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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:what do girls/women find attractive in a guy? I'm going out all day with mates including lots of girls so its my time to shine. Any ideas what girls like? I know being funny is one. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Don't pay attention to what women say, look at what is working on them in reality.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Don't think you're god's gift to women. Arrogance is off-putting. Guys are attractive when they're upfront about what they like, happy to show they are quirky and different, can laugh at themselves, and can hold a conversation with a girl without constantly referring back to themselves or showing off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): contrary to what some might say, cocky sometimes helps. But there's a difference between arrogance and being cocky. So careful.
But to be honest, confidence is the only thing you'll ever need. Being funny is good, but if she likes you already, you don't need to be funny to have her laugh; besides, being the funny man is the hardest job to do; if you don't have a natural penchant for it, you don't have to be funny all the time. You want to be interesting, but don't be a clown.
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reader, Phoenix-Rose +, writes (15 June 2008):
Me personally i find any guy with a sense of humour attractiive. He could be quite confident but shy at times and nice looking but if he has a wicked sense of humour and a good personality and a softie at heart then girls will be falling at your feet
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Be honest to them, girls like it when guys tell the truth. Be a gentleman, open doors for them, that kinda of thing. Show them your seriouse and not just a player. But always be yourself never change yourself for someone. Good luck. Your young, you'll find someone!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2008): Yes, as you've pointed out, if you can make her laugh then you're in there! But unless she's particularly into it, don't go acting like a fool out to impress the lads - be funny, but subtly. Manners are pretty important too. You don't have to be stuck up or overly posh, but just don't eat like a pig and maybe hold the door open for her. Show her who you really are - smile at her, have a laugh, and if she looks upset go over and ask her if she's okay. Girls love guys that care about feelings too, and not just cars. But remember to be yourself, as this is what she will fall for most. Have a personality!
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reader, LaydeeOfSorrows  +, writes (15 June 2008):
 Funny
Caring
Sweet
Understanding
Attractive/clean
Fun
Just be yourself, and you'll do great!
xx
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reader, lolo89 +, writes (15 June 2008):
 personally me and several of my friends find confidence..but not cockyness attractive.
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