befriending women-I never got along wth women since my teens.They make me unconfortable.I can't but focus on the fact that they are female and i am male and....
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): Yeah, I'll have to agree with the post below me.
I'm 22, never had a girlfriend, but I did make some women friends. I lived with a woman, she moved in with me. She made me comfortable around women. Now I can approach women quite calmly.
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Your not the only one.
Its important that you understand, theres no time limit to finding your soul mate.
So when you find a women your interested in, take a deep breath, ask her how she is..etc.
If you get really nervous, trying making women friends first, so you can learn how to talk to women, and it take the nerves away.
When the right one comes along, you'll be fine!
Good luck
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reader, pashanoodle +, writes (2 July 2008):
 Dating is pretty nerve racking...most people can tell a tale of 'talking crazy' or getting too nervous, but that doesn't mean there is no hope for you my friend.
Do you suffer from anxiety, or social anxiety in general? Or is this 'nervousness' isolated to dates??
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